Sitting on their fat arses eating, is where they'll usually be, or hassling the wrong people, instead of arresting the real criminals, like they should be doing!

Age is just a number. If both parties love and respect each other i see no reason while it will not work.

I Gguess Christmas is not such a big deal in some parts of the usa. Imagine being cooped up indoors all day with a big turkey in sunny Califonia hahaha! No thanks!

nothing here.....sorry, no family here just another day.....might go down the beach for a swim.....boring....

I am more disappointed by number of players using online dating as a mean of hook up for NSA, FWB or whatever it's called these days.
They sound fine and act nice, but they never intended to be in a real relationship to begin with. That's why they are called players. It's just a game for them. Game of numbers.
I talked about this with my single and divorced friends... and asked them if anyone believes in love these days. NONE OF THEM SAID YES!:-(
So, if my friends laughed at me because of even mentioning love, what to expect from other people, especially complete strangers, men who can and will lie both online and offline just to get some freebies?
It seems that there are very few honest people who are not bitter because of their life experience and who want actual relationships.
Makes me wonder what kind of the world are we living in...:-(
Go ahead laugh if you think it is funny or call me whatever you like, but if easy come easy go has become a standard, no wonder there are more and more single people who gave up looking.

Well fair enough, but some of us just like to see our kids faces light up when they see their presents and rip them open. I honestly hope you have a nice time over the xmas and new year period and i honestly mean that.

I'm really irritated I had a couple of scammers blocked from my mail. Now I'm having to prove I'm a person to reply to people's mail. I'm pissed I should not be penalized for reporting these jerks. I've been the victim of a scammer and I can spot them a mile away. Why am I having to type in a code now before I can answer mail or send messages. I'm on other sites and I have never had that happen after I reported scammers.
Liz

did they say that you had to buy them cause I have an aunt that every year gives out home made gifts and some of the stuff she does is amazing

If you read a book chapter by chapter from beginning to end, then that's a story! Then you find another book- same title,different Author and read that, Somewhere in that story something is changed so you go back and re-read both, can't find it? Too much information to decifer or untangle. Here there bits and pieces given by all on a subject we agree to disagree on but showing opinions by others of situation they have heard about or relationship they were in! No i never told someone they were Fat to give myself an ego blast.No i wouldn't tell them they were a poor lover, just hope and try better myself. No i won't cheat or lie for or in a relationship. And Hell no i'm not kissing ___ for anybodys friendship nor anything else!! The op said short time not forgetting or avoiding it all together! there is a cool down period, then there is Controlling altogether!! There is always another side to a story and only one showed by each member here!! Its up to everyone to do their best not to be in any situation they aren't going to give or receive in a relationship and this topic shows what most try to hide about themselves!! And i'm not pointing a finger at you by quoting you here or answering your questions ask of me!! Besides this Horse has already been rode hard and put away wet!!(Topic) I'm done!!

Wait I shouldn't say that I might need me an 85 year old one night for when I get lonely

Adunno but if u married,then u need stay off of Mingle.

your right op sometimes in life being yourself is boring an those on line think that they can be someone else that their not boring ...
why change yourself is a good ? ... now their are many that you would like to see change like for instance murders etc ... but what if that is them being their self ... hard junkies ... sure would like to see them do better in their lives but they may be that till they die ... it really is like you can lead a horse to water but you can't make them drink... now recently meeting someone new being myself ... I was called a character ... I laughed it off ... really should have asked which one lol and some times I say things aloud I shouldn't ...so if you are not yourself then who are you really ... things may change but more then likely we our still ourselves ... or you are great at faking who you are... especially in person...

Age shouldn't matter..........Okay who am I kidding I can't see no 25 year old male turning on some Marvin Gay with an 85 year old woman (Something) just wouldn't seem right.

I tell myself that even though its lonely sometimes it is better than some of the relationships I see. Lying, cheating, indifference. I would rather be alone then to be in one of those. I keep busy at work, 2 jobs, and focusing on the small things I enjoy in life. Hiking with my dog, fishing, cooking on the grill, listening to my radio shows. No worries when I find the right one I will be ready.

Mine was a control situation, she thought her a-- was Gold so i figured if it was that good she should cash in elsewhere!! She fought the Court to keep me,even the Judge Disagree with her!!Anyone acting childish in a relationship (deserves) what they get. Anyone working at a relationship earns the others respect and devotion making the relationship work!!