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Topic:
old sayings ...updated
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My take on the frog/prince theory: you have to kiss a lot of dinks before you meet a penis.
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Topic:
DOES THIS PIC
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Is it your dog?
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An old bag that wants to feel like she still has it going on. If she's an old bag at 49, what, in your humble opinion am I at 55? Maybe you should think things through before posting them. |
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Topic:
Perfect Mate
Edited by
biglife
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Mon 09/21/09 06:02 PM
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D.P.
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Topic:
Perfect Mate
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Physical, mental and emotional attraction, as well as sexual compatibility are all important, but the deal breaker for me is whether or not they can hang with the family. I've been with too many women who I would not feel comfortable introducing to family and friends, and it's been a pretty reliable indicator that they were not a good match. well said... and I agree... if you are not able to have them meet your friends, your not really into them.. also, for me personally -- I need a woman who has backbone, is her own woman, and can hold her own. I believe strongly in treating a woman as a woman, but I have a stronger personality -- so a "meek" woman is not for me. Also, educated -- driven, of course being cute and stacked never hurts!!! 
Formal education is not necessarily an indication of how a person will be in a relationship. I know very educated ppl that can't function very well socially, as well as high school drop-outs that really have their s**t together in all ways. Not disagreeing with you, but an education does not make one smart in life. |
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Confused, need guidance.
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What about the dinner that we are supposed to have together? I set up the date for that before our second "date". And she said yes. It is coming up in two days. Should I even ask her if she is interested or just forget about it. You KNOW what the answer is. |
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Topic:
Infatuation And Love
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Love is based on reality, inftuation is not.
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Confused, need guidance.
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(Biglife) hahah no, of course not. I really do need a reality check. Thanks. Terry, this took me a while, but it works so much better. Use the quote feature so we know who you are responding to. And sorry, I forgot to welcome you. All the best. |
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Confused, need guidance.
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I re-read your post and one thing jumped out at me -- that you "are willing to do just about anything" to get her. Does that include being treated like ****?
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Confused, need guidance.
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I don't get what it is that you like about her so much. All you have shared with us is that you really like her, but what is it that's attracting you? How well she treats you?
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Perfect Mate
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Someone who wants the same kind of relationship that I do.
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Confused, need guidance.
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Terry, you might not like all the brutal honesty you're going to get from all of us, but you did ask, so here goes.....YOU ARE BEING TOYED WITH -- BIG TIME!!!! Don't mean to yell, but I wanted you to hear me loud and clear. Why are you allowing yourself to be demeaned like this? You are the puppet and she, the puppetmaster. We teach ppl how to treat us. You are showing her that disrespecting you is acceptable. I don't understand what there is to like about a person who treats you like you're a doormat, unless you see yourself that way. Run, run, run!!!!
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Topic:
Cheating
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problem with this....is i have been cheated on by every guy i have dated except one...some say its the guys i pick...but honestly i have dated all types of guys...bad boys to good guys....yet they all cheat....and it has always been with girls younger then me....this last particular one he had younger older didnt matter but there were a lot...i only know about 7 but im sure there are more....im not looking for sympathy...just answers because i cant figure it out on my own anymore.... Kayla...viewed your profile for clues on why this seems to happen to you with such regularity. Some might suggest that it isn't due to the kind of guys you choose to become intimate with. It's your generation. 
IMHO, many of us here on mingle2 who are a bit older than you (I'm 49...)are continually dismayed by the apparent widespread degradation of morals and character which seems to escalate with every new generation. There are shining contradictions to this in many individuals who make the news. 
Incidently, have you read the news lately? How many sports figures are in trouble with the law? How many celebrities are celebrities simply because of their looks, ABILITY to be determined later (Megan Fox...can she actually ACT? We'll see...), and how many of them behave badly in public?  And how many who CONSUME the "products" of these various celebs PUNISH said behavior by BOYCOTTING THEM?
What do they do instead? THEY BUY MORE OF THEIR CDS, TICKETS TO THE EVENTS THEY APPEAR IN, ETC.  This is a telling factor.
However, in contrast to other nations who actually REVERE those who are older and quite possibly a bit more wise, THE OPPOSITE is true in this country. We worship youth and beauty, and to be old is to be ignored. 
...and you're being constantly cheated on... 
Funny old world, ain't it? 
POSSIBLE SOLUTION: Get involved in community service...services for the elderly, the disabled, the homeless...and seek your new man in these environments. It's a start. 
VERY well put. |
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Topic:
SUNDAY NIGHT ROLL CALL!
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Recuperating from too much fun the last two nites.
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Topic:
ex
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I said to my ex after he left the way he did -- "Well, we're not together anymore, but we'll always have one thing in common -- neither one of us will ever be a man". Walked away, did my healing without getting involved with anyone. What a difference a year makes. Had to go through the whole process with the help of very loving friends. You're not ready to move on until you can think about him, what he did and the way he did it -- and feel NOTHING. Worked for me!
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Topic:
why?
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Same reason the rest of us can't. This applies to both sexes.
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Topic:
Out Of The Blue...
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First, I want to say that I am the LEAST homophobic person I know, but something a lil odd just happened to me on another site. I was approached by a woman (whom I've never seen before) who absolutely gushed about my profile & pix. On this site you cannot tell if they are looking for a gay, straight, or bi relationship & her profile told very little about her. She said she wanted to get to know me better & become friends... What do you do when approached by a member of the same sex when their intentions are not entirely clear...I do not want to insult this woman...but frankly, I didn't know how to reply... 
Ask her the proverbial question we al get asked a million times -- what are you looking for? 
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Topic:
I Need To Know !!..........
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I have heard that if it floats, you are eating too much fat, which makes sense, since fat will always make it's way to the top of liquid.
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I had beyond excellent customer service last month with my Cox Communications Technician I called up. Got a little hot in my apartment from the phone call... I don't know how it happened but I was blushing all over when he said stuff like "I am trying to use my tool to service you but it just won't let me in" And "It seems your router is not responding to my probes" Was he local? |
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Topic:
IMMIGRATION HELP!!
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Is he a good father?
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