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Fri 10/02/09 05:47 PM

It's the kind where the man is a gentleman; he tells you how beautiful you look, he opens the door for you, he pulls out your chair and stands until you sit/or stands until you're standing, you don't even have to think about paying for anything, and at the end of the night he doesn't expect or assume that he's having sex with you, instead, he tells you what a great time he had with you and wants to know if it's o.k. to call you again...


I have had many of these and I will say that being treated like a lady goes a long way in my eyes.

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Fri 10/02/09 05:33 PM

Tomorrow I have a 9 hour layover in JFK someone come and get me and entertain me. I am going to Amman Jordan,Beirut Lebanon and Tel Aviv Israel and I am not coming back until I have spent every last cent !!
Mike


Someone (won't say who) from this site shared with me that if in the Middle East you are eating at someone's house a loud belch is in order after the meal so as not to offend your host. This is a way of showing appreciation for his hospitality and great food.

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Fri 10/02/09 03:04 PM
When I'm not dating, I tell myself that next time, my head will rule, but once my emotions get stirred up after meeting that special one, I have been guilty of stupidly letting my heart rule. It's easy to make a wrong decision to be with someone solely based on what your heart is telling you. The harder part is being realistic about whether or not they are truly the one for you.

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Fri 10/02/09 02:39 PM

" you had better sit down ... you're not ready for this discussion "noway ... blindsided by my wife at the time saying we were done .... shocked ? you bet ... more shocking ?? was who it was with .... frustrated
certainly changed my outlook on trust after that laugh laugh



Trust is the hardest thing to give after being betrayed, isn't it?

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Fri 10/02/09 02:20 PM

Hellowaving , how are you ?flowerforyou .... sorry your Bruins took one on the chin last night ... noway laugh
My LEAFS lost in OT to the HABS ... drinks

sorry couldn't help itflowerforyou laugh laugh laugh


Flames won last night!!!!:banana:

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Thu 10/01/09 06:39 PM




She should have told me she was physically handicapped before we met.


did she have a hard time getting down on her knees or something..:tongue:


Please explain this post. I don't want to come to any conclusions without knowing what you meant by this question.


It's a joke for Ted..the one I quoted. Why does it matter to you?


It doesn't matter, I was simply asking for clarification is all. Hope I didn't upset you LL.

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Thu 10/01/09 06:19 PM
I like to savour my food as opposed to just eating it. So much more enjoyable that way. That applies to many things in life.

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Thu 10/01/09 04:36 PM
Edited by biglife on Thu 10/01/09 04:37 PM
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Save! Thomas!! a beauty.:tongue: drinker We shall hoist the Cup this year.Woo-Hoo!:heart: Boston Bruins :heart: laugh :banana: oops offtopic

oops offtopic and nothing personally sir , BUT ... areyou on CRACK ??.... anybody sho knows hockey , will tell you the CUP is coming HOME ,, NORth of the 49th ... to the Centre of the HOCKEY Universe ... T O R O N T O !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!rofl rofl rofl rofl


offtopic Sorry, too tall, Flames bringing it out west this year. Did I just burst your bubble? I do agree, though, T.O likes to think of itself as the center of the universe. The West is Best.

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Thu 10/01/09 04:17 PM

thats how I met my doll, on latex.match.com!!bigsmile :banana:


I have come to the conclusion that not only are you physically attached to Dolly, there's an emotional attachment too. I'm thinking we should just call her Patches. Waddaya think?

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Wed 09/30/09 06:16 PM


She should have told me she was physically handicapped before we met.


did she have a hard time getting down on her knees or something..:tongue:


Please explain this post. I don't want to come to any conclusions without knowing what you meant by this question.

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Wed 09/30/09 02:24 PM
Please realize that there are new people on this site that haven't yet posted 25,000 times. I believe that everyone on here has the right to start a new thread about whatever they want. No-one owns the rights to what can or cannot be discussed.

Do you think that new arrivals are made to feel welcome when they get shot down for starting a new thread about something they have never talked about on here? It's simple, if you feel a particular thread is redundant, ignore it instead of making others feel bad for daring to make their opinion known or asking for advice.

Let's give each other a break and play nice.

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Tue 09/29/09 06:17 PM

Ahhh, that self pity train on its way to personal doubt is just too easy to jump on my freind. We've all been there. Too much droll to handle? Step outside the box and discover yourself for awhile. Get the better job. Get the better life. Get the better girl. Your happiness is what matters. Can't take care of someone else if you can't take care of yourself type thinking.


Ditto. Wallowing in negativity is very destructive

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Tue 09/29/09 03:20 PM
Actually to call the accused "animals" is an insult to all animals. They don't treat their young this way.

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Mon 09/28/09 04:58 PM
This thread went exactly where I thought it would.

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Mon 09/28/09 04:45 PM


what is one man's drivel is just another mans old clothes


I'll have my go at it then.

I'm a fleabit peanut monkey
All my friends are junkies
That's not really true

I'm a cold Italian pizza
I could use a lemon squeezer
What you do?


laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Mon 09/28/09 04:42 PM

Sorry, but neither my heart nor my head gets what is being said here. what


You're not the only one. I'm outta here.

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Mon 09/28/09 04:24 PM
Yeah, I'm a sucker for big brown eyes, too bad I'm not into women though.

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Mon 09/28/09 04:22 PM


I've come to notice that ppl use the word f@ck like they would use "and" and "the". I'm no prude and have certainly dropped the f-bomb many times in my life, but it's not part of my everyday vocabulary. What happened to class? Do ppl not care anymore how they come across to others? Use it when it really means something, whatever the situation. I find that when someone uses it too often, it makes them seem like less than what they are, and it doesn't have the same impact it should have anymore.


**** it.


Well put!

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Mon 09/28/09 04:04 PM


I'm from an era where people dressed to suit the occasion. To church I wore a dress with 50 petticoats, gloves and a hat. But people had more respect back then.


There was a lot more respect back then, and I guess that's a large part of it.

I would also venture to say that we were a much more proud nation at that time. Perhaps that was a reason for some of the respect we upheld.

People today have too much and care too little. I think a big part of it is how our communcaiton has evolved, or things to distract us from communicating.

It just makes sense.. that one would be more respectful if he was having to deal with people for socialization and to get his laughs, etc..

more so than the guy who sits in front of a 65-inch LCD television on a PlayStation 3, or the one who sends text messages always, rather than speaking to someone or going around the corner to talk in person.

a lot of technology took place of social gatherings, sports, dancing, etc. people can have fun without being around another person for weeks at a time now. and when you see less people, you respect less.

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I DUNNO ITS 5:00AM.. maybe what I just wrote sounds like drivel. if it makes sense to anyone, let me know.. if not.. maybe I'll try and clarify later.


Perfect sense.

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Mon 09/28/09 03:42 PM


i won't ever date someone to whom i'm not attracted. why would anyone?

the attributes don't always have to remain constant, so long as there is chemistry and easy rapport.

i've never understood how wanting someone to meet your physical and emotional needs is considered shallow?




Exactly!

Within my dating experiences, there have been many "types" of guys that I've been attracted to -- that off-hand was not my "norm"; however, something about them did it for me!

I think on dating sites especially, we seem shallower because this is all on "paper" so to speak. On a computer screen the person has no animation, personality, or realism so their physical appearance is more of a precursor.

When we meet people in real-life the first time (rather than online), the chances of chemistry and the unexplained attraction has a much better success rate.



Bingo! I have taken the time to get to know men that I wasn't initially attracted to, yet got involved because of who they were. The chemistry grew out of getting to know them. I won't just turn someone down based on physical looks. Sometimes, the more I get to know them, the more attractive they become. The opposite has also happened, initial attraction is there, and then they open their mouth, and then I run for the hills.