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Sun 12/13/09 06:20 PM

My fiance's grandmother's last wish before she dies is that she wants her grandson to marry his babies' mother, he doesn't want to hurt her, but he loves me, and I dont think that she has met me yet. His mom and dad are the only ones who actually know me out of his family, and they want him to marry me because according to his mom, I'm more sensible, smarter, caring, kind and sweet and will actually take care of him and the kids, even though he has cancer. but the rest of the family believes that he should marry her because it's the right thing to do, and they dont honestly care who they hurt, even if he gets his heart broken and everything by her, it will be me, Jesse and his mom picking up the pieces if he should go that way. So tell me, should he leave me, and go off and marry someone that he doesn't love and give up his happiness, or should he stay with me, and actually be loved and taken care of like he is suppose to?


He should go where ever his heart takes him weather is leaving you to please his grandmother or being happy living by your side its his i don't think any parent what so ever should tell their child who they should love and who they shouldn't but unless they see something bad in you.

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Sun 12/13/09 06:15 PM
LOL i ment from the forum

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Sun 12/13/09 06:07 PM
believe it or not Dora the explorer theme song.love

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Sun 12/13/09 06:03 PM
...........WHERE THE HELL DID MIDGETS COME FROM!!!!!noway huh

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Sun 12/13/09 06:00 PM

noway were u sleeping with her after u broke up? do you have mutual friends that may of told her where u moved to? perhaps you had a listed phone number that may have traced your new address? but 3 days only? what did u leave your door unlocked in your maryland apt with paperwork sitting out of where u were moving to? did she have a key to your apt across the hall from whne u were dating her? i mean come on 3 days later u see her in florida? i guess she had to prep for that move herself right?


yeah i know no sleeping with her came up only a few times but it more like im depressed or she is she will come to me and talk for a while then if its her she lays her head on my shoulder and i feel relaxed and do the same then it leads into other things. as for the paper work and other stuff i have no idea i was out of my parents house for the first time the last thing on my mind was safety and yeah we have had some mutual friends

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Sun 12/13/09 05:46 PM




Well i been dating this girl for about 3 months then we broke up. it was kind of a thing where she was nice but i couldn't really end because she was the first one i like but did not like sexual.(i like a challenge in my girls.) anyway a few days after we broke up she moved in to the apartment next to me. she was planing on moving their before but because it was small she wasn't leaning in that direction. but for some reason she passed up a bigger apartment down the street from me cheaper and gated in pool with washers and dryers. well she was a OK neighbor until i noticed a plant it was big and ugly but right on the side of her door. now i say that because every and i do mean every time i came up the steps and walked to my apartment she came out to say hi . at first i thought i t was just me. but some of my freinds noticed it too but a year passed and then i moved away for school.now i never told her i was moving away for Orlando but 3 days later their she was. she knocked on my door i invited her in and we talked for a while then she left.she came back like almost every day after. so i left Orlando and when back now she said she went their because she hated Maryland and it was too much drama and ever since she was a little girl she wanted to get away.well im back in maryland and guess who i run in to yes she back and claims she misses it.Note her parents moved a way to cali and she only have 1 freind other than me that lives in maryland.


You might want to be honest and ask her something in a joking sort of manner like "Don't you feel it's kinda strange everywhere I go, you show up?, almost like you're following me?" Either she's very lonely for someone she feels is a friend and has no idea of her behavior (and some people are like that) and her intentions are simple, or she might be a little borderline...of something you need to be very careful of. Talk about her family...see where she stands with them. It might be a good idea if you get her thinking of going back closer to them instead of you- of which you might have been filling a space in her that she needs.


LOL i thought about doing that but then i was thinking what if she says something other than no . like ok look i love you and i dont want you to ever leave me. or something that might end up on the i i cant have you no one will


Then...you would def. have a problem, a big one. It's happened to other people, and not your TV drama sort of thing. Confront her.
hold on im going to wait because i guess i gotta grow some balls to do it.

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Sun 12/13/09 05:43 PM







Push her in a pit of used syringes, while watching the rats gnaw at her skin, while pouring acid over her body and watching her burn.....
indifferent
What? You wanted advice........


yeah but i dont hate her i just feel like shes stalking me if i did hate her i would tell her i love her then wait a while and tell her to go kill herself like real ******** do
Who the heck said you hated her? This is what I do with the people I like.......
wow i like pain as much as the next guy but the acid is kinda harsh...
I'm hardcore.......smokin
I'm more hardcore i watched Japanese porn

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Sun 12/13/09 05:38 PM


Ok say your in a at an event and you see this hot girl and she is dressed in a nice blue dress and you it barely covers up her underwear. now i poor unsuspecting me walks through the door.sees her look at he long shaven legs just nice and a little thick,make my way up to her nice perfect round booty and you can see her bra through her shirt. and like all guys you blurt out Damn! and she looks at you and smiles then i said sorry because that was kinda rude. so i like take a look at her get her business card and walk off. then this lady saw me and told me how rude it was to stare and the event is for professionals.i said yeah that's why i have this stand and my portfolio. and out of no where she here comes 2 of the security guards. because at this point shes ranting on about god knows what and i am just standing their looking stupid trying to side step away. then i guess she tired her self out. and walked back over to hell where she came from so i just walked out and came back in due to all the attention she caused.then i became the talk of the night. and the room split in two fractions one side she was a crazy ***** and the other was i was a horny nobody.

the weird thing is like at 12 when the event ended sexy lady came by and said rough night. and started to laugh i told her sorry i have eyes and its really hard not for me to look.she was like a laid back person thank fully and she didn't really mind because i gave her confidence that she looked good.



I kinda had a hard time understanding any of that


really umm try reading it in english that seems to work welllaugh

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Sun 12/13/09 05:37 PM

Women...hell, use ladies...girls even. Wemen is not even a word.


yeah my english sucks

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Sun 12/13/09 05:36 PM

Sounds like you blew it for whatever the "event" was for, but made a nice connection with a hot tootse.
well not really like it was bad for a few minutes but when i came back in and people stared talking to me they was telling me how much they loved the way i handled it. because most people would have just ran into the one sided argument. and got a few calls from people

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Sun 12/13/09 05:32 PM





Push her in a pit of used syringes, while watching the rats gnaw at her skin, while pouring acid over her body and watching her burn.....
indifferent
What? You wanted advice........


yeah but i dont hate her i just feel like shes stalking me if i did hate her i would tell her i love her then wait a while and tell her to go kill herself like real ******** do
Who the heck said you hated her? This is what I do with the people I like.......
wow i like pain as much as the next guy but the acid is kinda harsh...

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Sun 12/13/09 05:31 PM


Well i been dating this girl for about 3 months then we broke up. it was kind of a thing where she was nice but i couldn't really end because she was the first one i like but did not like sexual.(i like a challenge in my girls.) anyway a few days after we broke up she moved in to the apartment next to me. she was planing on moving their before but because it was small she wasn't leaning in that direction. but for some reason she passed up a bigger apartment down the street from me cheaper and gated in pool with washers and dryers. well she was a OK neighbor until i noticed a plant it was big and ugly but right on the side of her door. now i say that because every and i do mean every time i came up the steps and walked to my apartment she came out to say hi . at first i thought i t was just me. but some of my freinds noticed it too but a year passed and then i moved away for school.now i never told her i was moving away for Orlando but 3 days later their she was. she knocked on my door i invited her in and we talked for a while then she left.she came back like almost every day after. so i left Orlando and when back now she said she went their because she hated Maryland and it was too much drama and ever since she was a little girl she wanted to get away.well im back in maryland and guess who i run in to yes she back and claims she misses it.Note her parents moved a way to cali and she only have 1 freind other than me that lives in maryland.


You might want to be honest and ask her something in a joking sort of manner like "Don't you feel it's kinda strange everywhere I go, you show up?, almost like you're following me?" Either she's very lonely for someone she feels is a friend and has no idea of her behavior (and some people are like that) and her intentions are simple, or she might be a little borderline...of something you need to be very careful of. Talk about her family...see where she stands with them. It might be a good idea if you get her thinking of going back closer to them instead of you- of which you might have been filling a space in her that she needs.


LOL i thought about doing that but then i was thinking what if she says something other than no . like ok look i love you and i dont want you to ever leave me. or something that might end up on the i i cant have you no one will

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Sun 12/13/09 05:27 PM



Push her in a pit of used syringes, while watching the rats gnaw at her skin, while pouring acid over her body and watching her burn.....
indifferent
What? You wanted advice........


yeah but i dont hate her i just feel like shes stalking me if i did hate her i would tell her i love her then wait a while and tell her to go kill herself like real ******** do

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Sun 12/13/09 05:25 PM

First just let me say that THIS,,,is one hell of a story..
As I have HEARD MANY,,lol

So if I have this RIGHT,,,,First she moves in beside you,AFTER you BOTH broke it off..
Then,,you move to Florida and SHE follows you there,,,THEN you move back to Maryland,,and BINGO she does to....

And YOUR time span here is like what a year and a half, right..?

So,,,NEVER,,,it your being straight with-us here,,,,
have I ever heard of THIS kind of retractions,lol,,,
unless,,,YOU were still having occasional sex with-her?

First,,,is SHE RICH??

As to move back and forth like THAT,,and those distances,,,
it would cost her a lot of money as YOU said her folks were not there anymore,,,
Iam guessing YOURS our,,as to your ability to bounce back and forth like that?


But if its all like you said,,,,,,then she needs some help.
And just out of curiousty,,,HOW DID SHE ALWAYS KNOW "WHERE" YOU WENT TO???,,,,As anyone can up-root and NO CLUES to their WHERE'S?


I ask,,,because I disect the shlt out of everything,,fully,wink
Its just a ME thing,,,,lol
But if YOU WANT help,,,then,,I have to know ALL the FACTS,,,


I well her family works a funeral home. and maryland and cali has the highest death rates

we did sleep together a few times. but i never dropped the L bomb.


i went to collage and came back
collage housing 450 a month fully furnished totaly worth it


that's the thing i want to know how the hell she knew where i was going.

anything else feel free to ask dude

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Sun 12/13/09 05:17 PM

Push her in a pit of used syringes, while watching the rats gnaw at her skin, while pouring acid over her body and watching her burn.....
indifferent

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Sun 12/13/09 05:16 PM
Ok say your in a at an event and you see this hot girl and she is dressed in a nice blue dress and you it barely covers up her underwear. now i poor unsuspecting me walks through the door.sees her look at he long shaven legs just nice and a little thick,make my way up to her nice perfect round booty and you can see her bra through her shirt. and like all guys you blurt out Damn! and she looks at you and smiles then i said sorry because that was kinda rude. so i like take a look at her get her business card and walk off. then this lady saw me and told me how rude it was to stare and the event is for professionals.i said yeah that's why i have this stand and my portfolio. and out of no where she here comes 2 of the security guards. because at this point shes ranting on about god knows what and i am just standing their looking stupid trying to side step away. then i guess she tired her self out. and walked back over to hell where she came from so i just walked out and came back in due to all the attention she caused.then i became the talk of the night. and the room split in two fractions one side she was a crazy ***** and the other was i was a horny nobody.

the weird thing is like at 12 when the event ended sexy lady came by and said rough night. and started to laugh i told her sorry i have eyes and its really hard not for me to look.she was like a laid back person thank fully and she didn't really mind because i gave her confidence that she looked good.

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Sun 12/13/09 04:30 PM
nah girls like guys that can talk about something other than themselves and really hold a good conversation. just count how many references you put in about your self if its one paragraph and 3 sentences yeah you may have ****ed it up

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Sun 12/13/09 04:26 PM
Well i been dating this girl for about 3 months then we broke up. it was kind of a thing where she was nice but i couldn't really end because she was the first one i like but did not like sexual.(i like a challenge in my girls.) anyway a few days after we broke up she moved in to the apartment next to me. she was planing on moving their before but because it was small she wasn't leaning in that direction. but for some reason she passed up a bigger apartment down the street from me cheaper and gated in pool with washers and dryers. well she was a OK neighbor until i noticed a plant it was big and ugly but right on the side of her door. now i say that because every and i do mean every time i came up the steps and walked to my apartment she came out to say hi . at first i thought i t was just me. but some of my freinds noticed it too but a year passed and then i moved away for school.now i never told her i was moving away for Orlando but 3 days later their she was. she knocked on my door i invited her in and we talked for a while then she left.she came back like almost every day after. so i left Orlando and when back now she said she went their because she hated Maryland and it was too much drama and ever since she was a little girl she wanted to get away.well im back in maryland and guess who i run in to yes she back and claims she misses it.Note her parents moved a way to cali and she only have 1 freind other than me that lives in maryland.

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Sun 12/13/09 03:14 PM

:heart: Do you think that physical attributes are more important to maintaining a successful relationship or do you think friendship maintains a relationship?:heart:



friendship because no matter how good you are in bed it sucks to have sex then wake up and up with nothing to say then your relationship is going to be based around sex and that always leads in to cheating. and cheating always leads to every thing from a damaged car broken windshield and complete cockbockage

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Sun 11/29/09 05:47 AM

Just joined yesterday and wanted to take the time to say Hi to everyone,


Hello and welcome my you find the one you been looking for here on mingle and if not then i know your going to find one hell of a good time.drinker