I don't know what you look like..but, from what I've read from your
responses, I wouldn't mind dating anyone like you at all. You sound like
an interesting man. Hang in there...you will get lucky when you least
expect it..

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I base it on each individual person overall...But I hope they at least
talk sometimes and not just sit there in la-la land. I know I can't
handle men with greasy hair, or those thick scraggly beards..and one of
the criteria's are..they must shower and be clean.

I watched the news everyday on the OJ trial, and everything they had
before that...Yes, I honestly believe OJ is guilty. He had the best
attorneys and they got him cleared of it..plain and simple. That's
another major problem concerning our laws..if your rich you usually get
by with everything. But I know in the end they will pay dearly for what
they did..their money won't be any good when they die and they face
their final judge.

Is with you on that one..

Definately agrees with you Lakeman.... Sorry if I upset
anyone.

Yes, that's true. I'm sorry but it makes me sick sometimes knowing
criminals who kill innocent children, rape and kill women, kill people
who are doing their jobs and the criminal is fixing to be caught....they
have the law behind them, and they walk when they find a loophole. I
just can't see the justice in it.

waves my arms...I think I'm real..at least I was the last time I
checked.

I agree Sea and Native....My feelings are very personal on that one. I
know that whoever shot my husband will face God someday..but, I would
sure like to help them get there alot faster!! There are so many
innocent victims and it's so not fair to them nor their families when
they have to endure the grieve, but also years of waiting to see how the
courts will handle it, IF they even catch the ones that did it.
Sometimes the law turns their heads and do nothing which is another sad
problem.

The only wish I have right now is..I want answers, and the truth so life
can get better.

I have mixed views on the death penalty. I hate that my tax dollars go
to take care of those scum bags, and some are in there for life. In my
own opinion- I wish they had an island big enough to hold all the
muderers..., another island to hold all the molesters, so forth and so
on..and let those scums raise their own food, with no tv, no nothing.
They need jails like Germany has..just a small cell with a concrete
block to sit on, and small bunk bed to sleep on. Bread and water for
breakfast, small lunch, and small supper. No tv, no basketball courts,
no kind of entertainment whatsoever, and they are allowed 30 minutes
outside, then it's right back in the jail. No smoking, no chewing,
nothing !! Now that I know what it feels like loosing a loved one at the
hands of another...it makes it alot harder...in one way I feel prison
for them the rest of their lives, just so they will suffer...but then
again..I so want to be there when they take their last breath too. So,
therefore I am torn on that subject.

If anyone would like to volunteer to work for me this weekend..that
would be awesome..

You are worth more than that...let her worry about her own mistakes she
made. She made her bed, now let her learn her own mistakes. You deserve
a much better life..so think about you from now on.

I prefer older men, at least my age and older...

When I left my first husband I took all my credit cards and cut them up,
laid all my diamond rings on the table, and bought my own cheap little
car..and hauled tail out of there...my 2nd marriage we had it all
figured out. We had His and Hers everything..so no problem if it ended
in divorce. That was the fun part..His and Hers everything.:)

Once you are on your own...no one knows the right time...some it feels
right to start looking within a few days..others it may be years....it's
individually..... It's what the person feels inside their own hearts.

My late husband, and my ex both gave me their paychecks..and I handled
all the finances, groceries, gas, and if any was left he got it for
whatever he wanted. The finances were always on the table so he knew
exactly where every cent went to...My checks always went for groceries
and gas..mostly anyway.

Well...I'm doomed then...I have plenty of battle scars. I use to be
burned by cigarettes, and I have a bump due to my nose being broke 13
times, plusa knife cut, and glass cuts. All compliments of the ex
husband..had teeth knocked out, and jaw broken...so..I may as well just
stay hid in my house and never bother trying again.

Is still here..sitting quietly...