Alright!! U know for sure that your relationship would dissolve. You are
separated in the same house.When should one start looking for a new
mate? Is it:
(1) Now because if you wait till AFTER, you live in different locations,
you will now have to start the process that will or could take months
like 6 months? Should you not use that 6 months while you are STILL in
house with your enemy mate? People could say, no, because they dont
belive you. But could you not be living separately, saying you have
broken up, and STILL be with your so called 'enemy-mate?'
(2)Later when you have completely moved out and then NOW START THE
PROCESS?
(3) When you receive the divorce absolute which can take 10yrs.
A woman once told me that she is NOT giving her Spouse NO
divorce so that he could marry to a next women.

being separated is VERY different from still living together. I dont
think you should be out looking if you are still living with another.

oh well, you can look but don't touch. ask you lawyer what to do.

I'm with Tameka you should definately wait till you move out.
Why even be in such a hurry to jump in another relationship in the first
place, regardless of the fact your still in the house with your WIFE.
Pump your brakes boo lol.
Good luck!
I'm going through a divorce on adultry and I'm keeping my nose clean.

I'm with Tameka you should definately wait till you move out.
Why even be in such a hurry to jump in another relationship in the first
place, regardless of the fact your still in the house with your WIFE.
Pump your brakes boo lol.
Good luck!

Oh My Gosh Why Did that post twice lol!!!

Hello folks.

Hello folks! I am NOT asking about me. I AM ASKING ABOUT YOU?!

My self no one should be looking while in the same house I don't care
what kind of excuse one can give it is wrong dead wrong. After you move
out and you know for sure there is no going back then your free game to
do what ever ya wish.

Mmm hmmm Grieving sure your not talking about yourself. Lol I understand
your talking just hypothetically of course.

I think u should separate first, because if u don't someone might
physically get hurt

anybody know what a phising site is? someone trying to use my paypal
account

n/m aol was not letting it by so... called bank i guess they were going
to try to get my info ..nothing was charged so if anybody ever get that
pop up now u know

If you cant take the girl back to your place, then you know its not the
time to be harvesting the goods. When you're on your own, then of course
you can do as you please.

Yeah when does One START?

One does not start until the previous couple live in seperate
dwellings.

I went through a separation for two years...finally got my divorce last
may...lol what a time-line. I didn't really look cause I had an awfully
abusive marriage and I have two young children. I needed time to
rediscover myself or I would've been a horrible mother to this day. I
need it to feel like a whole person, but everyone has their own time and
it depends on how you feel, but I don't think, if we had actually lived
together, that I could've dated anyone. Doesn't seem moral.

Good Luck!

What is the right time?

Once you are on your own...no one knows the right time...some it feels
right to start looking within a few days..others it may be years....it's
individually..... It's what the person feels inside their own hearts.