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| Topic: Break ups: To keep or to return belongs | |
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So heres the scenario...
You are in a relationship and your partner leaves a number of items at your house(movies, clothes, game systems,etc).Your partner cheats and you end the relationship. Do you: A)Return the belongings B)Keep them C)Give them away ...and why? |
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i say c because what they leave behind after awile is your. right.
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NO, There not yours to keep or give away !! Keeping the things or giving them away will only provoke him and give him an open door to be in your space ( or face ! ) Returning the things will end part of the tie and help YOU move on So .... A |
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Place the items in a plastic bag outside your house. :P
Serious i would want the crap out. If he asks for it, make him pick up the plastic bag outside. |
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Never eep them and never give them away for at least a while. I would
say if he doesn't come to get them in a certain amount of time get rid of them. But you never keep the stuff unless it was jointly owned. Because it makes it seem as though your trying to hold on and gives them the belief they can come back anytime. I gave my ex back his car that he gave me for christ sakes just to cut the ties. |
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I would give it back. I wouldn't want to deal with them after that
situation. More than likely I would throw it back at them. lol |
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I would give it back... i know im still tryin to give me ex's stuff
back...i just want to get rid of everything cuz i still kinda love him... he has a new gf but he wont come get it cuz he wants to have me hangin on to him... |
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When i finish a relationship, i finish everything with this person,
every single thing that reminds me to him is out of my life asap. |
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I have to agree give the stuff back and I would do the pick up the bag
from outside thing because I wouldn't want to see them. If they refuse to pick them up then and only then would I drop the stuff off at the local goodwill. |
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he cheated? into the fire they go!!
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After a relationship ends, I always give things back...this way he has
no reason to ever come back to my house. If he doesn't want to pick up the items, I would call him and tell him to leave the car unlocked that I will put the items in the car or I will gladly bring them over to the next victims house :) |
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I say D sell the things and go out and party. he should have thought
about things before he cheated. My motto is u snooze u loose |
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yeah, I would throw all that shit away or something. Who cares what
happens to it if he was cheating on your ass. |
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I would just give them back; what do you want someone else's old used
stuff for? |
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I would personally box them up and leave them on my porch, outside door,
etc. Then I would call and have him/her come pick them up at a time when I am not there. I've actually done this. |
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I would keep everything and let him come and get it!! roflmao!!
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Keep them, tell him he's got X amount of time to come get them and,
after that, they're mine to do what I please with them. |
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 i'd throw every gosh doggin thing out in the street, wouldnt care what happends to his stuff... 
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 i say burn them 
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seriously id put them in a bag and bring them to his house drop them off
on his porch and then call him to tell him they are there..so ya dont have to look at them anymore |
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