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Mon 12/10/07 06:06 PM

laugh laugh u funny too


I try darlin, and I keep my straight jacket hanging up next to my bed! LOL!

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Mon 12/10/07 06:01 PM
clean stuff? Wow, I can't imagine "clean" after his feathers went 'a flying everywhere!!!



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Mon 12/10/07 10:47 AM
His name is really "Shirley".
(and his father is really you-know-who)

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Mon 12/10/07 10:41 AM
Mine is to marry the man I know I belong with.

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Sat 12/08/07 01:27 PM

Is really a redhead

NO! Not that!

She's really a CIA agent.

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Sat 12/08/07 12:45 PM
I've had the ones who want to "play house". I've got the children to prove it.

I am looking for a life partner. Someone who can share in all the trials and tribulations, not share his body with other woman, trust me as I trust him, look to the future for a life sitting in the nursing home together, and dying in each other's arms. Well, Geesh! I'm not asking for much now AM I? LOL!

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Sat 12/08/07 12:43 PM
is legally blind and doesn't have a license to drive!

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Sat 12/08/07 12:25 PM
I have never worried about pictures. It's nice to have them, but does not determine the person. In time, they will send one. I met my current boyfriend, not being worried about his picture. He finally sent me one, and if I had gone by it, I would have been out of luck. His picture did not do him justice. He was much more handsome in person, and to this day, is the sexiest, most handsome man I know.

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Sat 12/08/07 12:03 PM

Yes, shes always a very good mom. Shes just extremely inconsistent . Yells too much and doesn't follow through on threats.

Her boys are 12 and 13 and are starting to assert their own opinions and personalities.

She can be very self-centered and really quashes their efforts. It causes lots of strife.

She and I talked about it last week and I told her I thought it was neat how they were trying so hard to be men. She looked at it as rebellion.

Ill try to give an example:

Both boys beg her to take them to a specific park. She says no, for no reason, and takes them to a different one. There was absolutely no reason for her to do that except for control.

the boys got upset and asked her why she never considered what they wanted to do.

Her answer was "because I want too".

That, to me, was a perfect time to let them in on a decision and show them I respected them.


Honey, that's a contradiction of terms. You can't be a "good" mother and do what you say she is. This time is very crucial in her children's lives. Those ages require stability, and it's apparent she doesn't have it, or feel the need to have it.

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Sat 12/08/07 10:51 AM

Oh speaking of my son:

In his words:

"Daddy, maybe there are two Jens and we just don't know which one is with us today".

Hes 8. She has never treated him poorly. Shes a very good mom and he has never seen us fight, he just sees me being glum


There's you anwer.

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Sat 12/08/07 10:40 AM
grammy isn't REALLY a grammy. She's only 25!

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Sat 12/08/07 10:39 AM
I'm sorry, I had to re-read your post. I understand that you're not looking for advice. I guess the question is, what do you understand about this condition, and are you willing to compromise your emotional well-being every time there is an "episode"? Your son may not be able to understand her. There are many questions you need to ask yourself and I'm sure you have already done that.

How stable can she become with treatment? Everyone is an individual, therefore, it is not a question that can be answered. Has SHE even recognized any problem? That's the first question.

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Sat 12/08/07 10:36 AM
Bi-polar disorder came to mind about the first paragraph. It's difficult to deal with if you don't understand it. My twin brother has it and it's difficult. He is difficult. I haven't had a normal relationship with him since I was 12. He changed and we didn't know why.

It depends on what you want to do, and if you can really "handle" it. The mood swings are horrible. If she is not diagnosed, nor seeking treatment of any kind, it doesn't get better. Not everyone accepts their condition and "deals" with it. My brother has refused to recognize that he even HAS a problem.

If you want to be with her as your partner in life, researching and coping during her rough times will take a lot. It's a challenge that only you can determine whether or not you're ready. Most people who are bi-polar can live "normal" lives and function well. Some cannot.

I wish you luck in your decision. It's not easy, nor is it for her to live with this.


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Sat 12/08/07 10:25 AM
Hola Morena. Siempre estamos aqui. Abrazo!

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Sat 12/08/07 10:19 AM
He doesn't REALLY race slow...Omg!

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Sat 12/08/07 10:12 AM


I have lousy teeth. Dangit I need to kiss more!


Damnit Blanca you beat me to it, I was going to say the same thing lol. Ohwell lets go make out and make our teeth better devil :tongue:


My lips don't stretch that far...but my tongue might. lol!

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Sat 12/08/07 10:11 AM
SOME attraction by both

GREAT sense of humor....I have children.

Honesty. Respect, sincerity, and other qualities fall under the "honesty" category. You have honesty, you have respect among all other traits.

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Sat 12/08/07 10:07 AM

Sylvia

{{{{{BLANCA}}}}}...missed you MUCH!:heart: flowerforyou :heart:


You're not the only one! I miss you too gurl!!!!

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Sat 12/08/07 10:07 AM
I have lousy teeth. Dangit I need to kiss more!

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Sat 12/08/07 10:02 AM
Hey sis! As long as it's not in Oklahoma, or Utah. Bad scenes there. And I'm putting on my bulletproof vest too! My heart breaks for all those people who have lost their lives, and for their loved ones and families.

Ok, how about we skip the mall then?

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