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Sat 12/15/07 12:40 PM
I have, I would again, but don't need to. laugh

My honey lives about 20 feet from my house. love

But I think next time, I'd meet them halfway...that's fair.

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Sat 12/15/07 12:37 PM
Not sure...shutter hasn't talked to me for a while...but I'd sure try!

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Sat 12/15/07 07:23 AM
laugh That's great! Mine did almost the same thing...but tied her laces together!

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Fri 12/14/07 01:31 PM


Jura was secretly on the debate team in High School. His specialty? Debating boxers or briefs, granny or bikini.


The funny part, I was the captain of the debate team.laugh laugh

Blanca has been spotted peeping in windows @ the YMCA


That is TOO funny!

Jura keeps the comics from the bubblegum wrappers when he was a kid.

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Fri 12/14/07 01:24 PM
Jura was secretly on the debate team in High School. His specialty? Debating boxers or briefs, granny or bikini.

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Fri 12/14/07 01:12 PM
Country has a gum wrapper, coins, a business card from the woman he met last night, and the crumpled up phone number for the cab company he called to get AWAY from her!


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Fri 12/14/07 01:06 PM
Now Lex, why can't I find a MAN like that??? Geesh!!!

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Fri 12/14/07 12:52 PM
Soon, she will be out of money and needing it desperately to go home, since she/loved one is dying.

HOLD ON TO YOUR WALLET!

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Fri 12/14/07 12:50 PM
My father was an AT&T Supervisor for 45 years. He's now 87 with Parkinson's Disease and Dementia. He's a shell of the man who adopted my twin brother and I at 6 years old, but I wouldn't trade him for the world. He's the best man, and was the best father.

I wished he were an airline pilot though. Then he could take us anywhere we wanted. Ok, he still did.

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Fri 12/14/07 11:19 AM
I also have a 7 year old. She's going through a little of the same stage. She's yelling at her siblings more and basically copying what the older ones do.

If he's looking for "attention", he's getting it. It's the negative kind. My oldest daughter went through this. I didn't see the signs, or chose to ignore them.

When he does things to attract negative attention, it has to be only a small amount. When he's doing good things, the attention should be more. He will eventually learn that the good things extract better and more attention than the bad. It takes a while, but he'll get there. Postitive reinforcement. I wish I had done it. Don't pull your hair out just yet!

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Fri 12/14/07 11:11 AM
Cyber dating is just that. There is no possible way that you can "get to know" anyone online. You get a "jist" of who that person is/is not. You will never get the whole picture just online.

Writing online gives people power. Power to dream, and be what and who they want to be. It's easier than having to do it in person, and the imagination of some comes out! It's easier to lie about who you are.

Putting on the "best" face and only discussing what you want people to hear, is common. We all do it in one form or another. Unfortunately some of us are sucked into believing what others project themselves to be, fall for them, and find out in the end it's not what we want....they are not what we imagined. It's a chance you take.

Your profile isn't "who" you are. It's a scratch on the surface only. None of us could put everything about ourselves into the small spaces, or a lifetime of experiences either.

However, you are right in the observation that some profiles mean absolutely nothing. They say nothing. At least be honest about who/what you're looking for, and the ones who can't even admit they're MARRIED, need to go away.

Good luck to everyone.


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Fri 12/14/07 11:02 AM
I am most certaily NOT evil....but I can be ohhhhh soooo naughty sometimes!

(Sorry, evil twin again.)

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Fri 12/14/07 11:01 AM

You're not being selfish! You will find over time that what is good for YOU ultimately turns out to best for your child, i.e., you become a more well rounded individual and your children benefit from that. bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile


I couldn't agree more.

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Fri 12/14/07 10:49 AM
My father is 87 and has Dementia. I am not taking this personally. I think we ALL have just a little sometimes....:)

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Fri 12/14/07 10:36 AM

im a single mom with a 4 month old little girl. i'm working at least 40 hours. im only 18 and i have started dating. my mom thinks its wrong that im dating and that im not spending enough time with my daughter.

so what should i do? i spend a lot of time with her. i have her from when she wakes up to about 5 at night. then i get home at about midnight. and i have the weekends off. so is it wrong that i want to have a couple of hours on saturday to myself or am i selfish?


OML! Girl, I have been raising children for the past 24 years and STILL raising 5 girls. PLEASE take the time to do what makes you happy. Whether that's a nap, a movie, or a date...go for it! Being a single mother is not easy, but not giving yourself time for YOU, makes it worse. We start being "angry parents" and get worn out beyong belief. Your mother wants the best for you, and I understand that with such a small child in your care. As long as your baby is in good, loving and capable hands...take advantage of it every chance you can get! I didn't have it!

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Fri 12/14/07 10:33 AM

Dating sites are like marriage...everything seems so new and wonderful at 1st, then you get the 7 year itch wondering what the heck am I doing here?

Hang in there....
<---never been married, so doesn't know what he is talking about...:smile:


BEEN married, divorced, had children, and DIDN'T get a T-SHIRT!! DAMN!

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Fri 12/14/07 10:30 AM
I'm not sure what brought about that little burst of frustration...but that statement does not apply to everyone here. I'm sorry you feel that way.

I met my current boyfriend a year ago WITHOUT him posting a picture. Some of us don't care what you look like, but how you react.

I wish you the best dear.

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Tue 12/11/07 09:31 AM

Blanc sells blow up dolls to minors!!!


How horrible! I'm gonna tell on her! Damn, I AM her!

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Tue 12/11/07 09:05 AM
I was on a boat cruise in Sweden and we almost sank!

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Tue 12/11/07 08:51 AM
Hanna is really a model for Victoria Secret.

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