...and by your sweet expression I do believe this is true!

I CAN RELATE...
A certain female mingler and myself really seemed to click, at least for a while. We discussed relationship issues...divorce, cheating, how the roles of men and women have seemed to change, child-rearing, etc., etc., etc.
We seemed to agree on most everything. I was really uplifted that we seemed to connect on so many issues...
...and then...
...nothing.
She has a demanding job, but not near demanding enough to prevent her from just typing, "Hello...very busy...will get back to you very soon." This was the gist of her last email, but that was quite a while ago.

THE DOWNSIDE OF HONESTY...
She had seemed way too mature to have been playing any kind of game.
I had been honest in my last email to her (as we always had been...), bringing up some controversial issues. However...
...IF SHE'S LOOKING FOR AN "HONEST" MAN, THEN OBVIOUSLY THERE IS A DOWNSIDE TO THAT WHICH SHE SHOULD BE WILLING TO ACCEPT.
As I should be ready in accepting her own opinions...to be ready to "agree to disagree".
Who knows?

LESSONS LEARNED...
1) One really shouldn't take this "mingle2" thing too seriously...
2) Though I prefer communicating by typing (so there are few interruptions...), serious misunderstandings MAY RESULT, regardless.
3) Some people (men and women both) simply "wear their heart on their sleeve", and are dramtically easy to offend. What do you do after you've been dumped in a very cruel way by a significant other? You turn to sites like www.mingle2.com, of course! And you've got your "mad" on...
4) She may be married, and had been caught emailing you...
5) She could have met some untimely end...(sorry, but this could be true...)
6) Her long-lost lover might have made an unexpected return
7) She decided that she is, indeed, a lesbian.
My point is...

FORGET HER!
Heck, if you've been left wondering, as I was, FORGET HER! Don't put all your eggs in one basket. Hanging your hopes on just one mingler is very unwise. This is a gradual, seductive, psychological change which will reveal itself only too late for you, every time.
A mature man or woman should be quick to bring any supposed offense to your attention, so you may explain yourself and apologize. But not everyone can be expected to be mature. Just don't waffle on your beliefs to appease her.
She may be impressed enough with THAT to continue communicating with you.

I guess earthy is SUPPOSED to say, "Oh...how cute. This boy doesn't know how to have sex....well, OF COURSE I'll have sex with you!", or some juvenile nonsense like that.
I guess they've been keeping up with the Debra LaFave, Mary Kay LeTourneau debacles...
Debra LaFave:
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/14499056/
(...seduced a 14 year old boy...)
(This one is especially pathetic, where LaFave tries so desperately to cast HERSELF as the victim.

Mary Kay LeToruneau:
http://www.trutv.com/library/crime/criminal_mind/psychology/marykay_letourneau/1.html
(...seduced a 13 year old boy...)
As earthy would say..."how PERVY"...

I knew that was going to be a good one!

Me:
1)(...as mentioned) "La Femme Nikita"
2) "Dark Angel", with Jessica Alba. I think that show began the final slide with the episode, "Shortys' In Love". That was broadcast around the mid-nineties. This particular episode dealt with the lesbian character, "Original Cindy", and the return of an old flame, "Diamond". There was a kissing scene, and a cuddling scene; I just don't think the American public was ready for that, AT THAT TIME. Me? I thought "Original Cindy" was a great character!
Also, the writing seemed to loose its' way, trying to tie in some convoluted, mystical sub-plot of a prophecy and such.
James Cameron, a la' Mr. "Titanic", simply walked away from the show.
I'm actually watching it again in its' entirety as I enjoyed it so much the first time around.
I had considered writing some "fan fiction" continuation from where Cameron had left off, but I don't want the owners of the property to suddenly appear and say, "hey, great job! We'll take all this that you've done, and get this stuff broadcast!"

I try to watch reruns of that show every night on www.thewb.com, but the connection is so screwy!
They should bring back that show!

Are tarantulas good "girl getters"?
NO-NO-NO!!! For the record, I DO NOT have a tarantula!
I just wanted to say that!

Well, hi, Ind Prncs! What a pleasant surprise! This is not a birthday party, however. It's a party to celebrate absolutely nothing at all...the very best kind of party!
I'm actually planning one here on mingle for Saturday, Sept. 5, at 10pm, central time. I hope you can make it. Bring all your friends...there's plenty of room, and unlimited parking!
People can get pretty wild, too...
There's gonna be jello wrestling...so get your thong on!
Well, now that you're here, you can help me finish cleaning up...
(...it was one HE** of a party!)

You know, it's strange. The first time I saw "Meet the Fockers" was in a crowded theater on a first date. Both myself, my date, and the packed theater laughed almost the entire time.
I tried to watch it months later for a laugh...but nothing. In fact, I found certain aspects of it absurd.
>sigh<

The umbilical cord? Ohh...do you mean the mummified foreskin which plopped into the fondue pot?

oH...KRa*! iT'S 'DA COPS!!!
(trublu4u activates a pre-recorded PA warning...)
PLEASE EXIT VERY QUICKLY OUT BACK!
EXTINGUISH ANY FUNNY CIGARETTES!
CLOTHES ARE NOT OPTIONAL IN MY NEIGHBORHOOD!
MY POOL IS NOT THE INFAMOUS, PLAYBOY GROTTO!
THANKS FOR COMING...
...IF YOU'RE BUSTED, I'LL TRY TO COME AND BAIL YOU OUT!
SOMEBODY GET THOSE DRUNK DOGS OUTA HERE!
(OH, SH**!) AND TAKE A HOSEPIPE TO THOSE TWO!
(...notices couple behind couch) AND TAKE A HOSEPIPE TO THEM, TOO!
AGAIN, THANKS FOR COMING...YOU'VE MADE OUR FIRST PARTY A ROUSING SUCCESS!
DRIVE SAFELY, AND G'NITE!)
NEXT PARTY, JUST FOR PRACTICE: September, 5th, Saturday; 10pm...central time
SHUT DOWN TIME!

lolololololol!!!!!!!!!!!

GLAd u EnJOYed it....big HALo-wEEN paRTY 2 cUM!
dRIve sSAFE NOW!

HE GOT HIMSELF, ER..."TANGLED" IN MY ROSE BUSHES!
AN EASY CATCH, IF YOU HURRY!

WHO'S THE NAKED GUY ON MY FRONT LAWN!!!
HE'S VIOLATING MY ROSE BUSHES!
DISASTER TO COME!
SOMEBODY GET HIM OUTA THERE!

YAY! CAN I BUM A SLICE? WHOA...GIVES ME GAS...

nOW...Just WHeRE do YOU thInk YOU'RE GOING?
GROUP HUGGGGGGGGGG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

KEitH....THANGs 4 CoMIN...>HICK< >WRETCH!< oH...SOrry DUde...juSt seND me A bill FOR THOSE shOES!