i have a new complication now. one that could really change things.

i know who the father is if i am.

Really think about what U want. Do u want your x-fiance back despite of your feelings for him? Or do you want these other guys. Really think about it and its up to u girl, its YOUR life and YOUR future. U choose who is a part of it and who isn't.

for those of you who read my last thread about my worries and concernes with the guy that i am with you have some background. if not look for the thread subject "here's my dilemma"

BUT NOW I HAVE A NEW and MORE SERIOUS one....

i might be pregnaut....

i would wonder if we really had any sort of connection, or if it was an honest mistake

weird no. but it can kinda hit a soft spot tho.

it depends on you and how much affect their depression has on you and your relationship.

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age can matter in certain situations. but if you want to be with that person bad enough. how long they have lived on this earth will just be another number and will not have any foothold on your relationship.

being single is a chance to get to know yourself on a different level and getting to know pple around you without bein tied down

tell me where u live an ill kick his ass and give him a lesson myself.

i have been in abusive relationships in the past so i TOTALLY understand where you are coming from. i have also been in situation where my life was in danger and i had to do things myself because he was busy doing something better with his time.

and i know why you stay. because even tho he does all this to you somewhere in the back of your head you make escuses for him, that your not good enough to be without him, hes the father of your children, you in some way need him, you think he will change somehow or go back to how he was when you guys first met, etc.

but there are reason(s) that you are letting him come back and letting him stay and do this crap to you.

i was lucky. i got out. not many women get that chance. most die from their husbands/boyfriends hands.

please for the sake of your children and your life. i am asking you to please get out. because this affects your children more than you realize.

just tell her how your feeling and whats up and see where it goes from there.

na im good. dont like to share.

grieving;

me and my guy are in two different places at the moment. we have had bad things happen to both of us in the past. and while he is ready to jump into marriage i am not because of past situations with not only my parents but because of physically, mentally, and emotionally abusive relationships that i have had. And i have consulted many friends about this (because my parents dont listen to me about him) and they do not like him, nor the vibe that he gives off they think that he is controlling me and they want me to run for the hills. so does that mean all my friends are wrong? ( and just for your info... i have more guy friends than chicks so its men sayting that he is controlling not man hating women.)

aw. knoxman thats sweet.

jeremy!!! and will! i those guys!

ya i've dealt with that lately. people change and not always in the way we would wish they would go. but it is their own path in life to take.

i thank you for all of the advice.

and no i am still a virgin so there is no sex involved.

and there are no thoughts of suicide.

been through going with shady guys myself. id say that for the safty of her heart id keep her away from him.

present! lol.