What do you think is more important for you in a mate and why

Yes.

I don't think it can be one specific thing. Usually a sudden interest in someone rest on the very idea of what attract to you as a person. So it can be relatively varied to whatever particular mode that the person is under before he or she goes out aggressively seeking out someone.


Most of the time it is a chance encounter and all the things you have been specifically targeting for is counterbalanced by the sheer fact that you have been stunned by the person of your interest. Usually preference hasn't been materialized yet till you examine what you had experienced and infer on how you felt about it.

for me i would have to say the ability to talk to each other

I think it is a mixture of all of the above. They all work together one way or the other.

I assume you are asking what women are interested in. The answer is women are interested in alpha males, leaders. This is why so many fall for bad boys. Alphas and bad boys are differant, but also have many thingfs in common on the surface.

Hey Ray

Can you be absolutely wrong about that? I think you are.

Can you explain how many non-Alpha males succeed in winning the hearts of women? There are a lot of evidences backing that claim, unless you beg to differ?

For me, it comes down to the aquarium. Not having one is immediate disqualification.

honesty and respect

a "genuine" tolerance

For me, initially, I think it's not so much "looks" as in outer beauty.. More like a particular quality that inspires a fantasy ... a sly smile, a knowing glance that sets a scenario running through your mind. The perfect blend of mystery and familiarity.

yeah looks matter but i dnt care if ya outfit is worth $900 or 2 pennies as long as you take gd care of your body...personality is a must but a diva(tool for a female trying to relate) attitude i can do without...and that something else is different for each person,something u may loathe about youself can be what makes some one else love u...well thats just my 21 year old theory

LOL Do you have eyes? How many Rockstars have women fighting over them? Friggin Mick Jagger is in his 60s and still nails 18 year models. Sports stars are another example. These women know they can't ever hang onto to these men (unless they are really stupid). They just want a single shance to breed with one of them.

I use these example because they are out there for everyone to see. It's no differant for any real leader. Even the night manager at Denny's is sleeping with half the waitresses working for him.

I feel you dude. And quite a wise perspective for a old 21 year old.



What I am trying to say is that even non-alpha males can find his non-alpha female.

yes, some women will know they can't attract the "best" man and will settle for what they can get. But, the "best" men will have their pick.

Isn't it true that the best woman can too have the best pick? It is not like we live in Afganistan where women has no choice.

i dnt know what an alpha male is but i do know if keep it stright foward from the start you will get what you want..maybe not with every woman but it works time after time..and u dont have to be the bad guy at the end

Personality.......... looks fade!