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No problem Vivian and I didn't take it anyway, this is the place to let our feeling out and I love it. My problem is I let this **** back into my life after he did me dirty once and he did it to me again, so shame on me. I am more mad at myself than I am at him, and then he had the nerve to say give me some time and maybe it will work then. I don't think so. And he wasn't even all that, arggggggg.
 
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I think we need to get a couple definitions here. Friend with Benefits -- This would be a lady that I can feel very close to. Understands & accepts me, with no ideas of even trying to change me. What happenes behind closed doors, would be OUR business & ours only. If we chose to be intimate, the only strings would be rooted in "mutual respect. This type of person would be a rare & valued "FRIEND". Player ( or many other poss. names) -- A person who runs around looking for "multiple" Friends with benefits. This person wouldn't really be looking for friendship, just lots of notches on his headboard. Does NOT qualify for even being a real friend. Thought this might help with understanding this thread. Well Don again I must say that you are correct. I hate admitting that lol. Yes I think I am blending the player and the friend thing and I shouldn't be doing that. I still think you should limit how many partners you are benefiting though, you were the one that told me about the AIDs in our age group.I am all about not wanted to become anyones project nor would I do that to anyone I was seeing. I just got played by the same man 2x and I am really mad at myself for getting played and I knew I was getting played so shame on me. That's what has had me on a roll today. I need to step up my game or get smarter real quick. 
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Topic:
SINGLE or TAKEN? - part 13
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No ball and chain 
NO ring in my nose----sigh............... |
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I hear ya Carol plus you got to know who your are dealing with. People in their 50's are the ones getting AIDS faster than other age groups right now. I don't mean to get anyone upset ot insulted, whatever floats your boat about the friends with benefits.
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Edited by
sweetcheeks1956
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Mon 06/08/09 01:45 PM
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I don't think it is just men that do this, both sexes are guilty of wanted it NOW and not willing to put the effort into building a relationship. I think when woman are posting and they aren't bi-sexual they are speaking of their experiences with men. I'm not male bashing I love men. They can be very entertaining. 
I would also like to add that this "friends with benefits" in my opinion is another quick way to get laid and not have to give anything of yourself. Of course this is just my views. I am starting to think I will be single and alone for the rest of my life as I hate bullshxt and have less and less tolerance for it. I was trying to make the point that for me one friend with benefits would be all I would need but I don't think I wrote that. And I was being silly about men being entertaining. I been married to someone since I was 18 and I do know men, just making a funny. If I just want to get laid I don't have to advertise on the internet. Looking for someone willing to put time and effort into forming a relationship and it would be well worth it for them. The last time I was single I was the player and there isn't a game out there that I havn't seen or tried myself, want to do it right this time. |
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Topic:
SINGLE or TAKEN? - part 13
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Pete man and Becky I am so happy for you both, and I love hearing these kind of stories. I am feeling kind of bummed out today about these sites as far as dating so this gives me hope. I wish for you both only the best.
Kandy 
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Edited by
sweetcheeks1956
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Mon 06/08/09 11:00 AM
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I don't think it is just men that do this, both sexes are guilty of wanted it NOW and not willing to put the effort into building a relationship. I think when woman are posting and they aren't bi-sexual they are speaking of their experiences with men. I'm not male bashing I love men. They can be very entertaining.
I would also like to add that this "friends with benefits" in my opinion is another quick way to get laid and not have to give anything of yourself. Of course this is just my views. I am starting to think I will be single and alone for the rest of my life as I hate bullshxt and have less and less tolerance for it. |
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Edited by
sweetcheeks1956
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Mon 06/08/09 04:40 AM
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Yeah oh for the time you met someone in the real world in the real way. People actually tried to be on their best behavior, had manners and unless you were in high school, you didn't have to car wrestle. Girls you know what I'm talking about lol.
 At least back in the day they took you to dinner before trying to get in your pants.
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Rrrrrrrrrrol Call!
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Well I am up and have had 2 cups of coffee but at em has not happened as yet. lol have a great Monday all.
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Topic:
How many widowers out there?
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Things that make you go hmmmmmmmmmmm. Requirements for a friend. Kind a sad.
but good morning all. Kat, good to see your hangin in there, that's what I am doing also but getting a tad bit tired of the high school actions of the grown ups and I use this phrase lightly that want a LTR and put so many borders up they will never find anyone.
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You got that right shoes. And then everyone is moaning and groaning about not finding anyone that is REAL. Wonder why?
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In this fast paced world of ours is there anyone out there that is willing to take the time to try and find long term gratification. Can we just slow dowm and get to know each other? We are all so complex, and complicated and have personalities, why can't we take the time to learn that about each other. I would hope that my next relationship will be my last, how can I make such an important choice or how can the other person if no one is willing to ask the RIGHT questions of each other and to pay attention to who we really are? Sex questions do play a role bit in the first conversation?????
Just Venting Kandy |
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I am fast coming to realize alot are looking for someone to mold into what they want regardless of what profile says. Then we get the professional daters and the players. Now what is left out of the three groups above is who I would like to talk to. And out of them I smoke so thats is an issue and I have a 7 year old she is my sunshine but to some she is an issue so I don't know what that leaves me. Good luck all.
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Ok manO. just call me Kandy. How is your live one doing? Hope all is good, think mine was a professional dater it only last a short time to spot it and move on.
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Topic:
SINGLE or TAKEN? - part 13
Edited by
sweetcheeks1956
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Fri 06/05/09 01:45 PM
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Single
   I love to post but I think it might be getting me in trouble. Since I started posting more and getting around in the forums my friends on here have forsaken me.
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Carol you are always so kind. I wish you the same girl. You are to sweet, there is some man out there that is going to be very lucky to have you in his life. I get lonely and scared too. It's rough very rough.(((((((Carol))))))
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Just curious
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I knew that you would not be waiting on him girl. You are way to smart for that. Good luck with all your plans and dreams.
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Just curious
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His loss girlfriend. I think that is awesome what you do and maybe he knew he wasn't in your league. Better to find out right away then waste time on a lost cause. Then it's more than texting you lose it is your precious time. 
I think IndnPrnc might have something there. Dont you hate that, what are you wearing? Are you in bed? etc.etc. Actually Sweet I love it... Not b/c I'm a perv but b/c it shows their true colors.. I always say "give them the rope not matter how short and they'll eventually hang themselvs".. 
LOL So True, but what really torks me off is when you do play along you never hear from them again, phone sex and cyber sex is just gross.  I like the real deal.
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It's ok. It's a numbers game, just hope my number comes up again one more time. Would like to fall in love just one more time. Manofewwords I hope your livewire stays alive and hot.
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