Thank you Don nice to be back

very well said. ty

Sorry to heat that music but better to find out sooner than later. My guy and I at least spoke last night so there might be a glimmer still there. Seems to be feast or famine in the internet dating world. Being the troopers that we are we will continue our quest.lol. Have a great day and good morning fellow minglers.

Hi Everyone I'mmmmmm bacccckkkkk. That romance went down the tubes oh well it was fun while it lasted. Am I wrong thinking that people in our age group are looking for you to do or say something wrong instead of looking at what the is right? When I was younger you stuck things out even when you disagreed on something because you liked each other and were looking for it to work not looking for it to fail. Are we all so protective of our hearts that we won't take a chance on the one thing we all claim we are looking for? When I was single in my 40's it was fun, romantic and there was a desire to get to know each other. Now in my 50's it is all about cable tv, sex with no romance and making sure no one gets into their space. Thoughts anyone? Someone tell me it isn't all men please????
Kandy

Hi musichic How are you doing?

Thank you it's great to feel happy for a change hope everyone gets what their looking for .

Good going looks like you found a great one, funny how we were complaining about not meeting anyone on these sites that were worthy. lol My guy and I chat on Im if hes not here, I am not a big phone talker but we have plans for wed, friday and saturday. I keep waiting for the bomb to drop or the little cloud that follows me to burst but it is fun right now. Keep that chain going Treasa see him b4 you get pampered. Have fun gf.

Treasa I hope it all works great for you and for me but time will tell it always good at the start, lol. Thanks all for the good luck wishes I will keep you all posted of how it plays out. Good luck all.

OK THIS IS BIG FOLKS, I STARTED TALKING TO SOMEONE FROM MINGLE ANOUT A MONTH AGO AND HE'S LOCAL. WE MET AND GUESS WHAT? HE IS GREAT AND WE CLICKED AND WE ARE SPENDING AS MUCH TIME AS WE CAN TOGETHER AND ALL IS GOOD SO FAR. WISH US LUCK.

Saw you were getting ready to go on vacation, have a great time and most of all have FUN.....
Kandy

Yes I agree there are many of us that are guarding our hearts. I know I am. Hoping to find someone that will touch me in a way to take the guard down. But I have hit a dry spell big time on here, with the exception of one that I chat with. And he seems like a great person so hoping at some point to meet.

Single just like yesterday and tomorrow.

Well Don again I see why the name. I haven't been on here much so I thought I would put my two cents in. Is there any men out there that want a real relationship? They say they do but the actions and the words on paper are so far apart. Is there any hope of finding the one? When your in your EARLY 50's (ouch) is the social life over, are the dinner dates over, is romance over? I sure hope not. It's all about the quick everything isn't it? How can you go for what you want when it isn't out there anymore.

Florissant and St. Charles here.

I think since all the men I talk with live hundreds of miles away from me with the exception of one I will be single for a longggggg time. sigh!!!!!!

Do we have an interpeter in the house??????????

I try to live my whole life that way and I am far from perfect and there have been times when i didn't like what I saw looking back at me. But the last couple of years I like what looks back at me even threw all the tears and sorrow. I try to remember to hold my head up high and know that I am being true to me, and I will not compromise my believes any longer just for the sake of a companion. I no longer have the energy, desire, or patience for the instant gratification. But when I find someone, they will know the real me from the very start so hopefully that will cut down on some of the players and professional daters. Like always good luck all.

I am not being greedy just want one good man just one. One that is willing to take the time to get to know me and me him. Oh well... Carol what part of the world do you live in?

You two are so sweet and seem so happy that is great.

Thank you all so much for the sound advice. My husband has only been gone 5 months although the accident was in Oct 2007 and he never came home. I miss HIM so bad and felt so alone that the signs that where everywhere with this man didn't matter at the time and I never thought I would have to be single again. So yes leason learned and as I heal everyday and meet all you very nice people and am making friends of both sexes, I know I will be ok and I am started to be very verbal about what I want. Was hoping I would only have to go out with one guy and everything would be ok lol I have children from 34 to 7 and 2 grandkids 4 and 18 months. I have alot to deal with right now so you are right take it slow and try to open my heart again, scary cause it is broken not from the ****head but with my late husband. Thanks again all I really like this place and really like the forums.
Kandy