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How do i look?
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Hmm, you look like a man?
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LDR - Still possible?
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Hello. Long distance? How is Mrs. Long Distance and all those short distances between? Yeah, ok, Whatever 21! 
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LDR - Still possible?
Edited by
newg78
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Mon 10/17/11 07:19 PM
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Why are there so many asain woman on here trying to date american men? Don't get me wrong i love asain women but why should i spend thousands trying to bring them here, or travel half way around the world to see them, when there are plenty of asian women already here? You complain that these two men have not come to see you, have you made any effort to travel to them? What do you have to offer these men if anything or are you just looking for a free ride? FYI: These two men had so much from me. In fact I have offered the latter with the following: 1. Money for passport fee - CASH UPFRONT (but he never got one) 2. Whole amount for plane tickets 3. Expense-free hotel accommodation 4. Expense-free Wedding 5. Thousands of phonecards (when I was the one calling him) 6. House to stay when married, if he wanted to live in the Philippines 7. Last month I tried my fortune on getting a US tourist visa just to go see him, but unfortunately was turned down - US Embassy hates single people visiting the USA - weird but aren't we allies??? I just wanted to help, I knew this man has financial issues. But because of my great love for him, I was willing to give all. Don't get me wrong - I'm Asian but never asked a white man for a free ride. Damn, I'm just soo good :( |
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LDR - Still possible?
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LOL they both suck and are beautiful..But they can work
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LDR - Still possible?
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I'm wondering myself. I've been on several sites for many years and only one relationship. Guy was nice but we just weren't a match. I think I'll go for the meeting them in person, old fashion way before there was internet dating. Hope you have better success than I have. I agree, and thanks 
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LDR - Still possible?
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I'm not sure if this will still work ...
I've been in this whole online dating since I was 26, and have had 2 steady relationships - one 3 years, and one 4 years plus. Only thing that I haven't anticipated was the chance of meeting - both guys didn't make their ways to come and see me, though both have promised that they will. Both have financial problems, but I wonder why they haven't assessed their capabilities before committing on something - this what really makes my heart sink. For now I am giving my last try, although there's this one guy whom I have met face to face already, who likes me, but I am not sure about my feelings for him. Is it still possible to meet the One on here? 
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I thought he's the One
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Yeah I'm back, and thanks, Mikey and burgundybry
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I thought he's the One
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With everything you seem to have going for you I would think a guy did not get his stuff straight and seal the deall after a year of courting it would be time to cut bait and move on. Life is too short to be left dangeling. Good luck in your search. There are plenty of quality people on Mingle. Check out some of the forums. That is where you really find out what people are like. Make friends and you might have better luck. Yep, I guess I'm just too nice and I trust people easily, even without meeting them face to face. It's really sad - I have spent too much for it since LDR is known to be very expensive. I was even turned down with a US visa - a thing that added up to the frustrations. But well, I still know what the word "move-on" means, so life will go on. Thanks for those kind words.
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I thought he's the One
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I'm back here after 4 years and 3 months of faithfully communicating with the guy I met on here, and whom I thought is the One..... Sadly, things turned out to be upside down, and now I am sensing that the relationship won't go anywhere.
Now, should I say I'm free? - I'm loving the word "MOVE-ON"! I just wish all the best to everyone 
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To Gwen(Newg78)..
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Hey, yeah you still remember me? lol
So, how are thing with you? :) |
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Long Term Dating?
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I can't talk for him,,,BUT,,IF I was this dude,,and I was all about you for four years,,and you spoke of coming to try and see me,,,I would be doing whatever I had to do to make THAT work,,like saving money just for you to not have to spend all of yours and making sure the dates and times so I could be there when you arrived,,,IF he has not tried or given THAT any thoughts to make happen,,,THEN,,I would question his real heart?,,,For if it was me at his age and all,,I KNOW I could take a job on a boat that went to you,,IF I was really inlove with you or felt,,that YOU just were the one...? So be careful,,,,and be aware,,MANY PLAY,,,and even over four years of emails,,,he could be married,,or many things,,,as well as real with caring about you,,,but NO ONE DOES FOUR YEARS APART,,unless IN JAIL,,,lol because thats just wrong to be in for so long with never meeting each other yet?,,My thoughts anyway,,,I wish you safe travel and much good luck,,, I can't help it - just by reading your words, it makes me cry now  and I come to realize that you may be right. I have spent time, phone cards (hundreds of them now), even effort to take a visa fortune all for the purpose of seeing him. Yeah, sometimes I question his real feelings, I thought that he would take my patience into consideration but sadly I feel that he just took me for granted.
Thanks for your kind words, I really appreciate it - may be I am just TOO good for him? 
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Long Term Dating?
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no, you are not being stupid. four years is plenty of time for a man to save enough money for a trip. you just need to do a little more investigating as to why this dude is still sitting with his thumb up his butt. a man lucky enough to meet a woman as wonderful as you should have a strong desire to do whatever it takes to be with you also true could be he is married the usual reason for online disappearance acts.... I actually have no problems with his marital status, I have checked it since we first talked here lol. Have talked to his Mom who lives with him, and we been communicating day and night for 4 years. May be it's all money thing, but still I am hoping he could make it here before this current year ends, otherwise it's time to MOVE ON! Cheers! |
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Long Term Dating?
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Thanks, guys for all the consoling words. I know I still have time to think and a lot of time to enjoy my single-blessedness. For now I am over that visa denial phase and looking forward to my upcoming trips - I am set to go to South Korea by next year
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Long Term Dating?
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to expect you to carry that load financially is ungentleman-like - especially when it is his responsibility to meet what he is responsible for in a relationship. He needs to man up and do the right thing - sounds like you are getting scammed I understand his financial situation, he wanted to come too but he lacks resources yet. But for 4 years I've been expecting some progress and I guess I'm ending up frustrated so I tried my luck on that visa thing, and yeah in my own expense - am I being stupid?
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Long Term Dating?
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it sounds like he is OK with you spending a fortune on visas & travel, but he is not willing to do the same? don;t waste ur money Because he always reasons out that he is poor?
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Long Term Dating?
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I understand how you feel. I dated a wonderful guy from Australia for awhile but eventually we decided to just be friends because of financial situations we were never able to actually meet. Could you possabily appeal the visa denial? Best of Luck. :) I am planning to re-apply next year. The US Embassy in my country is very strict when it comes to tourists, and I think they hate single people to go and visit the USA since they presumed that everyone has immigrant intent. Yet, I have the potential to a second refusal
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Long Term Dating?
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Been dating (online)the guy that I met from here for more than 4 years now. I just got denied with a US tourist visa, and he isn't sure yet when will he come to visit me (in the Phils.)- is he coming?
I'm just so confused now
I am confused too. Your profile says you are from Florida. Where is he from? I'm actually from the Philippines, I put FL in my location since I thought I would be with him soon. Hope that explains
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Long Term Dating?
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Been dating (online)the guy that I met from here for more than 4 years now. I just got denied with a US tourist visa, and he isn't sure yet when will he come to visit me (in the Phils.)- is he coming?
I'm just so confused now
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Las Vegas to Seattle
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Anyone who has tried driving from Las Vegas to Seattle or vice versa? - How many hours?
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Time Zone
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Alright, thanks thanks!
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