any ladies out there in sacramento california area looking for a true frindship plus relationship,lol just letting you all know i am back

Oh yes I forgot patience, kindness, and a nice butt.

You could probably go into the success stories section. . .

katie is the poster, not the cheater.

And why it took me more than 4 years to get dumped, Dada? Is it because you stopped watching over me because you have been busy with your own love life? LOL

You seem to be misreading the posts.

Anything is possible. It's the probability you gotta worry about.

A while back I told you guys about a friend of mine who is "one great guy". Some thought it was cool that I was doing this and others I'm sure rolled their eyes as they do with about anything, always taking the slightly negative or critical view.

Well, I'm very happy to announce that my friend is one step away from the life time love he has always sought. How did this happen? It's simple, they both came together as open as possible. Money was not a main issue, nor was looks, nor was what is right or wrong about each other. In fact when they first met and he was seeing her and maybe one or 2 more on a first meet type of thing I told him that he needed to run toward this woman and let her run toward him and watch what happens. I've seen this before and it hardly ever fails. If a person is spending their time being picky over things that don't matter they might as well hang up their dating cap or get ready for a relationship that is going to be painful. Sometimes, many times we are so closed minded that we don't see the beauty around us.

When you were in high school remember how there were some in your class that you thought were hot and others not so much? After you got out of school and a couple of years went by you ran into those not so hot ones and said wow! remember? Well, open your eyes people. You are your own worse enemy much of the time. Dating today can really stink with all of it's fake seasonings. If your hungry jump in and prepare your food. If the ones you meet aren't ready for your level of maturity move on. If you happen to have a fast food date, so? Don't judge yourself or your love life by this. Maybe even getting dumped quickly could be the best thing that could ever happen to you. You don't know what's going to flip that switch for you and them so why try to analyze it to death.

Here's a way I know if someone is ready for a real responsible relationship. After meeting someone do you look at their negatives or positives? Do you see what you perceive as their faults to be something they need to change or something that has potential for them under the right conditions? When I see people always jumping to judge way before they look into the whys and possibilities I shake my head and say "long way to go".

You know what I think are the number one and two qualities in a mate over any other including looks? patience and kindness. If these two are genuine there is a beauty that glows around a person.

Hahahaha let me put it to in a different way,what is irl?.

WHY DOES IT HAVE TOO BE IRL?.

Uhhhhhhh

I did find my love here bro. Ain't getting married but, after three years we hooked up and it is outstanding. LDR's and meeting someone here can happen.

I am starting to think its not posible to find love here.Iv been on line dating for 5 years and have made some good friends but havent found love yet.5 years am i crazy? i new from the day i started liking mixed nuts there was some thing wrong with me lol.

Today, at the Thanksgiving I made some long distance relationships. My mom was explaining to the younger generation who I was and was explaining to me who they were. It was wonderful finding out who the new people were. And I got reacquainted with some kinfolk who look a lot different now.

Why are there so many asain woman on here trying to date american men? Don't get me wrong i love asain women but why should i spend thousands trying to bring them here, or travel half way around the world to see them, when there are plenty of asian women already here? You complain that these two men have not come to see you, have you made any effort to travel to them? What do you have to offer these men if anything or are you just looking for a free ride?