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Wed 05/20/15 01:05 PM
Edited by rug212001 on Wed 05/20/15 01:05 PM


When "the girls" start drooping that much it probably not your best lead.



Maybe a new version of Rapunzel.


Ouch, I think that might be a little mean spirited.

Depending on what it is you are looking for your profile might be just right. You will definitely attract a certain response. If you start getting the type of response you're not looking for, then you might think about changing it. It all depends on the type of response you are going after.

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Wed 05/20/15 12:56 PM
I have done the FWB thing. Worked well for a while or so I thought. Then she ended the benefits to have a serious relationship with someone else. I realized at that point that I couldn't be just a friend to her anymore, nor could I deal with seeing her with someone else. Sadly, I had to distance myself from her. It felt like a breakup to me. We still talk once in a great while but are not the friends we were before the whole thing started.

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Wed 05/20/15 12:39 PM
Thank you to all for the welcome.

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Wed 05/20/15 12:37 PM
I realize this post is a bit dated but I seen too much Intel listed. I have to give AMD a shout out.

Desktop:
Mint Linux 17
AMD Eight-Core 4GHz
8 GB DDR3
HDD's SATA3 72K RPM
250 GB
500 GB
500 GB
1.5 TB

Laptop:
Arch Linux
AMD Four-Core 2GB
4 GB DDR3
500GB SATA3 72K RPM

I really don't need all that power but I don't like to upgrade all that often so when I do I get the best available.

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Wed 05/20/15 06:13 AM
I have always tried to have respect for the person until proven undeserving. Their beliefs on the other hand I will disrespect all day and night.

I hold logic and evidence to the highest standards. Unless there is evidence and a logical conclusion from the evidence it does not deserve my respect.

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Wed 05/20/15 06:05 AM
A nice answer this question came from Matt Dillahunty -

"If there is a god, that god should know exactly what it would take to change my mind...and that god should be capable of doing whatever it would take."

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Wed 05/20/15 05:38 AM
If I could relocate then it might be different. I stick around here to be around my kids. Asking someone else to relocate seems ridiculous because they already have a life where they are at. So the whole thing just seems pointless.

Anyways, I wish you luck in finding someone that is everything you are looking for.

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Wed 05/20/15 05:03 AM
Honesty in one direction makes for a bad match. That is all there really is to it. Some people can't handle honesty while others can't seem to be honest. Luckily there is honest people out there.

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Wed 05/20/15 05:00 AM
To each their own....

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Wed 05/20/15 04:59 AM
Thanks!

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Wed 05/20/15 04:56 AM
Ah, yes I can see why that could be confusing. I have done the long distance relationship thing before. It's never worked out for me. Plus there just isn't enough contact. Once I'm really into someone I like to spend a lot of time with that person.

I have seen long distance relationships work really well. I say good for them and I'm happy for them. It's just not something that works for me.

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Wed 05/20/15 04:50 AM
I'll just put it this way. If you didn't live so far away, I would be messaging you now. :)

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Wed 05/20/15 04:48 AM
I could completely understand that. I can just imagine calling a woman I've been chatting with and she sounds like Fran Drescher. That would be a total mood kill.

If it really matters to you then I say be honest about it. If it's something that doesn't really matter to you then who cares.

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Wed 05/20/15 04:41 AM
Why skype? Why not Google hangouts, facebook video chat, or even yahoo. Basically there are so many ways it can be done there is really no reason to say I don't have skype or any of the others. It seems everyone has access to one of these kinds of accounts.

I can see many reasons to now want video right away. After chatting for a while I don't see why it would be a issue to do a video chat. That would be a logical step.

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Wed 05/20/15 04:37 AM
I try to be helpful but I have found some people really don't want an honest answer when they ask for it. lol

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Wed 05/20/15 04:27 AM
Please do not take this as being mean.

You do not have any description of yourself. While a lot of guys might still message you because you are attractive, I think you might have a better response if you give some idea of who you are.

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Wed 05/20/15 04:20 AM
Edited by rug212001 on Wed 05/20/15 04:22 AM

Oh I can cuddle in bed after uh you know stuff or just laying there in each others arms talking til the wee hours but my ear goes numb if I try falling asleep on his chest and I am a wiggle flopper in my sleep sometimes. I dunno I was married for twenty years so maybe this was too honesthappy


Lol that's fair. Nothing wrong with it.

There is no such thing as too honest. That is a rare quality that seems to be lacking in a lot of people.

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Wed 05/20/15 04:17 AM
Hi everyone,

I've been single for some time now and I'm done with it. So I signed up. I'm just an average geek looking for an average woman. Stop by and say hi, maybe we can get along.

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Wed 05/20/15 04:06 AM
@TMommy - There are many people that don't like to cuddle when going to bed. I have ran into a few of them. That has been a deal breaker for me. I also know others that think the same way I do.

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Wed 05/20/15 03:35 AM
90% of the time yes. However, there is that 10% of the time. 5% of this is normally when I feel like crap and just want to take some meds and pass out. While the other 5% is when it's hot a sticky. Who really wants to be snuggling when you are sweating butt off?

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