Doesn't matter what anyone is wearing or not wearing. What matters is there are men (and women) that have no idea how to behave. Then you have the sexist men (and women) that simply don't care how to behave.

Wear what you want and block or ignore the people you don't like. Not that big of a deal.

Personally, I never ask for nude pictures. Unless it's someone I'm in a relationship with already and it's something they would be into. To do otherwise is just rude.

Or at least men that don't mind older women.

I go for personality. Unless they are revolting looks don't matter. Then again, even people that know me well are surprised by who I find attractive.

Blood - In This Moment

Up next is Freak On A Leash - Korn

It's a heavy night. lol

Flowers? I'm not dead yet!

I don't know if younger people are on this site or not. However, I can explain why older guys would be messaging you.

They are guys and you are a very attractive young lady. There really isn't any more to it than that.

I suffer from chronic clinical depression. I have lived with this condition for most of my life. You can find the symptom list from a simple web search, but it does not really describe what it is truly like to live with this condition.

Most people know what it's like to get depressed. You lose a loved one, go through a breakup, or something of similar magnitude. Most people will get mildly depressed while grieving this loss. Then after a while they find ways to be happy again. Ways to move on with their life. With the passage of time most depression passes and people move on. Not me, or anyone like me.

I can't say for certain when my depression started. Maybe it was when I was a child and was uprooted from everything I knew to move across the country or a few years later having the same thing happen again. Maybe it was when I was a teenager and lost my best friend in a car antecedent. Maybe it was when I lost my first child. Maybe it was when I lost a couple more children. Maybe it was when my grandma died. Maybe it was when my mom died. Maybe it was when I lost my dad just a year later. Maybe it was when I left the mother of my children after 15 years together. Maybe it started long before I can remember and everything I've been through just added to it. Maybe it's just part of who I am.

Rather it is or not. I have learned how to deal with it and keep moving. It's not always easy, but I think it has made me the caring person I am today. So maybe some good came from it after all.

I don't hang out there. Too big of a city for my taste. I much rather hang out in small towns.

Thanks I do to.


awww thanks

I work there as well. Most of the people I have met there are alright. As for the town itself. Every place I go is alright.

True, but springfield isn't that far away and they have way better places to eat.

I lived there for many years. No it really doesn't. haha Raymond has a nice bar though.

I'm talking Litchfield to Springfield or about half out east.

Ok, this worries me a bit but go for it. Let me have it.

Contented? Oh, thats what I've been looking for. Someone to settle for me. I'm a catch damit!

Aren't the habits of someone really what makes them who they are?

I haven't seen that happen, but normally I get traded in for a younger model. lol

True, but many times you have to go through a few jobs before you can find one that fits. One you don't mind doing for the rest of your life, or at least until retirement.

First you would have to be sure there is such a thing as true love. I've been in love a few times. If true love means you never breaking up then I don't think there is such a thing. As people get older they change. Sometimes they change into people you can no longer say you love. I think the people that stay together for a really long time or even the rest of their lives are lucky to have found someone that grew into a person that is still compatible.

But hey, what do I know. lol

I always thought the best people to be friends with are the ones that will challenge you when they feel it's needed, support you when you need it, and not be offended when you do the same. Someone honest and not needy. Hmmm come to think of it that is what would make a good girlfriend as well. :)

I already do, I have a T-shirt that says

"Warning
The person wearing this shirt is on the edge and can insult you at any moment don't make eye contact or any sudden moves.
Stay Away"

Then would he really have been the right one?