Topic: rate me
Kandacy84's photo
Wed 05/20/15 04:11 AM
plz rate my profile

rug212001's photo
Wed 05/20/15 04:27 AM
Please do not take this as being mean.

You do not have any description of yourself. While a lot of guys might still message you because you are attractive, I think you might have a better response if you give some idea of who you are.

Kandacy84's photo
Wed 05/20/15 04:35 AM

Please do not take this as being mean.

You do not have any description of yourself. While a lot of guys might still message you because you are attractive, I think you might have a better response if you give some idea of who you are.
okay thank you, i appreciate that i am new on this site so i am now getting familiar with how things work lol

Kandacy84's photo
Wed 05/20/15 04:36 AM

Please do not take this as being mean.

You do not have any description of yourself. While a lot of guys might still message you because you are attractive, I think you might have a better response if you give some idea of who you are.
btw that was constructive criticism lol

rug212001's photo
Wed 05/20/15 04:37 AM
I try to be helpful but I have found some people really don't want an honest answer when they ask for it. lol

Kandacy84's photo
Wed 05/20/15 04:46 AM

I try to be helpful but I have found some people really don't want an honest answer when they ask for it. lol
and i appreciate it very much, so i wrote a little about myself go check it out and see if its up to par now lol

rug212001's photo
Wed 05/20/15 04:50 AM
I'll just put it this way. If you didn't live so far away, I would be messaging you now. :)

Kandacy84's photo
Wed 05/20/15 04:52 AM

I'll just put it this way. If you didn't live so far away, I would be messaging you now. :)
awww lol thats sweet thank you, why do ppl get turned off by one's location? anybody can get on a plane you know i just never understood why it turned some ppl off.

rug212001's photo
Wed 05/20/15 04:56 AM
Ah, yes I can see why that could be confusing. I have done the long distance relationship thing before. It's never worked out for me. Plus there just isn't enough contact. Once I'm really into someone I like to spend a lot of time with that person.

I have seen long distance relationships work really well. I say good for them and I'm happy for them. It's just not something that works for me.

Kandacy84's photo
Wed 05/20/15 05:25 AM

Ah, yes I can see why that could be confusing. I have done the long distance relationship thing before. It's never worked out for me. Plus there just isn't enough contact. Once I'm really into someone I like to spend a lot of time with that person.

I have seen long distance relationships work really well. I say good for them and I'm happy for them. It's just not something that works for me.
fair enough, each to its own, i prefer a long distance relationship, simple because i dont want to limtit myself to just ppl here where i live i prefer to explore and see what other possibilities are out there for me, but i respect your decision, hey everybody gotta know what works for them.

rug212001's photo
Wed 05/20/15 05:38 AM
If I could relocate then it might be different. I stick around here to be around my kids. Asking someone else to relocate seems ridiculous because they already have a life where they are at. So the whole thing just seems pointless.

Anyways, I wish you luck in finding someone that is everything you are looking for.

Kandacy84's photo
Wed 05/20/15 05:49 AM

If I could relocate then it might be different. I stick around here to be around my kids. Asking someone else to relocate seems ridiculous because they already have a life where they are at. So the whole thing just seems pointless.

Anyways, I wish you luck in finding someone that is everything you are looking for.
well i am not asking anyone to relocate we have to be on the same page and since i have no kids relocating will be a no brainer for me so thanks for your input anyways but the last part of what you said does not apply to me have a pleasant day.

PacificStar48's photo
Wed 05/20/15 08:27 AM
I would say it is a good profile. Could tweek it a little bit more.

You are cute as a button but the upward glow in your lead shot seems to wash out some of your features. It seems to contradict your stated age so I think "real" guys may think you are using a dated photo or someone else's. Not fair but your location makes your believe-ability a little rocky.

Think toward the end of your text you sound like you have slipped from being positive and informational to begging rather than inviting. Trim that back and you would be improving.

You are 30 and a student that is not terminal but you might want to sound like you are working on a career field rather than looking for a rich boyfriend and what used to be called a "MRS. Degree". I am a strong supporter of traditional marriage but most men seek like professionals want to know what they have in common and you are serious about contributing to the combined future.

Welcome to Mingle. Good luck.


SitkaRains's photo
Wed 05/20/15 09:47 AM
I would say your profile is good... I also have to agree with Star on this one.. Just continue to tweak it as you go..
have fun out here and be safe...
Welcome to the site

Kandacy84's photo
Wed 05/20/15 01:48 PM

I would say it is a good profile. Could tweek it a little bit more.

You are cute as a button but the upward glow in your lead shot seems to wash out some of your features. It seems to contradict your stated age so I think "real" guys may think you are using a dated photo or someone else's. Not fair but your location makes your believe-ability a little rocky. thank u very much for your feedback i do appreciate the honesty, about my picture i do look younger than my actual age so its no old or deceptive picture maybe it had too much light but if u check out my other pictures you will see. i do have 2 international diplomas from cambridge university in human resource management and effective business communication, i am not good at writing in the "about me " section at all i suck terribly at it, i just scribbled something this morning after it was pointed out to me that i need to write something there lol, i am neither desperate nor seeking a rich guy maybe certain words i had chosen could have been better, so to say that is so far from the truth, however i will review my "about me" and try to spruce it up a bit.

Think toward the end of your text you sound like you have slipped from being positive and informational to begging rather than inviting. Trim that back and you would be improving.

You are 30 and a student that is not terminal but you might want to sound like you are working on a career field rather than looking for a rich boyfriend and what used to be called a "MRS. Degree". I am a strong supporter of traditional marriage but most men seek like professionals want to know what they have in common and you are serious about contributing to the combined future.

Welcome to Mingle. Good luck.



Kandacy84's photo
Wed 05/20/15 01:48 PM

I would say your profile is good... I also have to agree with Star on this one.. Just continue to tweak it as you go..
have fun out here and be safe...
Welcome to the site
thank u dear, ill definitely revise it.

apathy7's photo
Wed 05/20/15 02:25 PM
You are such a sport and have a wonderful profile. I wont rate the same but I will definitely vote for one.

Kandacy84's photo
Wed 05/20/15 02:48 PM

You are such a sport and have a wonderful profile. I wont rate the same but I will definitely vote for one.
thank you :)