It's your man again 2Fly, I took a small hiatus but I'm back with the hot tea.In our society today is a cross balance between good & bad in a literal sense. We say we want a good spirited old school person with a sweet heart & shivery but in some people minds they want a risk taker, forbidden wills, & against the norm people.Okay, my new question is "Do Women Wants the bad boys or is there some woman still want a nice guy that we both know they finish last....lol? or "Can she find a balance between a bad guy with good intensions"? even some of the gay & Bi feel free to answer I want feed back from all. me, I consider myself a good guy with a bad boy mentality....so I'm a balance. so who do men become in your eyes to court you? again shot out to my opinions minions.,....let me know!

Give me one that is a little of each.. I want a man that can still function on their own.. But does not mind showing their heart... If they whine all the time they can pass me up.

What is funny is too many judge the ones that act and look like they are a bad azz. When many times in reality they have the biggest heart.

Then on the other hand you have some that whine cause they can't get a woman. When in reality if they would quit whining they may attract the same woman as other guys do...

It does not matter to me if they are what some call good or bad if they complain all the time they are unappealing to me from the start..

I want a good guy. Don�t need a bad one - I had more than enough of it in my life. If I ever smell just a lie, I�ll close the door. I think that I�m looking for the one of the million: smart, kind, completely honest - the one who will tell me all good or bad, but in a kind way with respect - that�s something that not so many people know how to do. One I could trust and respect him for his kindness and good heart. Strong character. And if he would have a bit of sense for humor and similar views - than I would know that I found my ideal of ideals.

Bad guys have nothing with which they might surprise me, as a matter of fact I got to the point when I find them simply boring. When I find out that somebody lied to me or did anything against me, it doesn�t make me angry, just bored:"Nothing new (sigh)"

But someone as above - that�s a guy that would never stop to fascinate me. It would be a blessing to have him in my life.

seems as if there is always debate when we use terms like 'good' and 'bad'

risk taking doesnt make one bad at all, for instance

I say I Want a 'good' man,, to me it means a man with integrity, respect and compassion,,,,but not a doormat

Id prefer the GOOD Man who has the confidence to not be too clingy but the humility to not be too pompous either,,,

A beautiful acknowledgement of the complexities of human love and relationships. Well done.



And yet women and men will seek each other out and look to each other in awe for who they are.