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Topic: Many Friends
pkh's photo
Sat 03/29/08 08:11 PM
Would you be upset if your partner had many friends of the opposite sex,that he was always talking to,and emailing?

itsmetina's photo
Sat 03/29/08 08:13 PM
depends are they friendly to me as well

zhiba's photo
Sat 03/29/08 08:13 PM
Nope. I have a lot more male friends than femals friends. The key is, to not let your partner feel left out, or make them feel you are hiding things or there is more to this than friendship

no photo
Sat 03/29/08 08:15 PM
why does it have to be a he? but since it is a he, he should be respectable to the one he is with and realize the field closed when the relationship started........

no photo
Sat 03/29/08 08:16 PM
No.. why would it matter? as long as shes only interested in me and I'm the guy she's with at the end of the day who cares?? jealously ruins relationships

hikerchick's photo
Sat 03/29/08 08:17 PM

why does it have to be a he? but since it is a he, he should be respectable to the one he is with and realize the field closed when the relationship started........


prolly cuz she's a she

hikerchick's photo
Sat 03/29/08 08:18 PM

why does it have to be a he? but since it is a he, he should be respectable to the one he is with and realize the field closed when the relationship started........


and friends aren't on the field, anyway.

They are on the sidelines.

hikerchick's photo
Sat 03/29/08 08:18 PM

No.. why would it matter? as long as shes only interested in me and I'm the guy she's with at the end of the day who cares?? jealously ruins relationships


I agree!

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 03/29/08 08:18 PM
most of my friends are guys. But I make sure they are aware i'm with someone and if we go out..i introduce him to all my friends

it's a matter of respecting each other. I would be a hypocrite if I had a problem with him having friends that are girls but I expect the same respect

willy_cents's photo
Sat 03/29/08 08:18 PM
My ex had lots of friends of both sexes and it did not really bother me, until the male ones became "friends with benefits":angry: Next time, she don't get male friends, I learn slow, but I learn goodgrumble

pkh's photo
Sat 03/29/08 08:19 PM

why does it have to be a he? but since it is a he, he should be respectable to the one he is with and realize the field closed when the relationship started........
I agree and I should of said or vice-versa

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Sat 03/29/08 08:19 PM


No.. why would it matter? as long as shes only interested in me and I'm the guy she's with at the end of the day who cares?? jealously ruins relationships


I agree!

I think the people who are mad about friends of the opposite sex are just insecure in themselves.

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Sat 03/29/08 08:20 PM


why does it have to be a he? but since it is a he, he should be respectable to the one he is with and realize the field closed when the relationship started........


and friends aren't on the field, anyway.

They are on the sidelines.

true,,,,and sideline friends can and will say things that your partner doesn't......:wink: :wink:

hikerchick's photo
Sat 03/29/08 08:20 PM


why does it have to be a he? but since it is a he, he should be respectable to the one he is with and realize the field closed when the relationship started........
I agree and I should of said or vice-versa


so that's it? You have to ditch all of your friends because you are in a relationship?

That makes being in a relationship even less enticing.

bad_girl's photo
Sat 03/29/08 08:21 PM
Men and women should be able to have friends of the opposite, just not for anything unless it is casual chatter or emails. It is the right thing to do

moman65672's photo
Sat 03/29/08 08:22 PM
yes

hikerchick's photo
Sat 03/29/08 08:23 PM



why does it have to be a he? but since it is a he, he should be respectable to the one he is with and realize the field closed when the relationship started........


and friends aren't on the field, anyway.

They are on the sidelines.

true,,,,and sideline friends can and will say things that your partner doesn't......:wink: :wink:


not if they are truly just friends. I would think that only people who are insecure and jealous would worry about such things. If someone is going to cheat, they are going to cheat, and making them give up their friends isn't going to stop them. People don't like to be caged and controlled; at least, I don't react very well to it. My partner either trusts me or he doesn't. If he doesn't then we don't have much of a relationship to begin with.

Jillybean31's photo
Sat 03/29/08 08:23 PM
If he told me they were just friends, then I'd have to believe him...any new female friends should, out of respect for our relationship, befriend us both. happy

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Sat 03/29/08 08:25 PM



why does it have to be a he? but since it is a he, he should be respectable to the one he is with and realize the field closed when the relationship started........
I agree and I should of said or vice-versa


so that's it? You have to ditch all of your friends because you are in a relationship?

That makes being in a relationship even less enticing.

not saying that at all.......friends can only be trusted so far, but true friends will not interfere or make things difficult in you and your partners life......that's my story and i'm sticking to it.......:wink: :wink: drinker

hikerchick's photo
Sat 03/29/08 08:26 PM




why does it have to be a he? but since it is a he, he should be respectable to the one he is with and realize the field closed when the relationship started........
I agree and I should of said or vice-versa


so that's it? You have to ditch all of your friends because you are in a relationship?

That makes being in a relationship even less enticing.

not saying that at all.......friends can only be trusted so far, but true friends will not interfere or make things difficult in you and your partners life......that's my story and i'm sticking to it.......:wink: :wink: drinker


no, they wouldn't interfere or make things difficult, but they wouldn't just go away either. Relationships come and go, but friends are for life.

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