Topic: How do I bring this on...
caamken's photo
Fri 03/28/08 01:03 PM


did someone say picture. I was waiting for a picture thread, finally one I can actualy understand, just like my library full of picture books laugh laugh laugh


ask caam...i think he's drawing it for his illustrations
but i only know how to draw stick peoplegrumble grumble


yellowrose10's photo
Fri 03/28/08 01:05 PM



did someone say picture. I was waiting for a picture thread, finally one I can actualy understand, just like my library full of picture books laugh laugh laugh


ask caam...i think he's drawing it for his illustrations
but i only know how to draw stick peoplegrumble grumble




reserving my comments to that in a more appropriate thread laugh

caamken's photo
Fri 03/28/08 01:17 PM
bigsmile

HasidicEnforcer's photo
Fri 03/28/08 01:20 PM
Edited by HasidicEnforcer on Fri 03/28/08 01:20 PM

I am certainly not saying that it's wrong to chat with someone that way. some like it, some don't. what we are trying to tell you is that you opened he door for it with masturbation. he may have taken it too far...but did he know the limits and boundaries after that?


No. He didn't back down after that.

There are some things I am okay with talking about. I, yes, joked about the Twins, Mr. Rightie and Leftie, however, he then asked me which finger, which I shot down.

However, when I told him "We are done" when he asked about my boobs, he continued.

It's called foresight. I had this feeling once he asked my measurements, he would be like a certain someone that has just joined this thread.

NNM.

I killed it as quick as I could. I realized after the boob comment that he didn't get the joking.

I blocked him shortly after, but not quick enough to be told in detail certain things....

Now, let's just put this horrible mistake behind me and go on.

maybe people will learn from this thread that there are unspoken rules and guidelines here and this will help newbies be aware of what happens if sh*t goes too far or that the other person doesn't know a sarcastic joke when it slaps them in the face....


I thank you all for your opinions.

I thank you Lilith, because I provoked you into giving detailed answers.

See, I played stupid and ignorant to provoke such wonderful responses.

No one ever noticed that there has never been a post quite like this?

Again, I thank you all who stayed on topic and enlightened future JSHers into the boundaries of JSH. Spoken and unspoken


Now,

Can we all say, "This is a test. If a real harassment had been issued, moderators would be notified!!!"laugh laugh

jtip1977's photo
Fri 03/28/08 01:22 PM
I like boobies

yellowrose10's photo
Fri 03/28/08 01:24 PM
ok...you blocked him. you don't have to worry. but you did bring it all up..even if he did gets nasty..maybe he didn't realize that you weren't into it. some people are and he may have thought what you said was an invitation

the vast majority on here has said the same as me. take it for whatever but if you want opinions..take them

but it seems (correct me if i'm wrong) that you came in here expecting everyone to rip the guy up.

i wouldn't have done that anyway because he's not here to tell his version

yellowrose10's photo
Fri 03/28/08 01:25 PM
I give up...she won't listen to anyone ohwell

Lily0923's photo
Fri 03/28/08 01:27 PM


I am certainly not saying that it's wrong to chat with someone that way. some like it, some don't. what we are trying to tell you is that you opened he door for it with masturbation. he may have taken it too far...but did he know the limits and boundaries after that?


No. He didn't back down after that.

There are some things I am okay with talking about. I, yes, joked about the Twins, Mr. Rightie and Leftie, however, he then asked me which finger, which I shot down.

However, when I told him "We are done" when he asked about my boobs, he continued.

It's called foresight. I had this feeling once he asked my measurements, he would be like a certain someone that has just joined this thread.

NNM.

I killed it as quick as I could. I realized after the boob comment that he didn't get the joking.

I blocked him shortly after, but not quick enough to be told in detail certain things....

Now, let's just put this horrible mistake behind me and go on.

maybe people will learn from this thread that there are unspoken rules and guidelines here and this will help newbies be aware of what happens if sh*t goes too far or that the other person doesn't know a sarcastic joke when it slaps them in the face....


I thank you all for your opinions.

I thank you Lilith, because I provoked you into giving detailed answers.

See, I played stupid and ignorant to provoke such wonderful responses.

No one ever noticed that there has never been a post quite like this?

Again, I thank you all who stayed on topic and enlightened future JSHers into the boundaries of JSH. Spoken and unspoken


Now,

Can we all say, "This is a test. If a real harassment had been issued, moderators would be notified!!!"laugh laugh


the funny thing is the title to the thread was "how do I bring this on" you were told under no uncertain terms how YOU did bring it on, but you want to give a lecture about how he was wrong.....

If the same had happened to me, yes I might get miffed about it, but I would also see that I entered into a conversation with a man about masterbation, which is an instant boner for men....I have guy friends who do not view me as a girl on most occasions, and if I enter into a conversation about masterbation with them.... well lets just say I imediatly become female to them once again....

So what do I do.... I don't talk to them about masterbation....then there are no issues.... the ball was really in your court.


krazykitty323's photo
Fri 03/28/08 01:29 PM
I think what you did was wrong. You led him on BIG TIME, and then just cause he asked your boob size you end the conversation, it makes no sense what you did. If I were him I would be pissed off at you for leading him on.

yellowrose10's photo
Fri 03/28/08 01:31 PM

I think what you did was wrong. You led him on BIG TIME, and then just cause he asked your boob size you end the conversation, it makes no sense what you did. If I were him I would be pissed off at you for leading him on.


in all fairness...she did say there was more he said but she couldn't post it

but regardless to me...she did open the doors

wiley's photo
Fri 03/28/08 01:32 PM
I always seem to miss the really good threads. ohwell

HasidicEnforcer's photo
Fri 03/28/08 01:33 PM

I always seem to miss the really good threads. ohwell


Yes, yes you do.

Maybe next time though....:wink:

caamken's photo
Fri 03/28/08 01:33 PM
bigsmile

yellowrose10's photo
Fri 03/28/08 01:35 PM

I always seem to miss the really good threads. ohwell


wiley...catch up

caamken's photo
Fri 03/28/08 01:37 PM


I always seem to miss the really good threads. ohwell


wiley...catch up
I don't like catchup how about just a little mustard

yellowrose10's photo
Fri 03/28/08 01:38 PM



I always seem to miss the really good threads. ohwell


wiley...catch up
I don't like catchup how about just a little mustard


:tongue:

wiley's photo
Fri 03/28/08 01:39 PM
Do I look like a tomato? You gonna step on me or something now? :tongue:

Rapunzel's photo
Fri 03/28/08 01:40 PM
please....happy

flowerforyou why don't you all post something nice in the soldier thread flowerforyou


:heart: http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/73647 :heart:


drinker & put your energy into something really worthwhile...drinker

yellowrose10's photo
Fri 03/28/08 01:41 PM

Do I look like a tomato? You gonna step on me or something now? :tongue:


grumble will you pop??? laugh

yellowrose10's photo
Fri 03/28/08 01:43 PM
gotta run

have fun...play nice..and carry on laugh