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did someone say picture. I was waiting for a picture thread, finally one I can actualy understand, just like my library full of picture books ask caam...i think he's drawing it for his illustrations |
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did someone say picture. I was waiting for a picture thread, finally one I can actualy understand, just like my library full of picture books ask caam...i think he's drawing it for his illustrations reserving my comments to that in a more appropriate thread |
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Edited by
HasidicEnforcer
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Fri 03/28/08 01:20 PM
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I am certainly not saying that it's wrong to chat with someone that way. some like it, some don't. what we are trying to tell you is that you opened he door for it with masturbation. he may have taken it too far...but did he know the limits and boundaries after that? No. He didn't back down after that. There are some things I am okay with talking about. I, yes, joked about the Twins, Mr. Rightie and Leftie, however, he then asked me which finger, which I shot down. However, when I told him "We are done" when he asked about my boobs, he continued. It's called foresight. I had this feeling once he asked my measurements, he would be like a certain someone that has just joined this thread. NNM. I killed it as quick as I could. I realized after the boob comment that he didn't get the joking. I blocked him shortly after, but not quick enough to be told in detail certain things.... Now, let's just put this horrible mistake behind me and go on. maybe people will learn from this thread that there are unspoken rules and guidelines here and this will help newbies be aware of what happens if sh*t goes too far or that the other person doesn't know a sarcastic joke when it slaps them in the face.... I thank you all for your opinions. I thank you Lilith, because I provoked you into giving detailed answers. See, I played stupid and ignorant to provoke such wonderful responses. No one ever noticed that there has never been a post quite like this? Again, I thank you all who stayed on topic and enlightened future JSHers into the boundaries of JSH. Spoken and unspoken Now, Can we all say, "This is a test. If a real harassment had been issued, moderators would be notified!!!" |
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I like boobies
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ok...you blocked him. you don't have to worry. but you did bring it all up..even if he did gets nasty..maybe he didn't realize that you weren't into it. some people are and he may have thought what you said was an invitation
the vast majority on here has said the same as me. take it for whatever but if you want opinions..take them but it seems (correct me if i'm wrong) that you came in here expecting everyone to rip the guy up. i wouldn't have done that anyway because he's not here to tell his version |
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I give up...she won't listen to anyone
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I am certainly not saying that it's wrong to chat with someone that way. some like it, some don't. what we are trying to tell you is that you opened he door for it with masturbation. he may have taken it too far...but did he know the limits and boundaries after that? No. He didn't back down after that. There are some things I am okay with talking about. I, yes, joked about the Twins, Mr. Rightie and Leftie, however, he then asked me which finger, which I shot down. However, when I told him "We are done" when he asked about my boobs, he continued. It's called foresight. I had this feeling once he asked my measurements, he would be like a certain someone that has just joined this thread. NNM. I killed it as quick as I could. I realized after the boob comment that he didn't get the joking. I blocked him shortly after, but not quick enough to be told in detail certain things.... Now, let's just put this horrible mistake behind me and go on. maybe people will learn from this thread that there are unspoken rules and guidelines here and this will help newbies be aware of what happens if sh*t goes too far or that the other person doesn't know a sarcastic joke when it slaps them in the face.... I thank you all for your opinions. I thank you Lilith, because I provoked you into giving detailed answers. See, I played stupid and ignorant to provoke such wonderful responses. No one ever noticed that there has never been a post quite like this? Again, I thank you all who stayed on topic and enlightened future JSHers into the boundaries of JSH. Spoken and unspoken Now, Can we all say, "This is a test. If a real harassment had been issued, moderators would be notified!!!" the funny thing is the title to the thread was "how do I bring this on" you were told under no uncertain terms how YOU did bring it on, but you want to give a lecture about how he was wrong..... If the same had happened to me, yes I might get miffed about it, but I would also see that I entered into a conversation with a man about masterbation, which is an instant boner for men....I have guy friends who do not view me as a girl on most occasions, and if I enter into a conversation about masterbation with them.... well lets just say I imediatly become female to them once again.... So what do I do.... I don't talk to them about masterbation....then there are no issues.... the ball was really in your court. |
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I think what you did was wrong. You led him on BIG TIME, and then just cause he asked your boob size you end the conversation, it makes no sense what you did. If I were him I would be pissed off at you for leading him on.
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I think what you did was wrong. You led him on BIG TIME, and then just cause he asked your boob size you end the conversation, it makes no sense what you did. If I were him I would be pissed off at you for leading him on. in all fairness...she did say there was more he said but she couldn't post it but regardless to me...she did open the doors |
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I always seem to miss the really good threads.
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I always seem to miss the really good threads. Yes, yes you do. Maybe next time though.... |
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I always seem to miss the really good threads. wiley...catch up |
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I always seem to miss the really good threads. wiley...catch up |
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I always seem to miss the really good threads. wiley...catch up |
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Do I look like a tomato? You gonna step on me or something now?
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please....
why don't you all post something nice in the soldier thread http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/73647 & put your energy into something really worthwhile... |
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Do I look like a tomato? You gonna step on me or something now? will you pop??? |
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gotta run
have fun...play nice..and carry on |
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