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Topic: Why are guys A**holes???????
katydid34 Joined Mon 08/20/07 Posts: 659	Mon 03/24/08 09:27 PM
I'd rather be told I don't like you.. at least it gives closure to your situation. Eh, I think this would just start a whole new problem. Like a guy will show me his pic and ask what do I think. When they know perfectly well they don't want an honest answer- they want to be told they're good-looking, whether they are or not. I told one guy he looked alright- to be polite, because to me, he was not attractive, at all- and he actually got mad at me! Told me he was hot. Told me no one had ever said he looked just alright. Told me everyone thought he was hot as hell. I was like gawd, whatever. So yeah, honesty doesn't always help the situation. I'd rather just ignore them.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Mon 03/24/08 09:30 PM
I'd rather be told I don't like you.. at least it gives closure to your situation. Eh, I think this would just start a whole new problem. Like a guy will show me his pic and ask what do I think. When they know perfectly well they don't want an honest answer- they want to be told they're good-looking, whether they are or not. I told one guy he looked alright- to be polite, because to me, he was not attractive, at all- and he actually got mad at me! Told me he was hot. Told me no one had ever said he looked just alright. Told me everyone thought he was hot as hell. I was like gawd, whatever. So yeah, honesty doesn't always help the situation. I'd rather just ignore them. I would just tell them that I don't judge people on their looks, because I don't.

andrew101888 Joined Fri 03/14/08 Posts: 2143	Mon 03/24/08 09:30 PM
I don't start problems.. I just prefer honesty.. I wouldn't care if someone didn't find me attractive or didn't like me. I'd just rather be told sorry I'm not interested then just be rudely left and then never told the truth.. it makes me wonder why she stopped talking to me..

Shaden Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 6118	Mon 03/24/08 09:31 PM
It's not all guys, just sounds like you had a bad experience.

katydid34 Joined Mon 08/20/07 Posts: 659	Mon 03/24/08 09:32 PM
I'd rather be told I don't like you.. at least it gives closure to your situation. Eh, I think this would just start a whole new problem. Like a guy will show me his pic and ask what do I think. When they know perfectly well they don't want an honest answer- they want to be told they're good-looking, whether they are or not. I told one guy he looked alright- to be polite, because to me, he was not attractive, at all- and he actually got mad at me! Told me he was hot. Told me no one had ever said he looked just alright. Told me everyone thought he was hot as hell. I was like gawd, whatever. So yeah, honesty doesn't always help the situation. I'd rather just ignore them. I would just tell them that I don't judge people on their looks, because I don't. But I do. :)

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Mon 03/24/08 09:32 PM
I'd rather be told I don't like you.. at least it gives closure to your situation. Eh, I think this would just start a whole new problem. Like a guy will show me his pic and ask what do I think. When they know perfectly well they don't want an honest answer- they want to be told they're good-looking, whether they are or not. I told one guy he looked alright- to be polite, because to me, he was not attractive, at all- and he actually got mad at me! Told me he was hot. Told me no one had ever said he looked just alright. Told me everyone thought he was hot as hell. I was like gawd, whatever. So yeah, honesty doesn't always help the situation. I'd rather just ignore them. I would just tell them that I don't judge people on their looks, because I don't. But I do. :) sad.