Topic: Why are guys A**holes???????
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Sun 03/23/08 07:46 PM

Internet relationships are usually more fantasy than reality.


This should be posted at the top of the home page of every dating site. Except eHarmony, where it should say "We need all your money."


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Sun 03/23/08 07:48 PM


Internet relationships are usually more fantasy than reality.


This should be posted at the top of the home page of every dating site. Except eHarmony, where it should say "We need all your money."




LOL about eharmony. No way I'd pay for a dating site. laugh

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Sun 03/23/08 07:49 PM
Haha, you every find out the answer to why guys are a$$holes..lets me know too.

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Sun 03/23/08 07:50 PM

I'd say anyone can be an @$$hole Some girl ims me today, rudely leaves and then doesn't even answer my email which I politely just asked why she left. Talk about a *****


Sounds like she might have had a real life emergency? The same thing happened to me today, I had to leave in the middle of a conversation- couldn't be helped. I certainly hope those guys aren't posting what an a@@hole I am on some forum. Sometimes you have to give people the benefit of the doubt, real life trumps the internet, hands down.

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Sun 03/23/08 07:51 PM
Edited by andrew101888 on Sun 03/23/08 07:52 PM


I'd say anyone can be an @$$hole Some girl ims me today, rudely leaves and then doesn't even answer my email which I politely just asked why she left. Talk about a *****


Sounds like she might have had a real life emergency? The same thing happened to me today, I had to leave in the middle of a conversation- couldn't be helped. I certainly hope those guys aren't posting what an a@@hole I am on some forum. Sometimes you have to give people the benefit of the doubt, real life trumps the internet, hands down.

no she came back and read my email.. she just didnt like me and didnt even have the nerve to say anything.. shes been online like 4-5 times since then cuz i kept looking at my search and she'd be offline then on

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Sun 03/23/08 07:51 PM


So in January I started talking all serious to this guy. He lived in Canada. Long story short, he dumped me about a month after we started talking, and without a reason. Then a couple of hours later he was talking all serious to another woman in the forums.


The day of Valentines Day, I started talking to another guy. He lived in Cali. He was amazing and I seriously thought there was a chance with this guy. WELL, there isnt one. He sent me a text tonight that said he just got laid by some chick. HELLLO? DID I HEAR YOU RIGHT? I turned down a date with a nice guy that lived here in IDAHO because of him.

GUESS WHAT ITS BEEN ABOUT A MONTH AND A WEEK. And once again I'm gonna be in a I hate men mood again.


I thought guys got more mature with age, but I guess there are A**holes at any age group

Why cant I keep a guy longer than two freakin months?
cant be going together online, not even after one meeting unless you both have accepted and agreed, your gonna get hurt a lot if you fall in love online and one or the other cant talk to other people,

plus if i'm talking to someone online and we are not commited, and the gal across the street needs some lovin, ****, i'm over there. Now if you have both told each other, oh yes dear, your the only one for me and i want you and none other, might be a different story, but i cant get laid by someone 1500 miles awaydrinker


and i still think you should meet more than one person, especially online before you try to commit. there are exceptions in all cases, still got to go back to the car buying analogy, if you buy the first model you sit in and drive, you may know what you want and be happy, but you could very well be disappointed and stuck with what you dont want


sharp, as much as i love ya babe, i dont completely agree with that. if you are "Talking" to someone you should be upfront and let them know that you are "playing the field" if that is what you intend to do. if that is out of the way and in the open then hey..what the hell...go for it. but if the other party isnt aware of the intentions, it could be hurtful to them and if you really care about them or like them, you could cost yourself something good. as for buying the first model...hell darlin if it feels good sitting behind that wheel, why waste your time and effort looking for something better, you may not find it. i think it is possible to fall in love online. of course, once you meet in person sometimes things are different. people tend to be different behind the comfort of a computer/phone and when in person are opposite of what you thought. then again, sometimes its even better. several years ago i met the one true love of my life via internet, before it was "the thing". we talked for a long time and decided to meet. he came down for 2 weeks from michigan and never left. we were together almost 5 years. unfortunately, things beyond our control separated us. very sad. but thats another thread haha :tongue:

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Sun 03/23/08 08:11 PM
Edited by s1owhand on Sun 03/23/08 08:24 PM


BUT........OK........WE NEED TO IDENTIFY THESE PEEPS JESS!!! YOU N i WEVE SEEN THEM...............BLABLABLA DID THE WHOLE NINE YARDS.........AND SHE IS YOUNG AND NEEDS TO KNOW.............ohwell



I agree... but when you wander into things 'with your heart on your sleeve', too quick to hand it over.... there's a signal given out... wounded animals give it out, which brings in the predators....

Learn yourself.... then be confident in who you are, then a suitor can earn you...

As you can them..

Giving it away... is just asking for a stomp on the heart...

Learn a little, earn a lot...

and hats off to you lonelyshorty, I know my delivery is harsh.... it seems to be heard better that way...

You are worth a real man.... so stop giving yourself to men who are less...flowerforyou


introducing professors Gypsy and Jess who will
be leading the class discussions today.

Prof. Gypsy holds the distinguished chair in Male subservience at Cabana University in the Carribean. She also is the top "speed lecturing" champ in our program and was one of the last women standing in the charity marathon dance-a-thon. She is president of the La Senza society and is on the board of McDonalds Canada and serves on the Canada-Las Vegas tourism council. Her well known emergency helpline 1-800-Gypsyknows is internationally recognized and has been endorsed by Oprah and Obama.

Prof. Jess has for many years taught the accelerated self-paced course on independent thinking for students testing out of the initial two years of relationship courses. A mechanic and playdough pastry chef by training she also is well known as the trainer for MacGyver in the televison show by the same name as well as the undefeated champion in the Queensland flashflood episode of Survivor. She continues to enroll record numbers of students in her surfists poets history curriculum.

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Sun 03/23/08 08:13 PM
wow s1owhand - I didn't know you could do that! flowerforyou

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Sun 03/23/08 08:32 PM
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Sun 03/23/08 08:34 PM


Internet relationships are usually more fantasy than reality.


This should be posted at the top of the home page of every dating site. Except eHarmony, where it should say "We need all your money."





laugh laugh laugh

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Sun 03/23/08 08:35 PM
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Sun 03/23/08 08:35 PM



BUT........OK........WE NEED TO IDENTIFY THESE PEEPS JESS!!! YOU N i WEVE SEEN THEM...............BLABLABLA DID THE WHOLE NINE YARDS.........AND SHE IS YOUNG AND NEEDS TO KNOW.............ohwell



I agree... but when you wander into things 'with your heart on your sleeve', too quick to hand it over.... there's a signal given out... wounded animals give it out, which brings in the predators....

Learn yourself.... then be confident in who you are, then a suitor can earn you...

As you can them..

Giving it away... is just asking for a stomp on the heart...

Learn a little, earn a lot...

and hats off to you lonelyshorty, I know my delivery is harsh.... it seems to be heard better that way...

You are worth a real man.... so stop giving yourself to men who are less...flowerforyou


introducing professors Gypsy and Jess who will
be leading the class discussions today.

Prof. Gypsy holds the distinguished chair in Male subservience at Cabana University in the Carribean. She also is the top "speed lecturing" champ in our program and was one of the last women standing in the charity marathon dance-a-thon. She is president of the La Senza society and is on the board of McDonalds Canada and serves on the Canada-Las Vegas tourism council. Her well known emergency helpline 1-800-Gypsyknows is internationally recognized and has been endorsed by Oprah and Obama.

Prof. Jess has for many years taught the accelerated self-paced course on independent thinking for students testing out of the initial two years of relationship courses. A mechanic and playdough pastry chef by training she also is well known as the trainer for MacGyver in the televison show by the same name as well as the undefeated champion in the Queensland flashflood episode of Survivor. She continues to enroll record numbers of students in her surfists poets history curriculum.
ahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Sun 03/23/08 08:44 PM
laugh laugh sad laugh laugh LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!OMG am falling offf myyy chairrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrlaugh laugh

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Sun 03/23/08 08:47 PM

laugh laugh sad laugh laugh LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!OMG am falling offf myyy chairrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrlaugh laugh
would that be the naughty chair????devil noway laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Sun 03/23/08 08:47 PM
noway noway WOW, YOU TWO,,,I had no IDEA.....
COOL.....bigsmile

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Sun 03/23/08 08:50 PM


laugh laugh sad laugh laugh LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!OMG am falling offf myyy chairrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrlaugh laugh
would that be the naughty chair????devil noway laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh



No I used it for firewood last time we were stuck out in the cold...devil devil laugh laugh laugh

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Sun 03/23/08 10:21 PM



I'd say anyone can be an @$$hole Some girl ims me today, rudely leaves and then doesn't even answer my email which I politely just asked why she left. Talk about a *****


Sounds like she might have had a real life emergency? The same thing happened to me today, I had to leave in the middle of a conversation- couldn't be helped. I certainly hope those guys aren't posting what an a@@hole I am on some forum. Sometimes you have to give people the benefit of the doubt, real life trumps the internet, hands down.

no she came back and read my email.. she just didnt like me and didnt even have the nerve to say anything.. shes been online like 4-5 times since then cuz i kept looking at my search and she'd be offline then on


Eh, I'd rather be ignored than told "I don't like you." But that's just me. To each his own.

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Sun 03/23/08 10:43 PM
I think I'd have to say to take some time before throwing yourself full force into these guys. And I'd probably talk to more than one at a time. The "I just got laid" text is a little bit of a jerk-off thing to do, okay, a big one, but unless you've had the discussion, it's not a commited relationship.

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Mon 03/24/08 06:18 PM
did you ever think the reason your unhappy is you choose the wrong guys?

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Mon 03/24/08 06:48 PM




I'd say anyone can be an @$$hole Some girl ims me today, rudely leaves and then doesn't even answer my email which I politely just asked why she left. Talk about a *****


Sounds like she might have had a real life emergency? The same thing happened to me today, I had to leave in the middle of a conversation- couldn't be helped. I certainly hope those guys aren't posting what an a@@hole I am on some forum. Sometimes you have to give people the benefit of the doubt, real life trumps the internet, hands down.

no she came back and read my email.. she just didnt like me and didnt even have the nerve to say anything.. shes been online like 4-5 times since then cuz i kept looking at my search and she'd be offline then on


Eh, I'd rather be ignored than told "I don't like you." But that's just me. To each his own.

I'd rather be told I don't like you.. at least it gives closure to your situation.