You could be doing the whole "once you get to know them you start questioning their every move and now they have to answer for everything" thing that some of us tend to do... you know, the one that none of us want to admit to doing? That's a real turn off for guys. They want to have their freedom AND know that someone wants to be with them.

If this planet was more like Endor, home of the Ewoks you wouldnt have this problem Shorty.

Very funny Mirror

you need to figure out what it is about the guys you date that you don't like first...then change it

you can't blame all guys. Only you can change yourself, can't change others.

No one has the power to make you feel something. you feel it. use your fellings and do something positive with it instead of blaming others


my 2 cents

Yeah, what can I change if I dont know what to change or what I did wrong? Most people arent that honest and will not say oh hey I didnt like when you did this or this.

And yeah I am blaming him b/c he could have chosen not to sleep with her.

Love is a 2 way street,,,, I love and not returned,,,I am not going to die over it,,,, Move on,,,, If you are the good person then you will win in the end,,,,,

ummm....okay i can say the same for women too yanno...

You will get out of life what life you LET it take, and give.
If you think your going to find the perfect dude for YOU in one or two or three dates,,,HELLO???
Only if your extremly BLESSED..
It takes ALOT of tries to find YOUR "RIGHT" guy..

No, he had no choice LS. sex to us, is the equivalent of what kryptonite is to Superman.....

The day of Valentines Day, I started talking to another guy. He lived in Cali. He was amazing and I seriously thought there was a chance with this guy.

again...YOU thought there was a chance. some people lie...it's life and you have to learn from it. YOU thought there was a chance so you can't blame him for what he does.

we all have choices in life (whether we like the choices or not)

you can chose to find another way to meet people closer to you so You can tell by their actions if they are right for you. You can't always tell over the internet

FOCUS tears...that was said 2 times now already

"Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results."
Albert Einstein

I'm in a quote mood today

lol i am focusing on stopping someone to get an ape in my bedroom

then stop keeping the nanas in your room

no nanas lol sheesh

I think that actually you quite enjoy being the victim, and blaming men for all your woes...it's easier than having to look at your own faults...

there has been good advice here for you. You can choce to take the advice or not

I'm not minimizing your feelings...just trying to tell you to rethink your choices.

Yea well everyone's not that same.

That wasnt any kinda hint though lol

You should've asked

Why are SOME guys and girls assholes?

JMO