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| Topic: Why are guys A**holes??????? | |
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Im sorry but you cant expect a guy in another state or country to be in a serious relationship with someone they have never met. Its just not realistic... try someone closer you can actually meet! The problem is that NO guy from my state talks to me.  Well execpt for the Captain but hes taken. Dammit I wish I lived closer to Mirror 
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I wonder if the guy I turned down still wants to go out.... I'd suggest not telling Turned Down Guy that he's the consolation prize.... JMNSHO |
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Interesting. . .
I've been called @sshole for different reasons. Sometimes I was trying to ne one, other times. . . |
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Well, lets see, I dated a 23 year old for about a week, and then he disappeared. Now this guy is 30 and hes an a**hole. I think my biggest problem is that I wear my heart on my sleeves and I cant help it. I wonder if the guy I turned down still wants to go out.... seriously???? then you are no better than the guys you complain about. that isn't fair to the first guy that you put on the back burner. and you would be doing exactly what you are complaining about |
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Basically what I'm hearing is you're desperate for anyone?
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Well, lets see, I dated a 23 year old for about a week, and then he disappeared. Now this guy is 30 and hes an a**hole. I think my biggest problem is that I wear my heart on my sleeves and I cant help it. I wonder if the guy I turned down still wants to go out.... seriously???? then you are no better than the guys you complain about. that isn't fair to the first guy that you put on the back burner. and you would be doing exactly what you are complaining about I said the same thing, sort of.. LOL <smirk> |
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can that question be asked the other way around? i believe in the equality of the sexes. and i also believe in the non-generalization of bad experiences. i said the same i did not read it. i just read the op well then FOCUS  cool beans now that i think better it would not be so hard FOCUSING in you 
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Well, lets see, I dated a 23 year old for about a week, and then he disappeared. Now this guy is 30 and hes an a**hole. I think my biggest problem is that I wear my heart on my sleeves and I cant help it. I wonder if the guy I turned down still wants to go out.... seriously???? then you are no better than the guys you complain about. that isn't fair to the first guy that you put on the back burner. and you would be doing exactly what you are complaining about I said the same thing, sort of.. LOL <smirk> which is why i said what i did...backing you up but it's different in my case...not sure why but give me time and I'll think of a good excuse
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Well, lets see, I dated a 23 year old for about a week, and then he disappeared. Now this guy is 30 and hes an a**hole. I think my biggest problem is that I wear my heart on my sleeves and I cant help it. I wonder if the guy I turned down still wants to go out.... seriously???? then you are no better than the guys you complain about. that isn't fair to the first guy that you put on the back burner. and you would be doing exactly what you are complaining about I said the same thing, sort of.. LOL <smirk> which is why i said what i did...backing you up but it's different in my case...not sure why but give me time and I'll think of a good excuse LOLOLOL Thanks for the backup. (= |
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Let me make something clear here. First of all, NO I am not desperate for anyone. I have very high standards. Secondly, I dated the 23 year old in December. He left me. The one in Canada left me. I didnt put anyone on the back burner. I turned the other guy down b/c I dont feel right by putting people on the back burner.
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Well my suggestion is to stop sleeping with them. That'll test who really wants to be with you.
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Let me make something clear here. First of all, NO I am not desperate for anyone. I have very high standards. Secondly, I dated the 23 year old in December. He left me. The one in Canada left me. I didnt put anyone on the back burner. I turned the other guy down b/c I dont feel right by putting people on the back burner. but now the 2nd guy upset you ...you want to start talking to the 1st guy again? that IS putting the 1st on the back burner. No one (men or women) deserve that. or he's a rebound I'm not trying to be rude but trying to get you to see how it looks |
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Well my suggestion is to stop sleeping with them. That'll test who really wants to be with you. 
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I wonder if the guy I turned down still wants to go out....
is YOUR quote. that is keeping him on a back burner |
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Well, I didnt really talk to the first guy consistanly. It was more or less if we were online at the same time. He knew there was someone else I was talking to.
As for the sleeping with them part, I dont sleep with a guy that soon anyway. |
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What would be scenario you want to create?
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ok here is the scooop~~~!!! YOu want them to want you and keep you????
Make yourself so irresistable they cant be with anyone else!!!! Dont be a doormat@@@!!!! Be unavailable.........you get the drift sista???   
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Well, lets see, I dated a 23 year old for about a week, and then he disappeared. Now this guy is 30 and hes an a**hole. I think my biggest problem is that I wear my heart on my sleeves and I cant help it. I wonder if the guy I turned down still wants to go out.... 
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No, yellow rose. I flat out turned him down, I never said oh hey it might not work out with the other guy. I havent even talked to him since. I am not keeping him on the back burner. Hes single and he said you know if something doesnt work out then I am here. I never promised him anything
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Life is too short to wait for wanna bees............and they know who they are....
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