Topic: Why did your last relationship end?
yellowrose10's photo
Thu 03/20/08 10:43 AM
because he wasn't honest with me or himself. And he would crawl into a cave when he was upset instead of talking (we were friends for a year before dating and always talked about things)

Then he blamed me for everything.

I guess my only bad was to try to get him to open up like he did in the past

Puffins1958's photo
Thu 03/20/08 10:45 AM
He made promises that he could not keep. My marriage was a waste of my time, effort and $$$$

no photo
Thu 03/20/08 10:47 AM

because he wasn't honest with me or himself. And he would crawl into a cave when he was upset instead of talking (we were friends for a year before dating and always talked about things)

Then he blamed me for everything.

I guess my only bad was to try to get him to open up like he did in the past



Crawl into the cave. You've read "Men Are From Mars And Women Are From Venus," haven't you?

froglittlesis's photo
Thu 03/20/08 10:47 AM
After being married and together for almost 19 yrs we grew apart. He wanted to continue doing drugs and I had decided I was done with this type of life. During the time of our drug use together he was very jealous and possesive and always thought the worst of me. I do still love him but I think I just wanted better for my life. Mabey one day he will realize he had a good thing!brokenheart

yellowrose10's photo
Thu 03/20/08 10:48 AM


because he wasn't honest with me or himself. And he would crawl into a cave when he was upset instead of talking (we were friends for a year before dating and always talked about things)

Then he blamed me for everything.

I guess my only bad was to try to get him to open up like he did in the past



Crawl into the cave. You've read "Men Are From Mars And Women Are From Venus," haven't you?


laugh actually no. just something my grandmother used to say

Stockdog6's photo
Thu 03/20/08 10:49 AM
she found the neighbors buddy's **** was better than mine..and what would I do over? gotten her next door sooner.

Nongpoi2's photo
Thu 03/20/08 10:49 AM

After 10 years had nothing in common

How can that be after 10 years?

Jill298's photo
Thu 03/20/08 10:50 AM

she found the neighbors buddy's **** was better than mine..and what would I do over? gotten her next door sooner.
laugh laugh well it's not funny but the way u worded it made me laugh

no photo
Thu 03/20/08 10:51 AM



because he wasn't honest with me or himself. And he would crawl into a cave when he was upset instead of talking (we were friends for a year before dating and always talked about things)

Then he blamed me for everything.

I guess my only bad was to try to get him to open up like he did in the past



Crawl into the cave. You've read "Men Are From Mars And Women Are From Venus," haven't you?


laugh actually no. just something my grandmother used to say



Did she read it? Or write it? laugh laugh laugh

jonny63's photo
Thu 03/20/08 10:54 AM
What are small insignificant things to a man seem to be large very important things to women,not understanding that wrecked it all for both of us sad grumble drinker

MCLOVIN4ALL's photo
Thu 03/20/08 10:55 AM
my sixth sense for dating tells me when something ain't right, I had to dump her because she was on the road to cheater-ville. It was for the best, I moved on and the other guy exposed her to HIV.

Sometimes it pays to listen to the little voice.

bad_girl's photo
Thu 03/20/08 10:56 AM
Edited by bad_girl on Thu 03/20/08 11:06 AM
Abusive men tend to make me turn and go the other direction:smile:

Forgot to say what I would do differently next time:

Look into a man's eyes which reaches into his soul

steelersgirltina's photo
Thu 03/20/08 10:56 AM
If I could do something different I would not have gotten married. I should have listened to my gut.

He cheated on me.

DebbieJT's photo
Thu 03/20/08 10:57 AM
i told him i was pregnant he left and went to australia

Jill298's photo
Thu 03/20/08 10:58 AM

i told him i was pregnant he left and went to australia
noway wow, a bit drastic

yellowrose10's photo
Thu 03/20/08 10:58 AM




because he wasn't honest with me or himself. And he would crawl into a cave when he was upset instead of talking (we were friends for a year before dating and always talked about things)

Then he blamed me for everything.

I guess my only bad was to try to get him to open up like he did in the past



Crawl into the cave. You've read "Men Are From Mars And Women Are From Venus," haven't you?


laugh actually no. just something my grandmother used to say



Did she read it? Or write it? laugh laugh laugh


she has said it about my granddad since i was young laugh

wilkit's photo
Thu 03/20/08 10:58 AM


Drugs & cheating for my last bf, kids' dad he chose alcohol over family.
I am much more in tune with myself now and will choose much more carefully.

drinker

Brandon24721's photo
Thu 03/20/08 10:59 AM
i think i'm gonna take advice from you guys and not get married...lol..j/k... i tend to want a happy family so bad for some reason? Is that normal?

Sassier2u's photo
Thu 03/20/08 10:59 AM
He Cheated on me

franshade's photo
Thu 03/20/08 10:59 AM

why did your last relationship end?
and what would you do differently next time?

thank you all for your input! flowerforyou


he couldnt keep it in his pants and I dont share well :wink:

:heart: the same thing, get out drinker