There were many issues on both sides,he was 9 years younger,was still at home.his sister's didn't care for me,my sons didn't care for him.they called him a loser.He was a liar.would walk out the door whenever he felt like it.had a drinking problem.still had alot of growing up to do. Only man that I loved with all my heart and soul. Lesson Stay Away From Younger Guys.Been 3 yrs but the lesson is still fresh.

well the last gf i had it ended really bad, insted of just ending it like we should have we dragged everthing out again and again. like we would break up go back out over and over, then we were just **** budys, and that made things worse and now we are not friends at all. if i could do it again i would have a clean break up so that i did lose a really good friend

When I got with my ex, I was his first. (as in, he was a virgin) and I believe that he left because he wanted to see what sex was like with others. He cheated on me twice BTW.

he wanted to drink more than be in a relationship, next time ummmm i'll pick someone who dosen't drink

I left a 6 yr. relationship because I couldn't/wouldn't live in his alcoholic world any longer. That was 19 months ago.

I dated a guy for 2 months last summer...had some of the best times of my life...then he called one day and said we couldn't see each other any longer that he still had feelings for his ex g/f...who, by that time, was engaged to marry someone else!

Umm, yeah that might be a good idea.

Well,mine ended cause im in love with somebody else,and i wont give anyone else a cnance...

I've been in that situation. It's good you ended it then, some people insist on staying with people, knowing full well they're in love with someone else. Not fair to the other person. So good for you! :)

Yep. The older-young thing never worked for me either. But some women have good results for some reason....

because not all young guys are liars that drink too much. I don't think it was his age so much as the fact that he was a drunken ass. Older guys do that too.

Well, also you have to consider the fact that lots of younger guys just aren't as mature as older women. Which isn't a bad thing. They're mature for women their own age.

We were not really compatable in any way except seually, & I although that was great & I really miss him, I need so much more. Also he had absolutely no integrity. I take the blame, I was older, smarter & knew better, but was so lonely I let it happen. He was living with someone within 10 days of us splitting up. My worst fears were confirmed, he was looking for someone to take care of him & his kids. I am over him, but not the kids.

Hmmmm he was 13 years younger too. He spent 4 months convincing me to go out with him, I knew it wasn't going to work, but it's hard to resist that kind of attention from a young attractive guy .

Cuz we spent too many years together i guess

I dont complain about past relationships...
So I will not say why it ended....
I view them as learning experiences....Something good always comes out of even a bad experience.

wtg

Yep, that makes it difficult. Oh well, live and learn. If you learn from mistakes, you can prevent the same thing from happening again. Hopefully.

my marriage ended, because i was working about 90 to hundred hours a week...i wasnt home, but she didnt have to work. i am a little old fashioned like that. my wife will never have to work if she doesnt want to, i will gladly take that burden on my shoulders.

i wasnt around very much and that is most of what killed my marriage, but i dont think that i would do very much differently now. back then, i was having to schedule and do all the work myself. now my fab shop is flourishing and i dont have to spend near as much time working...patience is still a virtue.

her loss...

Wow, there were many reasons! He said I was too independent and he needed to feel needed. I would have to say because he was too clingy, negative, insecure, and jealous of my friends & family time.

Sure opposites may attract but they can also repel at times.

Sure opposites may attract but they can also repel at times.

So true. :(