Alright Im new to this site but thought I would start off by jumping into the deep end and posting a real topic straight off.

Well my advice is this. I just broke up with a guy I had been going out with for 3 weeks and want to know if I gave up on it too soon or if I was an asshole in the way I handled things.

I met this guy on-line through craigslist. We met up and hit it off straight away, I met his mom and we seemed to be going really well for about 4 days. Then he got a new wii, and everything kind of went down hill from there. I would call him (he nevered called me) and ask when it would be good to see him again, he said come over and we can hang out. I was happy about that but the whole time (I was there for about 10 hours) he played on his wii and maybe said about 10 words to me the whole time. I was patient and gave it up to him just getting his wii and wanting to play it. The only thing is now that everytime I go around he sits and plays his wii and the only time he pays me any attention is when he wants to go to the bedroom and wonders why im not very happy with him because of it.

So last time I saw him I was like would you like to see me again and he said yes and I said when and he said it is up to you your the one who has to drive over here. So I basically said to him fine I will not come over till you call me and will pay me some attention besides when you want to go to the bedroom. He has called me once but I have to admit I did ignore him but he has yet to call again. He is a nice guy but I cant compete with his wii and dont want to.

So do you think I should have just been more patient and hope that he will get bored of wii and then pay attention to me or was it a good thing I left him. I am also posting this in a way for all the guys out there who dont pay enough attention to their girls they will leave we dont want attention 24/7 but at least some would be nice

Alright yall take care and would love to hear your comments

i think you did the right thing. i would never chose a game over a lady

lmao a man and his wii!!!

he needs wii anonymous! how old is this guy, 16? get a different life than this fool.

10 hours and really said nothing to you Hell after the first hour i would of left. I don't wast time on people like that.

I know 10 hours of sitting there is sad and I actually fell asleep for part of it LOL but I thought I would give him the benifit of the doubt but there we go.

And he is 26 LOL

does water and wii, mix?

Love you doll

26 years old, and acts very immature for his age, and all he thinks about is his game.. i would had left to but after the hour as it would had not been worth to me, i have never met anyone like that,

Ummmmmmmmm you may not want to watch this.....


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UeljSJSA8ik

<-----heres a real man!!!

Well as a gamer myself I can understand wanting to play video games, but I have never, EVER chose video games over my girlfriend. So yes, you are right about choosing to leave him. He may be a nice guy, but he has a lot of growing up to do first. By the way, I'm only 20 and I already have made that distinction.

I don't know about that.
If the situation arose that I had to choose a "friend" over a night of gaming, I would need a cinematic flashback that weighed the situation.
If the person seemed to be more...lets say. IMPORTANT. I would drop my game over that just to hang out (even if later on it wasn't worth it.)
But a person I would (even if i did ever talk to any person through e-mails and craigslist) talk to through the Internet holds ridiculously less weight than my video game, until my cinematic flashback counters the weight.
But that's just me though...

Wii Wii LOL

The problem is -- he may get bored with the wii. But if you weren't enough for him to put the wii aside, then what makes you think you'll be enough for him to choose you over whatever it is that ends up replacing the wii -- ??

You're better off to get out of the situation now and find someone who values a person over a game.

Is anyone gonna admit they watched that wii video???

At least you saw it for what it was and left. I know some people who see it for what it is and think they can change the person, end up marrying them, then ***** when said person doesn't change.

I love video games wii and xbox 360 and as much as I love playing the new super smash bros game I wouldn't make my girlfriend come over and ignore her. It is really low that he did that to you and you should just find a new boyfriend. There is nothing wrong with games, but when you're as bad as he is with it then maybe he shouldn't have a girlfriend at the time.

Not yet I haven't BUT I Wii... I mean I will ...


Lots more fish in the sea there darlin ... walkaway from that guy , PROTO .. BUT that is just my opinion .... cheers