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Topic: On Your First Date with?? JSH
hottpinkilicious's photo
Sun 03/16/08 05:25 PM
I hate teddy bears and stuffed animals. How many of these dust collectors are we expected to have hanging around our houses? To me, they are just such a waste of money and so generic. I'd rather have something that the man actually put some though into.
Maybe a little souvenir from wherever you go on your first date? Noting expensive, but something to remember the date by.
JMHO

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Sun 03/16/08 05:45 PM
I know what the fruit date is i mean what these people are talking about huh

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 03/16/08 06:05 PM
Myself on a first date just give me the respect that I give you along with a good conversation is all I expect.bigsmile Leave gifts and such to later dates if there is any.flowerforyou

EtherealEmbers's photo
Sun 03/16/08 06:09 PM
The best thing a guy ever brought me was a caramel macchiato from Starbucks and a chocolate eclair *homer drool*

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Mon 03/17/08 05:11 AM

NO FLOWERS.... something more unique

something maybe she mentioned or mentions she likes and doesn't think you remember her saying

bigsmile




Very good suggestion! This will show how focused you are easygoing...good luck hun!flowerforyou drinker bigsmile

franshade's photo
Mon 03/17/08 05:49 AM

A lady on JSH . Would you rather have me give her roses, M&M's, or some other gift ?? (Remember all I know about her comes from replys on JSH):wink:


How about a nice welcoming hug :wink:

62easygoing's photo
Mon 03/17/08 09:51 AM
Thanks to you all, for your posts.:wink: :wink:

sleeplessingermany's photo
Mon 03/17/08 10:46 AM


A lady on JSH . Would you rather have me give her roses, M&M's, or some other gift ?? (Remember all I know about her comes from replys on JSH):wink:


How about a nice welcoming hug :wink:


sounds just PERFECT !! :wink:

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Mon 03/17/08 10:49 AM
How about a hug (((((sleepless))))) and a kiss smooched ?

sleeplessingermany's photo
Mon 03/17/08 10:53 AM

How about a hug (((((sleepless))))) and a kiss smooched ?


...sounds very nice! you probably smell good too......love

kojack's photo
Mon 03/17/08 10:55 AM

NO FLOWERS.... something more unique

something maybe she mentioned or mentions she likes and doesn't think you remember her saying

bigsmile



I agree flowers on first date not a good idea.

After you have dated awhile if you surprise her with a potted plant or seeds for perenniels, the message behind the gift will let her know you are hers forever.

Maybe a CD she likes but hasn t gotten yet, or a favorite stuffed animal, or maybe a gift certificate for a manicure .


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Mon 03/17/08 10:57 AM
I would give her a call if all you know is through responses on JSH....


2002's photo
Mon 03/17/08 12:39 PM

I think I've been going out with the wrong guys....
lol im with you on that one!!! But...i would give her some flowers....did she say what her favorite color is???

bad_girl's photo
Mon 03/17/08 03:28 PM
Roses would be nice

Bexter's photo
Mon 03/17/08 04:29 PM


NO FLOWERS.... something more unique

something maybe she mentioned or mentions she likes and doesn't think you remember her saying

bigsmile



I agree flowers on first date not a good idea.

After you have dated awhile if you surprise her with a potted plant or seeds for perenniels, the message behind the gift will let her know you are hers forever.

Maybe a CD she likes but hasn t gotten yet, or a favorite stuffed animal, or maybe a gift certificate for a manicure .




I also agree with this. If, once you have met and decided that what you have is definately worth taking to the next level, then consider a gift. I always send or deliver a gift to a fella if we've had a good time together - even with friends.
A note card and a little box of candies.
A little bear with a flower is alway good.
A small gift like a pen or pocket knife - if there's been a disagreement.
Or such ...
These are only 'thank you' type things. They arent meant to be gifts to the hostess (when you go to dinner at someone's house) or a 'Just Because' gift (after things get on their way).

Just an idea. :smile:
Good luck!!

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