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Topic: Why does death hurt so much ?
Lostboy28 Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 19	Fri 03/14/08 02:01 PM
i just found out a friend just died why does it hurt so much ?

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Fri 03/14/08 02:02 PM
i just found out a friend just died why does it hurt so much ? BECAUSE you will miss them??? because they probably died way too young???

tanyaztoy Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 181	Fri 03/14/08 02:03 PM
I don't think that can be answered. It just does.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Fri 03/14/08 02:06 PM
i just found out a friend just died why does it hurt so much ? people who died suffering hurts bad, and people who are murdered, and people who commit suicide. my sisters friend hung himself a few weeks ago,and succeeded that was awful. he was diagnosed bipolar, and the post mortum showed he was a scitzophrenic, ive said this before, if only they knew that when he was alive, he would have been on the right meds, and he might still be here now, now that hurts. he was only 26.

MsTeddyBear2u Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 22031	Fri 03/14/08 02:08 PM Edited by MsTeddyBear2u on Fri 03/14/08 02:08 PM
Sorry to hear! Heres a (((Hug)))

DeathsTreaty Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 14622	Fri 03/14/08 02:12 PM
Death hurts because there is no preperation for it It comes and takes with a force that stays with everyone for a long time and is never forgotten Im sry to hear about your Friend

forever_fifites Joined Mon 02/25/08 Posts: 1092	Fri 03/14/08 02:12 PM
i just found out a friend just died why does it hurt so much ? The best of friends are forever they are what make us smile their friendship can leave us never though death may steal them for a while Though our pain is heavy and very real today From our hearts their memory will never fade away

stevil342001 Joined Sun 07/29/07 Posts: 804	Fri 03/14/08 02:14 PM
its been 11 year since my brother took his life and am still not over it it all takes time my friend grieve your loss as long as you need too.. theres no time limit to it... sorry for you loss

hottpinkilicious Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 552	Fri 03/14/08 02:15 PM
So sorry. You and your friend will be in my prayers. God Bless.

Silntstrnger Joined Wed 12/12/07 Posts: 4265	Fri 03/14/08 02:15 PM
what did ur friend die from? it hurts so bad because u didnt get closure and u have alot of unanswered questions.

cats219 Joined Wed 08/01/07 Posts: 2663	Fri 03/14/08 02:16 PM
im sorry for your loss

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Fri 03/14/08 02:17 PM
Death hurts because there is no preperation for it It comes and takes with a force that stays with everyone for a long time and is never forgotten Im sry to hear about your Friend your right,my aunt had cancer, we knew there was nothing they could do, but it was still a damn shock when she died.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Fri 03/14/08 02:18 PM
one thing we know that will happen to each and every one of us, no matter what we do, we cant avoid it.

RainbowTrout Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 13869	Fri 03/14/08 02:21 PM
Grief can be a real *****. I am sorry for your loss. When the death comes sudden and you don't get that closure I know how hard that can be. Hugs.

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Fri 03/14/08 02:24 PM
All I can tell you is that as the weeks, months, and years go by the pain will diminish. There is no "closure." It will never entirely go away since the memory of your friend will always be with you. Grief lessens with time and fond remembrances. My condolences.

mssilverfox Joined Sat 12/08/07 Posts: 10529	Fri 03/14/08 03:33 PM
It just does...because you will miss them. I have lost 2 family members and 4 close friends in less than a yr. Another just found out he has pancreatic cancer..Way too much for a person to endure... my condolences to you...

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Fri 03/14/08 03:37 PM
i just found out a friend just died why does it hurt so much ? IDK, Why do you love your friend so much? That's why it hurts.