Just came out of the matchmaking thread to say hi to some friends ...

Talk of therapists was going on. So?

Do you use one? Or have you? If so whatcha think about their success in your own situation?

I only used one recently. For relationship issues. It's been kinda fun, but I also think their need is overused sometimes, especially with kids.

What about you?

I've used on off and on over the years. First time was for marriage counseling, obviously that was unsuccessful We had to have different therapists, being in the same room was pointless. But, even though I went alone, it was hugely beneficial in helping me figure out what I wanted and where to draw some boundaries. And I'm seeing one again, some personal issues that threw me into a funk I couldn't get out of. It's helpful. She gives me some really different perspective in how I look at things. Makes me think outside my own lines, so to speak.

Oh (((fade))) yes I do and I am proud. My therapist helped me through a difficult abusive relationship

She helped me with issues with my child

Damn she has helped me with a lot of issues and I thank her for being there, along with my friends

Nice .. that's what I wanted to hear. If they helped. Interestingly enough mine has become a friend & we've only met like 6 times. Very sporadic appts.

But we think a lot alike. And used to work at the same place. Have our 'opinions' about that too

I think they do help. A lot of people are embarrassed to admit they see one but the truth is, almost everyone comes across situations they don't know how to deal with. It's not like you have to see one forever, often, just a few sessions is helpful. And it doesn't mean you're crazy, or incompetent, or can't manage your life, just means you need a little help every so often.

Yep mine is a good friend as well.

But she has helped me through a lot of difficult times, when I had no one to turn to

I am not the least bit ashamed to admit I see one

More people need to see one and the ones that do need to admit it, they would be surprised at who does

I used a therapist when I went through my divorce last year. It was very helpful to talk to someone who was impartial.

Very true. A little chemical help wouldn't kill a lot of people either

Well I think that's the key .... if you either can't figure out a situation OR you can't change a behavior and don't know why you have it, it's a great relief.

Just putting it out there is always healthy. IMHO

Good morning love and look ladies a "MAN" that will admit it

This is why I love him so much

I agree

There's my girl

Isn't that great ... true guys tend to be a bit more hesitant I think, to go. But that's because it's harder to get a guy to talk about 'internal stuff' .. most women have that easier.

Ah you are way to kind.

Just speak the truth I do love you and your friendship has been as good as a therapists

Well for those that I care about I always have an ear.

Yes, sad but true

wow what a nice thing said about you MtnBkr!

Boy you ladies can make a guy just turn into a sofy.