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Well....what a mighty war you have started there Outlaw, pitting the age old battle of the sexes, aren't you just so proud of yourself? Well, I tell you, I am from a small town in Texas, and we ALL know how to treat women here, call us old fashioned, but that's how we were raised, to sit around and talk down to women, or men like that is just luducris. I bet you're sitting there with a smug little ugly grin on your face watching everything play out in the posts, but I bet one thing is still missing for you.....that woman that you followed around like the little puppy that you have spoken of. Now, everyone has been taken for granted, and treated like **** before, but why in the world would you wage a war on a dating site? Are you seriously mentally retarded? Did the old age go to your head? Or are you just trying to become someone you're not? Dude, I will tell you like this, if I need someone to ever speak for me, which I never will because I enjoy speaking my mind, as you can see, I will never look you up. For you to be this arrogant, and try to throw all of us men into your little battle, which as far as I can tell, you lost, well that was just stupid. Do me a favor, next time you have a thought, just let it go. You talk about women liking badasses or whatever you called them, well, you have no idea what one is. My brother, you ain't a real man, cause if you were you'ld have never said anything as stupid as this. As far as being visited by women you never woulda seen, well, they're wanting to see what a true asshole prick looks like, and I believe we have truly found or iggnorance on this one. This a post as a man I am ashamed to see. Do me a favor, from now on, just keep everything to yourself.

Well...

A LOT of what he says is true about a specific type of woman. I stress - specific type of woman. To say that there are no women who exhibit these personality traits is garbage, and ladies you know it. Some of you have played the fool, some of you have been the fool.

But...

The argument in itself is illogical, and here's why. To simplify the dynamics of good vs. bad, popular vs. unpopular, men vs. women based on what was written would be foolhardy.

Relationships... Success, failure, whatever... It all depends solely on the personality of the individual, and where they are at that point in their lives. I have dated many many women on 4 continents, and I have yet to meet two women who are the same.

I admit, I've been both the "nice" guy and the "bad" guy. I've had girls who flipped the script on me either way. But you know what it came down to? Maturity. Timing. Attraction. Location.

I have a very close female friend whom I love like a sister. She met a nice guy. She fell in love with the nice guy. I met him, and thought he was just one hell of a cool dude, and he became a very good friend to me as well... One problem...

He changed. People change. He started doing things that the most hardended players I that I knew personally didn't dare try. And she paid for it. She got an STD, was left with two kids, and her entire sense of trust and self worth was irreparably damaged. I can tell you, she did NOT ask for that, and he gave NO indication that he was anything more than a genuine guy.

On the other hand, even if the situation mentioned in the original post is true, just because the dude is nice doesn't mean that he deserves a chance. Sorry "nice guys" but it's true. Maybe, just maybe instead of blaming it on her because she can't see "what a fu**ing catch you are", maybe just accept the fact that she doesn't like you for her own reason, and really doesn't owe us an explaination why.

Instead of trying to be a nice guy, we as men should just be who we are, and be up front about it.

Ladies, I'm a cynic. I've been through my share of being the nice guy who got tossed aside. It hurt. But in reality, it didn't work because she just didn't feel me, and I'm sorry, my being good or bad had nothing to do with that chemical reaction in her brain. I just wasn't what she wanted.

Guys, if you subscribe to this theory, you're simply looking for an "out" or reason because ya just can't get over the fact that ya got rejected. I've been a prolific "player" in the past, after my divorce, and I felt the need to sow my wild oats. But I didn't get laid or attention because I wore baggy jeans and a big ass white T shirt and gol' teef (or black leather and a cowboy hat for that matter).

I got laid and I got attention because I stopped trying so damn hard. I was myself. Women saw that, and loved it. When I figured out that I could be myself and not be an ass? Well, let's just say I don't have a problem getting dates, but I know better than to be an a**hole just to get a chick.

In closing, the post was good. But I will say that your attack on an incredible woman like Prncs was totally inappropriate. I know you have no way of knowing, since you've apparently only been here a short time, but she is a lady who's never been malicious or rude to a soul, and lemme tell you... Either one of us would probably give up our left nut for a moment of her time. Personally, I think you owe her an apology.

No debate should ever deteriorate into a bunch of name calling.

Well....what a mighty war you have started there Outlaw, pitting the age old battle of the sexes, aren't you just so proud of yourself? Well, I tell you, I am from a small town in Texas, and we ALL know how to treat women here, call us old fashioned, but that's how we were raised, to sit around and talk down to women, or men like that is just luducris. I bet you're sitting there with a smug little ugly grin on your face watching everything play out in the posts, but I bet one thing is still missing for you.....that woman that you followed around like the little puppy that you have spoken of. Now, everyone has been taken for granted, and treated like **** before, but why in the world would you wage a war on a dating site? Are you seriously mentally retarded? Did the old age go to your head? Or are you just trying to become someone you're not? Dude, I will tell you like this, if I need someone to ever speak for me, which I never will because I enjoy speaking my mind, as you can see, I will never look you up. For you to be this arrogant, and try to throw all of us men into your little battle, which as far as I can tell, you lost, well that was just stupid. Do me a favor, next time you have a thought, just let it go. You talk about women liking badasses or whatever you called them, well, you have no idea what one is. My brother, you ain't a real man, cause if you were you'ld have never said anything as stupid as this. As far as being visited by women you never woulda seen, well, they're wanting to see what a true asshole prick looks like, and I believe we have truly found or iggnorance on this one. This a post as a man I am ashamed to see. Do me a favor, from now on, just keep everything to yourself.

No debate should ever deteriorate into a bunch of name calling.

Well...

A LOT of what he says is true about a specific type of woman. I stress - specific type of woman. To say that there are no women who exhibit these personality traits is garbage, and ladies you know it. Some of you have played the fool, some of you have been the fool.

But...

The argument in itself is illogical, and here's why. To simplify the dynamics of good vs. bad, popular vs. unpopular, men vs. women based on what was written would be foolhardy.

Relationships... Success, failure, whatever... It all depends solely on the personality of the individual, and where they are at that point in their lives. I have dated many many women on 4 continents, and I have yet to meet two women who are the same.

I admit, I've been both the "nice" guy and the "bad" guy. I've had girls who flipped the script on me either way. But you know what it came down to? Maturity. Timing. Attraction. Location.

I have a very close female friend whom I love like a sister. She met a nice guy. She fell in love with the nice guy. I met him, and thought he was just one hell of a cool dude, and he became a very good friend to me as well... One problem...

He changed. People change. He started doing things that the most hardended players I that I knew personally didn't dare try. And she paid for it. She got an STD, was left with two kids, and her entire sense of trust and self worth was irreparably damaged. I can tell you, she did NOT ask for that, and he gave NO indication that he was anything more than a genuine guy.

On the other hand, even if the situation mentioned in the original post is true, just because the dude is nice doesn't mean that he deserves a chance. Sorry "nice guys" but it's true. Maybe, just maybe instead of blaming it on her because she can't see "what a fu**ing catch you are", maybe just accept the fact that she doesn't like you for her own reason, and really doesn't owe us an explaination why.

Instead of trying to be a nice guy, we as men should just be who we are, and be up front about it.

Ladies, I'm a cynic. I've been through my share of being the nice guy who got tossed aside. It hurt. But in reality, it didn't work because she just didn't feel me, and I'm sorry, my being good or bad had nothing to do with that chemical reaction in her brain. I just wasn't what she wanted.

Guys, if you subscribe to this theory, you're simply looking for an "out" or reason because ya just can't get over the fact that ya got rejected. I've been a prolific "player" in the past, after my divorce, and I felt the need to sow my wild oats. But I didn't get laid or attention because I wore baggy jeans and a big ass white T shirt and gol' teef (or black leather and a cowboy hat for that matter).

I got laid and I got attention because I stopped trying so damn hard. I was myself. Women saw that, and loved it. When I figured out that I could be myself and not be an ass? Well, let's just say I don't have a problem getting dates, but I know better than to be an a**hole just to get a chick.

In closing, the post was good. But I will say that your attack on an incredible woman like Prncs was totally inappropriate. I know you have no way of knowing, since you've apparently only been here a short time, but she is a lady who's never been malicious or rude to a soul, and lemme tell you... Either one of us would probably give up our left nut for a moment of her time. Personally, I think you owe her an apology.

No debate should ever deteriorate into a bunch of name calling.

Well...

A LOT of what he says is true about a specific type of woman. I stress - specific type of woman. To say that there are no women who exhibit these personality traits is garbage, and ladies you know it. Some of you have played the fool, some of you have been the fool.

But...

The argument in itself is illogical, and here's why. To simplify the dynamics of good vs. bad, popular vs. unpopular, men vs. women based on what was written would be foolhardy.

Relationships... Success, failure, whatever... It all depends solely on the personality of the individual, and where they are at that point in their lives. I have dated many many women on 4 continents, and I have yet to meet two women who are the same.

I admit, I've been both the "nice" guy and the "bad" guy. I've had girls who flipped the script on me either way. But you know what it came down to? Maturity. Timing. Attraction. Location.

I have a very close female friend whom I love like a sister. She met a nice guy. She fell in love with the nice guy. I met him, and thought he was just one hell of a cool dude, and he became a very good friend to me as well... One problem...

He changed. People change. He started doing things that the most hardended players I that I knew personally didn't dare try. And she paid for it. She got an STD, was left with two kids, and her entire sense of trust and self worth was irreparably damaged. I can tell you, she did NOT ask for that, and he gave NO indication that he was anything more than a genuine guy.

On the other hand, even if the situation mentioned in the original post is true, just because the dude is nice doesn't mean that he deserves a chance. Sorry "nice guys" but it's true. Maybe, just maybe instead of blaming it on her because she can't see "what a fu**ing catch you are", maybe just accept the fact that she doesn't like you for her own reason, and really doesn't owe us an explaination why.

Instead of trying to be a nice guy, we as men should just be who we are, and be up front about it.

Ladies, I'm a cynic. I've been through my share of being the nice guy who got tossed aside. It hurt. But in reality, it didn't work because she just didn't feel me, and I'm sorry, my being good or bad had nothing to do with that chemical reaction in her brain. I just wasn't what she wanted.

Guys, if you subscribe to this theory, you're simply looking for an "out" or reason because ya just can't get over the fact that ya got rejected. I've been a prolific "player" in the past, after my divorce, and I felt the need to sow my wild oats. But I didn't get laid or attention because I wore baggy jeans and a big ass white T shirt and gol' teef (or black leather and a cowboy hat for that matter).

I got laid and I got attention because I stopped trying so damn hard. I was myself. Women saw that, and loved it. When I figured out that I could be myself and not be an ass? Well, let's just say I don't have a problem getting dates, but I know better than to be an a**hole just to get a chick.

In closing, the post was good. But I will say that your attack on an incredible woman like Prncs was totally inappropriate. I know you have no way of knowing, since you've apparently only been here a short time, but she is a lady who's never been malicious or rude to a soul, and lemme tell you... Either one of us would probably give up our left nut for a moment of her time. Personally, I think you owe her an apology.

No debate should ever deteriorate into a bunch of name calling.

....that's funny that's what your exgirlfreind said about you!

all the nice guys are in my room( i stock up)

all the nice guys are in my room( i stock up)