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If the conversations with e-mail friend; were just that, then I see no foul & no threat to a relationship. If it was more than friends, then different story. Mry knows the truth & will figure out what is right. 
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So what changed, that he is now (supposedly) ready for a relationship? Thats just it, he says he regrets dumping me, but my question is...is it because he saw someone elsc wanting me? |
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ask him outright...you have the right to know and should know.
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Seriously everyone, thank you for your help...this one has me seriously ripped up though...
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Sometimes when we start new relationships there is someone elsc we have been seeing. Do we have to declair this out loud or just pick the right one at the right time? Usually one fades out of the picture. I am open with guys about other guys .. I just don't like to lie and omission is a form of lying .. I figure I personally would rather be hurt with the truth than a lie anyday... and if they can't handle the truth then they are not for me ...
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reading through the posts ...im surprised ....games have no where in a relationship ...and the answers show that people are still willing to play them....trust is an issue granted...but if there was no trust...then she should of just agrred to see him...until they knew...not be secretive.....
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Why is everyone focusing on the invasion of privacy? she was dishonest with both of them and selfish.She wasnt sure if her relationship would work so, she kept playing games with the guy out of state..
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I would question is theis real or just a benefits when in town thing? Need more info to form that opinion.
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Actually all of this has just happened...he has been out of town for the last week and knows nothing of it yet. I will tell him, but I am a little afraid to because I keep thinking whatever I write may be seen by my x. I have changed my password, so I hope he can't get in. Open a new email account to contact your friend. Care2.com has free email service. |
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Here is the situation...I have been talking to this guy from out of state for many months now, but we have never met. In the meantime my x boyfriend comes back and wants an exclusive relationship. Well I said fine but I never gave up emailing the man I never met. I don't know why except that I really liked him, but somehow it doesn't feel like reality. Well come to find out my x boyfriend who has my password has known all along and has been lurking in my emails. So I said I would stop emailing and I have, but I am very upset inside about my x boyfriend snooping in my emails. My question is...do I have a right to feel upset? Should he have been lurking? I never meant to hurt anyone. My ex did that to me but I wasn't still in contact with people, he went and read all old stuff so he knew what I was doing while we were broken up... I think it's extremely wrong... If you don't have trust you don't have anything... |
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Why is everyone focusing on the invasion of privacy? she was dishonest with both of them and selfish.She wasnt sure if her relationship would work so, she kept playing games with the guy out of state.. I really was not playing games, I just wanted to make sure before I dumped everything in my life that he was serious. I was devistated and all alone when my boyfriend first dumped me. |
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Why is everyone focusing on the invasion of privacy? she was dishonest with both of them and selfish.She wasnt sure if her relationship would work so, she kept playing games with the guy out of state.. I really was not playing games, I just wanted to make sure before I dumped everything in my life that he was serious. I was devistated and all alone when my boyfriend first dumped me. |
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Why is everyone focusing on the invasion of privacy? she was dishonest with both of them and selfish.She wasnt sure if her relationship would work so, she kept playing games with the guy out of state.. I really was not playing games, I just wanted to make sure before I dumped everything in my life that he was serious. I was devistated and all alone when my boyfriend first dumped me. thanks! |
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Why is everyone focusing on the invasion of privacy? she was dishonest with both of them and selfish.She wasnt sure if her relationship would work so, she kept playing games with the guy out of state.. I really was not playing games, I just wanted to make sure before I dumped everything in my life that he was serious. I was devistated and all alone when my boyfriend first dumped me. So you self sabatoged the realtionship .. I am not understanding if you want something to work then do it ... and how can you say that you love someone if you only love them if they love you back .. Love is not quid pro quo |
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Why is everyone focusing on the invasion of privacy? she was dishonest with both of them and selfish.She wasnt sure if her relationship would work so, she kept playing games with the guy out of state.. I really was not playing games, I just wanted to make sure before I dumped everything in my life that he was serious. I was devistated and all alone when my boyfriend first dumped me. thanks! |
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I understand mry i been in ur shoes as far as left alone and devistated but, u had another persons feelings to consider while u were making sure..
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I understand mry i been in ur shoes as far as left alone and devistated but, u had another persons feelings to consider while u were making sure.. But in making a decision, someones feelings are at stake either way. Why did I need to be upfront right away? Can't I have some time to decide who is right for me? |
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Let those that are PERFECT,pass judgement.
I won't judge. Lady ask for help & opinions. I have made lots of mistakes in my life, sometimes needed some help to sort stuff out. Be nice.
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Why does it have to be so complicated? If the former boyfriend likes you it is excusable what he did. He just wants to know if you're "nasty" and up to no good if you know what I mean. Be a one man woman - make up your mind, and give yourself completely to one.
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I did tell my boyfriend how I play on the forums on JSH, and he doesn't want me to...if I didn't have you guys how would I ever get things straight?? LOL
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