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It's all about balance. Sharing some interests and tolerating and allowing your significant other to pursue those that you do not share.  WOW!!! ONE man actually GOT what I was trying to say!!!! |
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Well GEEEEEEEEEE, I guess seeing as I lived through a 16 year marrage and I was like that,,,YES, I could live that life some-more, but my ex did take it apond herself to THEN find another guy because SHE WAS SO BORED and had SO MUCH MORE TIME to spend DOIING NOTHING because I done the cleaning, cooking and made most of the money. WE had GREAT sex BUT,,,,,I think she just WANTED MORE..... And so do I FEEL that living a life like THAT is a good thing,,,NO, I feel that any and ALL relationships should be 50/50. I don't mind doing ANY and ALL, as long as my OTHER "SHOWS" me she appreciates "WHAT" I have done for her and is "ALSO" willing to do ANY and ALL for "ME" so WE BALANCE OUT... I have learned that NO RELATIONSHIP can be just "ONE-SIDED EXPECTATIONS.......  NO-MATTER the EXPECTATIONS, if "THEY" bother the other, it will destroy THAT relationship, in TIME! SO, if YOU want to have a short relaxed relationship with a man who will give his ALL trust me, YOU will then see him as someone YOU FEEL you can TAKE ADVANTAGE OF, and YOU WILL. Then you will be here asking for the same as you are NOW, and he will be the guy writting THIS REPLY BACK TO YOU!!! Good Luck with trying to find a REAL GIVING man who trully falls in-LOVE with you, just so he can then BE BROKEN DOWN TO NOTHING, BECAUSE of "THAT" same love he feels for you...      Where did I say I wanted a one-sided relationship? Where did I say I wanted to take advantage of anyone? Where did I say I wanted to break someone down to nothing? Did I say I would NOT do the things he wanted? NO! I just asked for a man to give a little and be considerate of what I might want to do sometimes. Please do us all a favor and DO NOT date! NO woman deserves the nasty attitude you are projecting onto women! We are NOT all you ex wife!! THEN, YOU shouldn't project THAT image! WOW, YOUR really getting bitter here.....
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Oh lord Kum Ba Yah
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Oh lord Kum Ba Yah
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Oh lord Kum Ba Yah  <----------He made me do it....
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 Are we sitting around a camp fire???
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Wow another angry women!!!
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I do my own laundry....I would try and do hers but I think I would ruin clothes and she would get pissed so only 2 things can be done ask for help or don't do it at all...
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It's the same for cooking too. I can make PB&J and not even burn it, likewise water too, I know how to microwave and nook things. And use a toaster.....if the settings are already preset and it won't get burned
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Wow another angry women!!! I do understand being a single parent and DOING it all. I LIVED that for awhile. And relief was GREAT to find from another once in awhile... But ALL of us guys are NOT like the one she is talking about. I better start singing again, KUM Ba Yah,,,,MY LORD,,,Kum Ba Yah,lol,lol
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Edited by
Unknow
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Sun 02/24/08 11:05 AM
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Are we sitting around a camp fire??? You are the second person that seems to think we need a campfire to sing Kum Ba Yah Okay, so maybe we can change the tune to Peace, Love, and Understanding. Everyone after me... As I walk through This wicked world Searchin for light in the darkness of insanity. I ask myself Is all hope lost? Is there only pain and hatred, and misery? And each time I feel like this inside, Theres one thing I wanna know: Whats so funny bout peace love & understanding? ohhhh Whats so funny bout peace love & understanding? |
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Do men REALLY want a woman who likes to HIKE, go CAMPING, FISHING, and HUNTING? Do you want a woman who LOVES NASCAR? Aren't these things guys do with their GUY friends? That's like a woman saying she wants a man who loves to dance, crochets, and is into Tupperware parties...... Just my opinion, but I want a guy who is NOT into the sase things I am. God bless you if you find awoman who likes to sweat, smell dirty and go without indoor plumbing....that is my idea of hell on earth. How about just one man saying he is into long, relaxing weekends at luxury resorts, he enjoys cleaning and doing laundry, and isn't looking for a "slender" woman(get real..how many women are over 30, have kids, and are "slender"...we just don't have TIME with all the responsibility dumped on us)? Do you men really think after caring for kids all week and working full time that women want to go hiking on the weekend? How about one man that says he will make dinner and clean up and let me sit on the couch and watch whatever I want on TV for 2 hours? Just one who will clean up after everyone so I can sunbathe for an hour without having to jump up every 5 minutes to get someone something to drink ...? Sorry for venting.....just so sick of reading the same list of unrealistic demands on every guy's profile..... Don't think I said any of that on my profile.  Noticed you peeped it.... Well did I? 
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A woman that enjoys the things I enjoy would be a nice match. It's not a requirement in my book. Some of us are just dreaming of our ideal mate.
So that's what we put in our profiles. We're looking for the best match to our current lives. Someone that we can share our dreams and aspirations with. Men and women are wired differently and enjoy different things. A perfect match is one where the two involved can share and enjoy each other's interests. I'm always willing to learn and share new adventures. When it's all said and done, the relationship will be one in which we both share most interests in life. Of course there are things we will always do separately. You can't expect your mate to be into everything you are. Each needs their own space and time. That's what makes us individuals in a relationship. |
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I just wanted to know if we were cause I love me some smores and I want some.....but if there is no fire then I won't bring anything that's all..
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It don't matter to me who I find or what she likes and dislikes are....all I know is that I ask what her interests are and see if I like them or not and if I don't like them it's my choice if I want something to happen.....and I think if someone is putting a label of what they want in a profile and you don't like it ....Then you could make the choice to not talk to them...
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A woman that enjoys the things I enjoy would be a nice match. It's not a requirement in my book. Some of us are just dreaming of our ideal mate. So that's what we put in our profiles. We're looking for the best match to our current lives. Someone that we can share our dreams and aspirations with. Men and women are wired differently and enjoy different things. A perfect match is one where the two involved can share and enjoy each other's interests. I'm always willing to learn and share new adventures. When it's all said and done, the relationship will be one in which we both share most interests in life. Of course there are things we will always do separately. You can't expect your mate to be into everything you are. Each needs their own space and time. That's what makes us individuals in a relationship. WOW!! 2 men in one day that actually get it!!! |
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Do men REALLY want a woman who likes to HIKE, go CAMPING, FISHING, and HUNTING? Do you want a woman who LOVES NASCAR? Aren't these things guys do with their GUY friends? That's like a woman saying she wants a man who loves to dance, crochets, and is into Tupperware parties...... Just my opinion, but I want a guy who is NOT into the sase things I am. God bless you if you find awoman who likes to sweat, smell dirty and go without indoor plumbing....that is my idea of hell on earth. How about just one man saying he is into long, relaxing weekends at luxury resorts, he enjoys cleaning and doing laundry, and isn't looking for a "slender" woman(get real..how many women are over 30, have kids, and are "slender"...we just don't have TIME with all the responsibility dumped on us)? Do you men really think after caring for kids all week and working full time that women want to go hiking on the weekend? How about one man that says he will make dinner and clean up and let me sit on the couch and watch whatever I want on TV for 2 hours? Just one who will clean up after everyone so I can sunbathe for an hour without having to jump up every 5 minutes to get someone something to drink ...? Sorry for venting.....just so sick of reading the same list of unrealistic demands on every guy's profile..... Don't think I said any of that on my profile. Noticed you peeped it.... Well did I? NO, you didn't......Can you follow me home so I can keep tou???? |
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Edited by
rtaylor74
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Sun 02/24/08 11:48 AM
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1) "Do men REALLY want a woman who likes to HIKE, go CAMPING, FISHING, and HUNTING? Do you want a woman who LOVES NASCAR? Aren't these things guys do with their GUY friends?" - Why not? A real relationship is based on a lot of things, not the least of which is common ground. You may not like to do everything together, but every guy secretly wants a woman who'll make him forget his guy friends. 2) "God bless you if you find awoman who likes to sweat, smell dirty and go without indoor plumbing....that is my idea of hell on earth." - OK, so alter your search so that you meet men who aren't into hell on earth. You're apparently not taking responsibility for your half of what seems to be going on in relationships. That part about choosing the guy? Yeah... That one. 3) " let me sit on the couch and watch whatever I want on TV for 2 hours? Just one who will clean up after everyone so I can sunbathe for an hour without having to jump up every 5 minutes to get someone something to drink ...? " - This is not a unique request. I know plenty of men who like curvy women, or don't care about the slender thing. I know plenty of men who pamper and spoil their women. It's not easy to find, but they're out there. I know how you feel, and you gotta vent sometimes, but don't ever let it get to you that much. I can assure you that if Mr. Right read this post he'd probably think "oh great, baggage" instead of "wow I really feel motivated to be with this lady" Not trying to be rude or sarcastic at all... Just my irrelevant 2 cents. |
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1) "Do men REALLY want a woman who likes to HIKE, go CAMPING, FISHING, and HUNTING? Do you want a woman who LOVES NASCAR? Aren't these things guys do with their GUY friends?" - Why not? A real relationship is based on a lot of things, not the least of which is common ground. You may not like to do everything together, but every guy secretly wants a woman who'll make him forget his guy friends. 2) "God bless you if you find awoman who likes to sweat, smell dirty and go without indoor plumbing....that is my idea of hell on earth." - OK, so alter your search so that you meet men who aren't into hell on earth. You're apparently not taking responsibility for your half of what seems to be going on in relationships. That part about choosing the guy? Yeah... That one. 3) " let me sit on the couch and watch whatever I want on TV for 2 hours? Just one who will clean up after everyone so I can sunbathe for an hour without having to jump up every 5 minutes to get someone something to drink ...? " - This is not a unique request. I know plenty of men who like curvy women, or don't care about the slender thing. I know plenty of men who pamper and spoil their women. It's not easy to find, but they're out there. I know how you feel, and you gotta vent sometimes, but don't ever let it get to you that much. I can assure you that if Mr. Right read this post he'd probably think "oh great, baggage" instead of "wow I really feel motivated to be with this lady" Not trying to be rude or sarcastic at all... Just my irrelevant 2 cents. See...? you're NOT the kind of guy I am referring to~! and, not to sound racist, white men do not seem to want curvy women....I have nothing against people of other races, however, my father is Archie Bunker, so it's easier just to date white men. Is it too much to ask for a man of the same race on the same coast who isn't a selfish a***home????? |
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1) "Do men REALLY want a woman who likes to HIKE, go CAMPING, FISHING, and HUNTING? Do you want a woman who LOVES NASCAR? Aren't these things guys do with their GUY friends?" - Why not? A real relationship is based on a lot of things, not the least of which is common ground. You may not like to do everything together, but every guy secretly wants a woman who'll make him forget his guy friends. 2) "God bless you if you find awoman who likes to sweat, smell dirty and go without indoor plumbing....that is my idea of hell on earth." - OK, so alter your search so that you meet men who aren't into hell on earth. You're apparently not taking responsibility for your half of what seems to be going on in relationships. That part about choosing the guy? Yeah... That one. 3) " let me sit on the couch and watch whatever I want on TV for 2 hours? Just one who will clean up after everyone so I can sunbathe for an hour without having to jump up every 5 minutes to get someone something to drink ...? " - This is not a unique request. I know plenty of men who like curvy women, or don't care about the slender thing. I know plenty of men who pamper and spoil their women. It's not easy to find, but they're out there. I know how you feel, and you gotta vent sometimes, but don't ever let it get to you that much. I can assure you that if Mr. Right read this post he'd probably think "oh great, baggage" instead of "wow I really feel motivated to be with this lady" Not trying to be rude or sarcastic at all... Just my irrelevant 2 cents. See...? you're NOT the kind of guy I am referring to~! and, not to sound racist, white men do not seem to want curvy women....I have nothing against people of other races, however, my father is Archie Bunker, so it's easier just to date white men. Is it too much to ask for a man of the same race on the same coast who isn't a selfish a***home????? Hmmm... Not sure how it became about white/black men, but still, even if you're looking for a purple or fuschia man, I'm sure you can find him. No, it's not too much to ask. And having lived on both coasts, the south, midwest and in Europe, I know plenty of good white men who'd adore you. My best friend on the planet, my proverbial brotha from anotha motha is a white boy in Florida who loves women with curves. Problem is, this guy isn't on the internet, nor will you necessarily find him in bars. Now, I'm not saying that's where you're looking, so don't take that the wrong way. All I'm saying is, don't get too down. There are good guys out there for you. You haven't found him yet, but if you're patient and don't sacrifice your values, you will. You seem to be a good lady, and have a brilliant smile. I just think that sometimes being single for a certain period of time tends to warp our thinking. We become negative. Lord knows I have done that from time to time. But in a purely karmic sense, the more you think negatively, that's what you'll attract. What do you think about a nice Vietnamese boy? I have the perfect guy for you. He's only 5'4" but he's rich and really nice. I kid... I kid... |
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