Topic: Question for the guys....
alon4now's photo
Sun 02/24/08 09:17 AM
What won't a man in love do?

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Sun 02/24/08 09:20 AM
It's all about balance. Sharing some interests and tolerating and allowing your significant other to pursue those that you do not share. :wink:

hottpinkilicious's photo
Sun 02/24/08 09:21 AM

What won't a man in love do?

I guess the problem is there are not enough real men!!

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 02/24/08 09:21 AM
Though I enjoy hiking (day trips), my idea of "roughing it" is no coffee pot in the hotel room!!

AllenAqua's photo
Sun 02/24/08 09:21 AM

What about wanting to do things that are FUN for her????




I'm up for trying almost anything at least once...bigsmile
And I'd be all about encouraging her to have fun, whenever possible. It's all about being friends first and foremost. I always encourage my friends to have as much fun as possible.:wink:

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Sun 02/24/08 09:34 AM
Well GEEEEEEEEEE, I guess seeing as I lived through a 16 year marrage and I was like that,,,YES, I could live that life some-more, but my ex did take it apond herself to THEN find another guy because SHE WAS SO BORED and had SO MUCH MORE TIME to spend DOIING NOTHING because I done the cleaning, cooking and made most of the money. WE had GREAT sex BUT,,,,,I think she just WANTED MORE.....
And so do I FEEL that living a life like THAT is a good thing,,,NO,
I feel that any and ALL relationships should be 50/50.
I don't mind doing ANY and ALL, as long as my OTHER "SHOWS" me she appreciates "WHAT" I have done for her and is "ALSO" willing to do ANY and ALL for "ME" so WE BALANCE OUT...
I have learned that NO RELATIONSHIP can be just "ONE-SIDED EXPECTATIONS.......:heart:
NO-MATTER the EXPECTATIONS, if "THEY" bother the other, it will destroy THAT relationship, in TIME!

SO, if YOU want to have a short relaxed relationship with a man who will give his ALL trust me, YOU will then see him as someone YOU FEEL you can TAKE ADVANTAGE OF, and YOU WILL.

Then you will be here asking for the same as you are NOW, and he will be the guy writting THIS REPLY BACK TO YOU!!!:wink:

Good Luck with trying to find a REAL GIVING man who trully falls in-LOVE with you, just so he can then BE BROKEN DOWN TO NOTHING, BECAUSE of "THAT" same love he feels for you...
:heart: flowerforyou grumble bigsmile drinker smokin

hottpinkilicious's photo
Sun 02/24/08 09:36 AM
WOW!!! All that becasue I asked for 2 hours to watch TV! A little bitter, pal?????

Single_Rob's photo
Sun 02/24/08 09:38 AM
well I could have sworn that a relationship was give and take. Do you not have any desire to be included in things that are important to your mate? While everyone needs their own time, there is nothing better than your mate being your best friend, and sharing the things that bring you enjoyment. This is not to say that it has to be everytime, but how many chick flicks do we go see while an action movie we want to see is showing in the next room?

68chevy's photo
Sun 02/24/08 09:41 AM
Edited by 68chevy on Sun 02/24/08 09:42 AM
Who really sounds bitter??


How about just one man saying he is into long, relaxing weekends at luxury resorts, he enjoys cleaning and doing laundry, and isn't looking for a "slender" woman(get real..how many women are over 30, have kids, and are "slender"...we just don't have TIME with all the responsibility dumped on us)? Do you men really think after caring for kids all week and working full time that women want to go hiking on the weekend? How about one man that says he will make dinner and clean up and let me sit on the couch and watch whatever I want on TV for 2 hours? Just one who will clean up after everyone so I can sunbathe for an hour without having to jump up every 5 minutes to get someone something to drink ...?
Sorry for venting.....just so sick of reading the same list of unrealistic demands on every guy's profile.....

hottpinkilicious's photo
Sun 02/24/08 09:44 AM

Who really sounds bitter??


How about just one man saying he is into long, relaxing weekends at luxury resorts, he enjoys cleaning and doing laundry, and isn't looking for a "slender" woman(get real..how many women are over 30, have kids, and are "slender"...we just don't have TIME with all the responsibility dumped on us)? Do you men really think after caring for kids all week and working full time that women want to go hiking on the weekend? How about one man that says he will make dinner and clean up and let me sit on the couch and watch whatever I want on TV for 2 hours? Just one who will clean up after everyone so I can sunbathe for an hour without having to jump up every 5 minutes to get someone something to drink ...?
Sorry for venting.....just so sick of reading the same list of unrealistic demands on every guy's profile.....



Trade places for a week and see who's bitter then!

countrybumpkin2u's photo
Sun 02/24/08 09:46 AM

Do men REALLY want a woman who likes to HIKE, go CAMPING, FISHING, and HUNTING? Do you want a woman who LOVES NASCAR? Aren't these things guys do with their GUY friends?
That's like a woman saying she wants a man who loves to dance, crochets, and is into Tupperware parties......
Just my opinion, but I want a guy who is NOT into the sase things I am. God bless you if you find awoman who likes to sweat, smell dirty and go without indoor plumbing....that is my idea of hell on earth. How about just one man saying he is into long, relaxing weekends at luxury resorts, he enjoys cleaning and doing laundry, and isn't looking for a "slender" woman(get real..how many women are over 30, have kids, and are "slender"...we just don't have TIME with all the responsibility dumped on us)? Do you men really think after caring for kids all week and working full time that women want to go hiking on the weekend? How about one man that says he will make dinner and clean up and let me sit on the couch and watch whatever I want on TV for 2 hours? Just one who will clean up after everyone so I can sunbathe for an hour without having to jump up every 5 minutes to get someone something to drink ...?
Sorry for venting.....just so sick of reading the same list of unrealistic demands on every guy's profile.....
They want us to give everything....what will they give?
HEADACHES!laugh

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Sun 02/24/08 09:46 AM


Who really sounds bitter??


How about just one man saying he is into long, relaxing weekends at luxury resorts, he enjoys cleaning and doing laundry, and isn't looking for a "slender" woman(get real..how many women are over 30, have kids, and are "slender"...we just don't have TIME with all the responsibility dumped on us)? Do you men really think after caring for kids all week and working full time that women want to go hiking on the weekend? How about one man that says he will make dinner and clean up and let me sit on the couch and watch whatever I want on TV for 2 hours? Just one who will clean up after everyone so I can sunbathe for an hour without having to jump up every 5 minutes to get someone something to drink ...?
Sorry for venting.....just so sick of reading the same list of unrealistic demands on every guy's profile.....



Trade places for a week and see who's bitter then!



Why can't we all get alongflowerforyou Come on let's all sing Kum Ba Yahhuh huh huh

68chevy's photo
Sun 02/24/08 09:49 AM
Can't do that....we would have to go camping or something...sitting around a campfire.laugh laugh




Who really sounds bitter??


How about just one man saying he is into long, relaxing weekends at luxury resorts, he enjoys cleaning and doing laundry, and isn't looking for a "slender" woman(get real..how many women are over 30, have kids, and are "slender"...we just don't have TIME with all the responsibility dumped on us)? Do you men really think after caring for kids all week and working full time that women want to go hiking on the weekend? How about one man that says he will make dinner and clean up and let me sit on the couch and watch whatever I want on TV for 2 hours? Just one who will clean up after everyone so I can sunbathe for an hour without having to jump up every 5 minutes to get someone something to drink ...?
Sorry for venting.....just so sick of reading the same list of unrealistic demands on every guy's profile.....



Trade places for a week and see who's bitter then!



Why can't we all get alongflowerforyou Come on let's all sing Kum Ba Yahhuh huh huh

countrybumpkin2u's photo
Sun 02/24/08 09:49 AM



Who really sounds bitter??


How about just one man saying he is into long, relaxing weekends at luxury resorts, he enjoys cleaning and doing laundry, and isn't looking for a "slender" woman(get real..how many women are over 30, have kids, and are "slender"...we just don't have TIME with all the responsibility dumped on us)? Do you men really think after caring for kids all week and working full time that women want to go hiking on the weekend? How about one man that says he will make dinner and clean up and let me sit on the couch and watch whatever I want on TV for 2 hours? Just one who will clean up after everyone so I can sunbathe for an hour without having to jump up every 5 minutes to get someone something to drink ...?
Sorry for venting.....just so sick of reading the same list of unrealistic demands on every guy's profile.....



Trade places for a week and see who's bitter then!



Why can't we all get alongflowerforyou Come on let's all sing Kum Ba Yahhuh huh huh
Oh Lord KUM BA YAH!!!!!!laugh flowerforyou

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Sun 02/24/08 09:52 AM

WOW!!! All that becasue I asked for 2 hours to watch TV! A little bitter, pal?????
bigsmile BITTER, NO, im over what happen to me but REMEMBER IT, oh yeah,,,lol
And I don't just BLOW-OFF answers to REAL questions..
If it comes from my TYPE, it comes from MY HEART!:heart:

YOU asked a QUESTION-OF-HEART. Were YOU just being FUNNY and SILLY?
Or did YOU want a SERIOUS reply to your QUESTION?

SEE, I don't PLAY WELL with others who just come here to ask questions that DON"T REALLY want a TRUE ANSWER in return.

ITS A ME THING,lol
SEE, im under the impression that this internet place can be viewed as REAL and a great place to FIND some honest people to call my real friends in life.

And I GET that impression through the lives that touch me and I them.
THROUGH replies and posts and emails,,
THATS why im on here and I really love to be REAL with EVERYONE, NOT JUST YOU!

But if ya wanted a blow0off answer, then you should have said.
THIS is just for $HIT and Giggles, ok,lol..bigsmile

THEN, I could have simply said...
OK,BUT I WANT SEX ON DEMAND,LOL,LOLbigsmile laugh laugh

DebbieJT's photo
Sun 02/24/08 09:54 AM
i love the outdoors hiking etc and im a motorbike lover so i think its great...never mind getting the hair wet it drys lol

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Sun 02/24/08 09:54 AM


WOW!!! All that becasue I asked for 2 hours to watch TV! A little bitter, pal?????
bigsmile BITTER, NO, im over what happen to me but REMEMBER IT, oh yeah,,,lol
And I don't just BLOW-OFF answers to REAL questions..
If it comes from my TYPE, it comes from MY HEART!:heart:

YOU asked a QUESTION-OF-HEART. Were YOU just being FUNNY and SILLY?
Or did YOU want a SERIOUS reply to your QUESTION?

SEE, I don't PLAY WELL with others who just come here to ask questions that DON"T REALLY want a TRUE ANSWER in return.

ITS A ME THING,lol
SEE, im under the impression that this internet place can be viewed as REAL and a great place to FIND some honest people to call my real friends in life.

And I GET that impression through the lives that touch me and I them.
THROUGH replies and posts and emails,,
THATS why im on here and I really love to be REAL with EVERYONE, NOT JUST YOU!

But if ya wanted a blow0off answer, then you should have said.
THIS is just for $HIT and Giggles, ok,lol..bigsmile

THEN, I could have simply said...
OK,BUT I WANT SEX ON DEMAND,LOL,LOLbigsmile laugh laugh


Oh lord Kum Ba Yah.... Is that like movies on demand??huh

68chevy's photo
Sun 02/24/08 09:55 AM

i love the outdoors hiking etc and im a motorbike lover so i think its great...never mind getting the hair wet it drys lol


drinker :smile: flowerforyou

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Sun 02/24/08 09:58 AM
WE all live in a yellow submarine, a yellow submarine,lol
noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway

bigsmile ok,,,Kum Ba Yah,,,,,,,((GROUP HUG)))),,,,lol

hottpinkilicious's photo
Sun 02/24/08 10:08 AM

Well GEEEEEEEEEE, I guess seeing as I lived through a 16 year marrage and I was like that,,,YES, I could live that life some-more, but my ex did take it apond herself to THEN find another guy because SHE WAS SO BORED and had SO MUCH MORE TIME to spend DOIING NOTHING because I done the cleaning, cooking and made most of the money. WE had GREAT sex BUT,,,,,I think she just WANTED MORE.....
And so do I FEEL that living a life like THAT is a good thing,,,NO,
I feel that any and ALL relationships should be 50/50.
I don't mind doing ANY and ALL, as long as my OTHER "SHOWS" me she appreciates "WHAT" I have done for her and is "ALSO" willing to do ANY and ALL for "ME" so WE BALANCE OUT...
I have learned that NO RELATIONSHIP can be just "ONE-SIDED EXPECTATIONS.......:heart:
NO-MATTER the EXPECTATIONS, if "THEY" bother the other, it will destroy THAT relationship, in TIME!

SO, if YOU want to have a short relaxed relationship with a man who will give his ALL trust me, YOU will then see him as someone YOU FEEL you can TAKE ADVANTAGE OF, and YOU WILL.

Then you will be here asking for the same as you are NOW, and he will be the guy writting THIS REPLY BACK TO YOU!!!:wink:

Good Luck with trying to find a REAL GIVING man who trully falls in-LOVE with you, just so he can then BE BROKEN DOWN TO NOTHING, BECAUSE of "THAT" same love he feels for you...
:heart: flowerforyou grumble bigsmile drinker smokin


Where did I say I wanted a one-sided relationship?
Where did I say I wanted to take advantage of anyone?
Where did I say I wanted to break someone down to nothing?
Did I say I would NOT do the things he wanted? NO! I just asked for a man to give a little and be considerate of what I might want to do sometimes.
Please do us all a favor and DO NOT date! NO woman deserves the nasty attitude you are projecting onto women! We are NOT all you ex wife!!