30's and 40's?? There's a big difference between say 33 and 48.

I'd strongly encourage this section be split into decade groups.

20's, 30's, 40's, etc.

It's so tough delineating by age though. For instance I'm 40 so anyone between 33 and 45 or so is where my attention goes.

I'm in my 30's but I think I"m much younger....

Yup right on man 30 going on 25 and of course i would perfer a little younger lady!!

every morning I wake up think OMG i'm 38 ( unless it was a year ago then I would say OMG I'm 37 ) but I feel like I just graduated from high school and the younguns look so damn gropeable My mind has not caught up with my body

i agree,huge difference between 30 and 40

If you didn't know how old you are, how old would you be?

I'd probably be about 24, 25, I think.

Humm myself I'm in my late 40's but I do perfer talking to the ones in there 30's so with that said what is the big deal make you a thread that says 40 & above but regardless anyone can still enter it.

Then your problem would be solved and no need to complain on the way the threads are set up they are not law and they do give you and option to make adjustments.


Myself as far as talking to others I have no limits within an age group for I do enjoy listening to those younger as well as older. WE are never to old to learn from the younger or older generation.

I'm 30 but have made friends with people in their 50s, 40s, 30s and 20s

Love this...stop placing so much emphasis on age...it doesnt guarantee anything....

I will be 50 in a few months...

Clealy do not have MUCH in common with someone in their early 30's...

That is not written in stone...one never knows!!!!

just dreaming here

what is the issue

if you click you click

if not then next

age is a number

i have meet 20 somethings mor e mature

than some 50 somethings i have known

<----35, but have made friends on here from 20 all the way up to 58. Oh yeah, and one 19 year old that keeps sending me messages.

I don't mind the age of whomever I'm talking to. Just as long as him/her doesn't try to lord it over me. (=

who cares?a boink is a boink as long as its legal!!

im 40 and I usually get along with mature guys in their early 20's =/ and Im not sure if I am immature or if guys my age just seem a little cynical and jaded to me. but I have met some really great friends online and they are all much younger men. Its great to have them as friends but its funny cause I would like to find someone with a personality like that but closer to my age so that a relationship could at least be possible.

I'm 44...

and I'm in my prime.

<<<loves everybody in this life!

I'm 42, somedays I feel 100, somedays I feel 10. Age is just a number. In my group of in the flesh friends I am what they call the Momma. Most of my friends are 10 years younger than me, some are closer to my kids age than my age. But they love me, they want me to hange out with them, I can drink them all under the table, I help them win every trivia contest they enter, and they all know no matter how drunk I am at the end of the night if they need a shoulder to cry on or a place to crash I'm it...and yes I will remember what we talked about the next day, but will never be the first one to mention said conversation. My teenage kids and their friends actually enjoy my going places with them, but I try to limit myself so they can enjoy their own lives. Age is a number not a rule.

<---31 here, altho i'll talk to anyone, any age

a friend is a friend, you learn something from everyone you come across, if you stop learning, you're dead..

dont know what the big deal is - 30's and 40's doesnt mean only people in that age bracket stop in; comment; participate

why make a forum just for 30 somethings?
next you'll want one for 31 yr olds; 31 yrs and 1 month etc.

does it really matter?