Background: I was married for 13 years and divorced for 5. I enjoyed becoming independant during the 5 years single but now I would like to find my true love. I am not interested in dating more than one guy at a time and I am honest and true in a relationship and expect my guy to be the same. Although, I think it would also be great to meet some just-friends to hang with, if that's how things go. It's all good. What I like: I like drinking coffee & reading books as opposed to the other way around...joke... anyhoo, yeh and I like to have long, deep conversations about everything from religion to politics to the meaning of life. Although, I also like to joke around and not be too serious sometimes because laughter is one of my favorite things besides puppies and The Blues. I also like going to concerts, playing the guitar (electric and accoustic), and listening to music, rock, blues, surf punk, some metal and some easy listening, r&b, and I LOVE oldies and love songs. I like to spend time with family and friends and play Rock Band and sing Karaoke. I like to be around people who are down-to-earth and who like to have fun, not the stuffy poser types. I am not a gym rat, even though I have a membership...but I am still trying to work out a good schedule that I can stick to! Hence the "extra pounds". What I do: I work full time at a good job and Im working part-time on a Graphic Design degree. So, between that and all the Karaoke-singing I don't have a whole lot of time to meet people. But I would love to find someone to do some of the things I like to do with, and maybe even to introduce me to some other fun things... Other Stuff: I didn't have kids before I got divorced, so I don't have any. I do love kids though, and I don't think it's really gonna work out for me to have any, but I think they are wonderful to have around. Forgot to mention: Oh and I am also learning to surf and I like to go to the Casino on the nights that they have a band play.