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Topic: Webcams
iraceslowcars's photo
Tue 02/19/08 09:43 AM
WB, rhon...bigsmile

lilith401's photo
Tue 02/19/08 09:43 AM

When I am on the cam with my SO, I get to see him laugh at what I say or type or vice versa... and we can look into each others eyes.

It is a foundational concern for me. I can tell you if not for the cam, there were many dates I would not have gone on. I ran across a lot of people with a cam but no pics.



thats great lilith - it worked for you happy


Thank you Fran!

I'm not saying it is universal to everyone, I'm just saying it's like the pre-date, it eases your mind and shows you who to look for in the coffeeshop- or airport, lol. Or it can, if you want it to. And afterwards it can really keep you closer.

shoes4rhon's photo
Tue 02/19/08 09:44 AM
Thank you ... it is good to be back ... :heart:

shoes4rhon's photo
Tue 02/19/08 09:45 AM


When I am on the cam with my SO, I get to see him laugh at what I say or type or vice versa... and we can look into each others eyes.

It is a foundational concern for me. I can tell you if not for the cam, there were many dates I would not have gone on. I ran across a lot of people with a cam but no pics.



thats great lilith - it worked for you happy


Thank you Fran!

I'm not saying it is universal to everyone, I'm just saying it's like the pre-date, it eases your mind and shows you who to look for in the coffeeshop- or airport, lol. Or it can, if you want it to. And afterwards it can really keep you closer.


lilth I love watching you when we talk .. it makes it like we are girlfriends having coffee .. it makes you seem not so far away..

franshade's photo
Tue 02/19/08 09:51 AM


When I am on the cam with my SO, I get to see him laugh at what I say or type or vice versa... and we can look into each others eyes.

It is a foundational concern for me. I can tell you if not for the cam, there were many dates I would not have gone on. I ran across a lot of people with a cam but no pics.



thats great lilith - it worked for you happy


Thank you Fran!

I'm not saying it is universal to everyone, I'm just saying it's like the pre-date, it eases your mind and shows you who to look for in the coffeeshop- or airport, lol. Or it can, if you want it to. And afterwards it can really keep you closer.

I hear you and agree. Only speaking on myself of course :wink:,
the webcam keeps me close and connect to family and friends. I just dont use it as a requirement to speak to people online. If and when I am lucky to make a match like that, in person would make it more special for me. flowerforyou Now after I have met that SO, I agree the cam can come in handy when not together.

lilith401's photo
Tue 02/19/08 09:55 AM

lilth I love watching you when we talk .. it makes it like we are girlfriends having coffee .. it makes you seem not so far away..


Shoes.. I'm getting the creamer tonight! Oh, and a haircut... so I might have a hat on. Sorry- no du-rags. The hat is my version.

Exactly-- not so far away. Here's to seeing you later! Really!!flowerforyou

TheShadow's photo
Tue 02/19/08 10:11 AM
Edited by TheShadow on Tue 02/19/08 10:12 AM




Do you think that people should use webcams to pre meet so to speak prior to meeting in person?? - nothing dirty just to see each other while you talk kind of thing...


I been telling people this as long as I been on here. There are to many people on these sites that don't look like there pic and I know a couple right now, but thats for them to deal with.

The thing about the cam, it kinda shows the truth and you'll know what your kind of getting. The thing about it though, is a lot of people will use some kind of excuse in not having one etc etc etc. If you can buy a cell and pay for that. Then a cam is nothing because there only like $30 and your cell will run you $100 a month sometimes. Anyway, if I'm going to meet someone and they give me this I don't have a cam blah blah blah. Don't wast my time because I want wast yours and will move on....

celticpride0280's photo
Tue 02/19/08 10:14 AM


I understand that this is online dating , but jump off the effin' PC and live a lil...

lilith401's photo
Tue 02/19/08 10:18 AM


I understand that this is online dating , but jump off the effin' PC and live a lil...


And if you can't? What if the person lives too far away for a cup of coffee? Hmmmmm????

And by the way.... why don't you tell us all how you really feel? I thought you were rather vague....

no photo
Tue 02/19/08 10:19 AM

Chatting over a web cam is about as cool as a mullet on a midget...


I understand that this is online dating , but jump off the effin' PC and live a lil...
your obsessed with midgets too......arent you!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh

celticpride0280's photo
Tue 02/19/08 10:23 AM





I understand that this is online dating , but jump off the effin' PC and live a lil...
your obsessed with midgets too......arent you!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh


Quite terrified actually ...anyone with their center of gravity that close to my genitals is especially frightning!bigsmile

TheShadow's photo
Tue 02/19/08 10:25 AM

Chatting over a web cam is about as cool as a mullet on a midget...


I understand that this is online dating , but jump off the effin' PC and live a lil...


try taking a trip or two and come to find out that the person you came to kinda know and put your trust in some what and only to find out they don't look like there pic at all. Live a littlelaugh been there done that!

no photo
Tue 02/19/08 10:25 AM



Chatting over a web cam is about as cool as a mullet on a midget...


I understand that this is online dating , but jump off the effin' PC and live a lil...
your obsessed with midgets too......arent you!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh


Quite terrified actually ...anyone with their center of gravity that close to my genitals is especially frightning!bigsmile
HASHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

no photo
Tue 02/19/08 10:52 AM
Wow! Just a hand full of pages...

It goes from webcams to little people with bad haircuts!

I always say.. Everyone needs a hobby! That would be one I'd keep to myself and my midgets though.

shoes4rhon's photo
Tue 02/19/08 11:42 AM
ahh mullets .. the do of the 80s

itsmetina's photo
Tue 02/19/08 11:44 AM
its their choice i do think webcams r more personal than emails

daniel48706's photo
Tue 02/19/08 11:44 AM




Do you think that people should use webcams to pre meet so to speak prior to meeting in person?? - nothing dirty just to see each other while you talk kind of thing...


i myself prefer it, althogh I can understand if someone did nt have the money for a webcam (been there done that lol).
I would prefer it however, because there are so mnay people that put misleading photographs up and such. not to say theres anythign wrong with a a pic that is two years old, but this way yuo know what to expect when you meet the person as well.

shoes4rhon's photo
Tue 02/19/08 01:11 PM
well I think that we owe to ourselves to use all the tools to help us survive out in this big huge webbed world

franshade's photo
Tue 02/19/08 01:19 PM

well I think that we owe to ourselves to use all the tools to help us survive out in this big huge webbed world


drinker here's to the web
noway here's to me on webcam

laugh laugh laugh laugh

lilith401's photo
Tue 02/19/08 03:12 PM
Yaaay!! Did we convert you? drinker

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