Topic: Why do women never approach men?
MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Mon 02/11/08 04:24 PM
First I was shy...
Then I tried...
Then I gave up...
Now I'm just here...
huh

Totage's photo
Mon 02/11/08 04:24 PM

I have no problem making the first move. I dont think it really matters who makes the first move.

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soxfan94's photo
Mon 02/11/08 04:25 PM

in my experiance, they do


yep

Simple_angel869's photo
Mon 02/11/08 04:26 PM

they always expect the man to make the 1st move and he might be exactly who they want but since he didnt make the move u let him go. It doesnt make any sense????


Because they are afraid of rejection.

Naugachomp's photo
Mon 02/11/08 04:27 PM

I went up 2 a guy on Saturday, it caught him so off guard he refused to dance. Makes me think twice about it next time.


welcome to the guys world.

coquibella's photo
Mon 02/11/08 04:28 PM
I've been the aggressor and made the first move many a time. But if I feel flirty sometimes good body language is all you need to increase his courage. I think a woman that is making a first move needs a certain confidence.

no photo
Mon 02/11/08 04:28 PM

women like being persued


Yeh, thats what I was trying to tell the Judge..but she kept saying it was "stalking"!!! noway noway bigsmile drinker laugh laugh flowerforyou flowerforyou




(just joking again!) :tongue: laugh

PATSFAN's photo
Mon 02/11/08 04:29 PM


women like being persued


Yeh, thats what I was trying to tell the Judge..but she kept saying it was "stalking"!!! noway noway bigsmile drinker laugh laugh flowerforyou flowerforyou




(just joking again!) :tongue: laugh









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PATSFAN's photo
Mon 02/11/08 04:30 PM

I went up 2 a guy on Saturday, it caught him so off guard he refused to dance. Makes me think twice about it next time.





You scared him.:smile:

no photo
Mon 02/11/08 04:31 PM
the laughing and finger pointing kind of keeps me at bay.
smokin

Lurk's photo
Mon 02/11/08 04:32 PM
You gotta present yourself to them, yeah they may shoot you down, but it gives you experience so you'll know what to do for the next go around. And in my experience enough no's eventually merit a Yes :wink:

jtitol's photo
Mon 02/11/08 04:37 PM
i know they send signs like this 1s :wink: happy :tongue: laugh devil and all that if they are interested but most of the time they are so subtle that they just pass by and its too late.

Lily0923's photo
Mon 02/11/08 04:38 PM
I never approach a man when I am out, I want a strong and confident man... if he's not, I'll throw him back in the pond anyway.... this just weeds the weak ones out.

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Mon 02/11/08 04:38 PM

I've been the aggressor and made the first move many a time. But if I feel flirty sometimes good body language is all you need to increase his courage. I think a woman that is making a first move needs a certain confidence.


True, and I find it refreshing when when a woman approaches me sometimes..it lets me know she is interested...

Then all I have to do is ask her.."ok..how much?" noway noway :tongue: laugh laugh laugh

Ok that part was a JOKE folks! But seriously, its nice as a man to know a woman is interested too. bigsmile drinker laugh flowerforyou

Simple_angel869's photo
Mon 02/11/08 04:42 PM
lol...Ladies, this is our time. Walk up to the man, buy him a beer, make conversation, ask him to dance. Be bold and straight up with it.

jtitol's photo
Mon 02/11/08 04:44 PM

I never approach a man when I am out, I want a strong and confident man... if he's not, I'll throw him back in the pond anyway.... this just weeds the weak ones out.
this just weeds the weak ones out.laugh laugh

no photo
Mon 02/11/08 04:45 PM

lol...Ladies, this is our time. Walk up to the man, buy him a beer, make conversation, ask him to dance. Be bold and straight up with it.



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I nominate HER for PRESIDENT!!! Now there is a bold and confident woman! And she doesn;t ven have to buy me a beer!!! drinker drinker drinker bigsmile laugh

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BEACHBABE23's photo
Mon 02/11/08 04:46 PM

If I waited for a man to come get me, I would never get any......devil
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Lily0923's photo
Mon 02/11/08 04:46 PM


I never approach a man when I am out, I want a strong and confident man... if he's not, I'll throw him back in the pond anyway.... this just weeds the weak ones out.
this just weeds the weak ones out.laugh laugh


I'm 5'3" if you are intimidated by me..... you are intimidated by alot.

no photo
Mon 02/11/08 04:46 PM

I never approach a man when I am out, I want a strong and confident man... if he's not, I'll throw him back in the pond anyway.... this just weeds the weak ones out.


ROFL...weeds out the "weak ones"!!??? OOOOOOOO'tay! Keep thinking that! noway bigsmile drinker laugh laugh flowerforyou