Topic: Why do women never approach men?
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Mon 02/11/08 05:03 PM

It would make life alot easier that is for sure..... no head games, no wishy washy people...know what you want and don't settle for less..... I can see it now..... the angels would sing I think.

IT'S EITHER I LIKE YOU OR I DON'T LIKE YOU.
BLACK AND WHITE.
SALT AND PEPPER.
WHITE ROCK AND BLACK ROCK.
WHITE CAR AND BLACK CAR.
NO FAKE EMOTIONAL GAMES

EXACTLY! drinker

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Mon 02/11/08 05:03 PM

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I nominate HER for PRESIDENT!!! Now there is a bold and confident woman! And she doesn;t ven have to buy me a beer!!! drinker drinker drinker bigsmile laugh

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No probs. I can at least get you a beverage though. I like to buy guys a beverage. it is only manners

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Mon 02/11/08 05:04 PM


It would make life alot easier that is for sure..... no head games, no wishy washy people...know what you want and don't settle for less..... I can see it now..... the angels would sing I think.

IT'S EITHER I LIKE YOU OR I DON'T LIKE YOU.
BLACK AND WHITE.
SALT AND PEPPER.
WHITE ROCK AND BLACK ROCK.
WHITE CAR AND BLACK CAR.
NO FAKE EMOTIONAL GAMES

EXACTLY! drinker


salt or pepper?

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Mon 02/11/08 05:04 PM


they always expect the man to make the 1st move and he might be exactly who they want but since he didnt make the move u let him go. It doesnt make any sense????


I'm pretty sure that if you get up off the couch in your momma's basement? You're chances will greatly improve in this department.
ur making fun of me when ur 44 and couldntn even stayed married

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Mon 02/11/08 05:04 PM


Or you could be alone a long time, I like the odds otherwise


So if I'm alone for a long time, that's ok.... at least I can look at myself in the mirror and know I didn't compromise my standards just to get laid, or to "be" with someone....

I'm ok with being alone the rest of my life if he doesn't come along....

I'm not despirate or lonely, I'm picky...what's wrong with that?

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Mon 02/11/08 05:05 PM


It would make life alot easier that is for sure..... no head games, no wishy washy people...know what you want and don't settle for less..... I can see it now..... the angels would sing I think.

IT'S EITHER I LIKE YOU OR I DON'T LIKE YOU.
BLACK AND WHITE.
SALT AND PEPPER.
WHITE ROCK AND BLACK ROCK.
WHITE CAR AND BLACK CAR.
NO FAKE EMOTIONAL GAMES

EXACTLY! drinker


amen brotha...amen.

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Mon 02/11/08 05:05 PM



Or you could be alone a long time, I like the odds otherwise


So if I'm alone for a long time, that's ok.... at least I can look at myself in the mirror and know I didn't compromise my standards just to get laid, or to "be" with someone....

I'm ok with being alone the rest of my life if he doesn't come along....

I'm not despirate or lonely, I'm picky...what's wrong with that?


whoever says "hi" first isn t high on my standards list, I guess maybe thats a better way to say it.

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Mon 02/11/08 05:05 PM
Edited by chuck366 on Mon 02/11/08 05:06 PM

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Mon 02/11/08 05:07 PM

I'm not despirate or lonely, I'm picky...what's wrong with that?

NOTHING. UNLESS YOU HATE BEING PICKY. THEN YOU MIGHT BE IN A PICKLE. A PICKLED PEPPER. PEPPERED PICKLE PEPPERS.
OR IF EVERY GUY HATES THAT YOU'RE PICKY. BECAUSE YOUR PICKY MIGHT NOT BE THEIR PICKY. AND IF YOU'RE PICKY THEY CAN'T GET IN YOUR PANTS, THEN THEY HAVE TO FIND A DRUNK GIRL INSTEAD.

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Mon 02/11/08 05:08 PM
Edited by Sumthingdifferent on Mon 02/11/08 05:10 PM




I'm 5'3" if you are intimidated by me..... you are intimidated by alot.


I just have to say this..and PLEASE its NOT meant in a bad way..hopefully in the advise it is meant....

Some very strong guys can be shy and even a little insecure when it comes to women..its a natural and very common thing.

I think many men MAY not approach you due to attitude and the "chip" that is rather apparent on your shoulder.

Again, just an observation..not a cutdown or ANYTHING meant bad. bigsmile flowerforyou flowerforyou


It's funny that someon who doesn't know me from Adam thinks I have a chip on my shoulder, if you ask my friends or people who really know me, they will tell you that I am kind, and sweet and always willing to talk to anyone who would approach me...except the cheesy "hey baby" types.

however I am also very confident, and alot of time it comes across as a "chip" to the ones who don't have the inner strength and courage to aproach me, and again I am ok with that.


ROFL..I think the best answer I could give here would be...

"ok princess". noway bigsmile drinker laugh flowerforyou

ps I know you from Adam..you're a girl. bigsmile laugh

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Mon 02/11/08 05:08 PM
picky picky

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Mon 02/11/08 05:09 PM


I'm not despirate or lonely, I'm picky...what's wrong with that?

NOTHING. UNLESS YOU HATE BEING PICKY. THEN YOU MIGHT BE IN A PICKLE. A PICKLED PEPPER. PEPPERED PICKLE PEPPERS.
OR IF EVERY GUY HATES THAT YOU'RE PICKY. BECAUSE YOUR PICKY MIGHT NOT BE THEIR PICKY. AND IF YOU'RE PICKY THEY CAN'T GET IN YOUR PANTS, THEN THEY HAVE TO FIND A DRUNK GIRL INSTEAD.


and there are plenty of drunk girls arn't there...I don't lower myself to that level just to "feel" loved... I love myself, don't need a man for that.

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Mon 02/11/08 05:10 PM





I'm 5'3" if you are intimidated by me..... you are intimidated by alot.


I just have to say this..and PLEASE its NOT meant in a bad way..hopefully in the advise it is meant....

Some very strong guys can be shy and even a little insecure when it comes to women..its a natural and very common thing.

I think many men MAY not approach you due to attitude and the "chip" that is rather apparent on your shoulder.

Again, just an observation..not a cutdown or ANYTHING meant bad. bigsmile flowerforyou flowerforyou


It's funny that someon who doesn't know me from Adam thinks I have a chip on my shoulder, if you ask my friends or people who really know me, they will tell you that I am kind, and sweet and always willing to talk to anyone who would approach me...except the cheesy "hey baby" types.

however I am also very confident, and alot of time it comes across as a "chip" to the ones who don't have the inner strength and courage to aproach me, and again I am ok with that.


ROFL..I think the best answer I could give here would be...

"ok princess". noway bigsmile drinker laugh flowerforyou


thank you for making my point...much obliged.....

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Mon 02/11/08 05:10 PM



I'm not despirate or lonely, I'm picky...what's wrong with that?

NOTHING. UNLESS YOU HATE BEING PICKY. THEN YOU MIGHT BE IN A PICKLE. A PICKLED PEPPER. PEPPERED PICKLE PEPPERS.
OR IF EVERY GUY HATES THAT YOU'RE PICKY. BECAUSE YOUR PICKY MIGHT NOT BE THEIR PICKY. AND IF YOU'RE PICKY THEY CAN'T GET IN YOUR PANTS, THEN THEY HAVE TO FIND A DRUNK GIRL INSTEAD.


and there are plenty of drunk girls arn't there...I don't lower myself to that level just to "feel" loved... I love myself, don't need a man for that.



Houston, we have a problem!

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Mon 02/11/08 05:12 PM

whoever says "hi" first isn t high on my standards list, I guess maybe thats a better way to say it.


well saying Hi and making and approach is a much different thing... I'll talk to anyone, or say hi or whatever...but to plop myself down and strike up a conversation...that's a different story all together.

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Mon 02/11/08 05:13 PM


whoever says "hi" first isn t high on my standards list, I guess maybe thats a better way to say it.


well saying Hi and making and approach is a much different thing... I'll talk to anyone, or say hi or whatever...but to plop myself down and strike up a conversation...that's a different story all together.


Mercy! U win. Peace out!

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Mon 02/11/08 05:15 PM
Edited by Sumthingdifferent on Mon 02/11/08 05:18 PM




I'm not despirate or lonely, I'm picky...what's wrong with that?

NOTHING. UNLESS YOU HATE BEING PICKY. THEN YOU MIGHT BE IN A PICKLE. A PICKLED PEPPER. PEPPERED PICKLE PEPPERS.
OR IF EVERY GUY HATES THAT YOU'RE PICKY. BECAUSE YOUR PICKY MIGHT NOT BE THEIR PICKY. AND IF YOU'RE PICKY THEY CAN'T GET IN YOUR PANTS, THEN THEY HAVE TO FIND A DRUNK GIRL INSTEAD.


and there are plenty of drunk girls arn't there...I don't lower myself to that level just to "feel" loved... I love myself, don't need a man for that.



Houston, we have a problem!


RUN CHUCK RUN!!!!!!!
EJECT! RETREAT..GET OUT OF THERE!!!! noway noway laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Mon 02/11/08 05:20 PM
Edited by Jistme on Mon 02/11/08 05:22 PM

ur making fun of me when ur 44 and couldntn even stayed married
Self edit..

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Mon 02/11/08 09:33 PM
Edited by Jeanniebean on Mon 02/11/08 09:34 PM
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Mon 02/11/08 09:35 PM
its actually vice versa for me i have never gone up to a girl,but the girls always go up to me.