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How do you talk to girls in order to get a date? I really dont know how. Or what to talk about in the conversation.. I usually run ouf things to say within a few seconds after some Sooo.... questions. i geat really flusted and nervous around girls. ANd I am very pick at that. My freinds dont understand why I don't justtalk to girls I see in the hallway or hang out with other people. They try to get me to be sociable outside of my freind circle but its so hard for me. I do want a girlfreind before I become an "adult" at least but it seems so rocky lately. I just want a pretty,Intelegent,Down to earth girl. My freinds always try to set me up with girls my own age who look their age but I cant really seem to talk to them. I really want to so I'll be able to get used to grown women. I can hardley do it on my own. I cant see a girl as just a freind but my freinds are okay with it because its still somone to talk to. they keep telling me just to get to know different types of girls because they tell me I really don't know my "type" and that I am overly picky because I don't know anything. I am not outgoing and this si soooo hard to do. It feels like I am being ripped off when i can only be freinds with girls. I am not looking for a model I just don't want a girl who is "pudgy" or "thick" or rough looking. or "black" like me. I want someone who is different and is not taller than me. 2 of my freinds have never dated girls and they seem okay with talking with them and other people. and see being freinds with a pretty girl as no big deal and keep saying to me the only way to get a girlfreind is to be freinds with them. Is being freinds the only good way to get a girlfreind? |
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How do you talk to girls in order to get a date? I really dont know how. Or what to talk about in the conversation.. I usually run ouf things to say within a few seconds after some Sooo.... questions. i geat really flusted and nervous around girls. ANd I am very pick at that. My freinds dont understand why I don't justtalk to girls I see in the hallway or hang out with other people. They try to get me to be sociable outside of my freind circle but its so hard for me. I do want a girlfreind before I become an "adult" at least but it seems so rocky lately. I just want a pretty,Intelegent,Down to earth girl. My freinds always try to set me up with girls my own age who look their age but I cant really seem to talk to them. I really want to so I'll be able to get used to grown women. I can hardley do it on my own. I cant see a girl as just a freind but my freinds are okay with it because its still somone to talk to. they keep telling me just to get to know different types of girls because they tell me I really don't know my "type" and that I am overly picky because I don't know anything. I am not outgoing and this si soooo hard to do. It feels like I am being ripped off when i can only be freinds with girls. I am not looking for a model I just don't want a girl who is "pudgy" or "thick" or rough looking. or "black" like me. I want someone who is different and is not taller than me. 2 of my freinds have never dated girls and they seem okay with talking with them and other people. and see being freinds with a pretty girl as no big deal and keep saying to me the only way to get a girlfreind is to be freinds with them. Is being freinds the only good way to get a girlfreind? What do you mean, you feel "ripped off" when you can "only be friends"? I get the impression what you really want to know is how to get a girl to have sex with you. |
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How do you talk to girls in order to get a date? I really dont know how. Or what to talk about in the conversation.. I usually run ouf things to say within a few seconds after some Sooo.... questions. i geat really flusted and nervous around girls. ANd I am very pick at that. My freinds dont understand why I don't justtalk to girls I see in the hallway or hang out with other people. They try to get me to be sociable outside of my freind circle but its so hard for me. I do want a girlfreind before I become an "adult" at least but it seems so rocky lately. I just want a pretty,Intelegent,Down to earth girl. My freinds always try to set me up with girls my own age who look their age but I cant really seem to talk to them. I really want to so I'll be able to get used to grown women. I can hardley do it on my own. I cant see a girl as just a freind but my freinds are okay with it because its still somone to talk to. they keep telling me just to get to know different types of girls because they tell me I really don't know my "type" and that I am overly picky because I don't know anything. I am not outgoing and this si soooo hard to do. It feels like I am being ripped off when i can only be freinds with girls. I am not looking for a model I just don't want a girl who is "pudgy" or "thick" or rough looking. or "black" like me. I want someone who is different and is not taller than me. 2 of my freinds have never dated girls and they seem okay with talking with them and other people. and see being freinds with a pretty girl as no big deal and keep saying to me the only way to get a girlfreind is to be freinds with them. Is being freinds the only good way to get a girlfreind? What do you mean, you feel "ripped off" when you can "only be friends"? I get the impression what you really want to know is how to get a girl to have sex with you. That too :D but I'd love to date too. Well Why not both.. |
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on the other hand, if you don't come on strong enough, they'll think you're some sort of loser or something and they'll blow you off. and if they DO blow you off, you can bet that it's a pretty good indication of what they're like, first-impression or not. Here in Los Angeles, you also gotta be driving a Porsche or Ferrari, have an eight-figure bankroll, and look like Matt Damon or Carrot Top before they'll even THINK about talking to you. And since I don't drive a Porsche/Ferrari, the eight-figure bankroll, and I don't look like Matt Damon, you can pretty well guess where that leaves me. I left my age range open that helped ! never know what a younger guy could teach me. LOL |
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go to other place you like and find girls there(you might share the same interests)libraries,parks,mall,even a pet shop,good way to start one.
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