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Edited by
ellgee1976
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Wed 01/30/08 12:49 PM
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middle child here... older one knew better than to do something, younger one didn't know how so of course, i was the one that got the blame...always everything that went wrong was my fault, i learned to be strong due to it, couldn't rely on the older one cuz he was the "black sheep" of the family, the younger one was too much of a damn baby lol anywho...middle child syndrome here..lol LMAO .. I wonder if my 3 sisters always said that about me ... "TOO MUCH OF A DAMN BABY" 
honestly, my mother was hardest on me, the other 2 had a messy room, no homework done, terrible grades, and got away with anything.. i had to have my room spotless, all chore were done by me (due to blackmail), do my homework IN my room, A role student..and got away with nothing.. i didn't respect my mom growing up, i was scared to piss her off...i watched her take down my older brother, wasn't about to piss her off.. it's affected my relationship with my mother..still does to this day she helps my brothers with anything from bills to gf advice.. i do everything on my own, when my brothers need a lone, they go to mom..i need one...touch chit..i deal |
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ellgee. i am a middle child. look how normal i turned out
at least you are georgous and i will still open your door
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awww...
*shucks* lol |
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Edited by
Fade2Black
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Wed 01/30/08 01:09 PM
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Well I think I was too sensitive as a child .. but I was also the wild child (haven't outgrown that much
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I was the only one to do anything really out there .. only one to take drugs, only one with really illicit sex stories, only one to get pregnant in high school and be a parent at 17 .. Only one to get high speed cars like firebird, porsche and now the RX8 .. only one with the big bad "D" stamped on my forehead (ie divorced) only one that's been a single parent not once but twice in my life (total of 5  )..........
Ya ... I've lived the good life
The way I see it the ONLY one who pushes the envelope, lives for risk, risks some to live, and is an all-around HIGH MAINTENANCE chica. I LOVE IT  
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Middle child here
Oldest kids tend to emerge strong confident leaders. For example, almost all of the U.S. Presidents were either the first-born child or the first-born son in their families. And, all but two of the first astronauts sent into space were first-borns. The oldest child or the firstborn is always going to be the most anticipated and exciting for the parent. Parents are nervous and making a trial run of their parenting skills. Every first is something new and exciting to celebrate. Plus, the baby gets full parental time and attention. However, as a child gets older frustrations can develop as oldest children tend to have more parental restrictions than younger siblings. Older children also may have the added responsibility of taking care of their younger brothers or sisters. Adding second and third children greatly impacts the family structure, and a middle child is created. Yes, the “Middle Child Syndrome” is very real. Middle kids bemoan their fate as being ignored and often grow resentful of all the parental attention given to the oldest and the baby of the family, and feel short-shifted. Three kids triangulate sibling relationships, with one child at any given point feeling like the odd man out from the chumminess of the other two. |
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well in my family i am the oldest of three but in my birthfamily I'm the second child of eight.
Anyway as the oldest I got all the **** and the younger ones got away with murder. |
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Out of 7 of us i'm the second to you youngest but knowing I have 4 stiters they were always taken care before me. How did it effect me? well I figured out real quick, if I wanted anything I had to do it myself.
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<-----#4 in a line up of ten, thinnest and shortest, that's because I had to fight for food in the line-up
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Youngest of seven..........four brothers, a sister, another brother and then The Great One!!
Did someone say: spoiled????
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YOU READY FOR THIS ONE.
I don't know my real folks soooo First I was the youngest.. Then I was the Middle Then I was the Oldest Then I was the only child I got bounced around quite a bit. It's harder and harder to find people that are actually interested in bringing up a decent human being. Thanks be to me grandma for making a man out of me. |
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I was the oldest of 3, til age 10. Then I inherited 2 weekend step bothers one 3 yrs. older and one just 3 months younger.
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Middle child here
Oldest kids tend to emerge strong confident leaders. ya .. my middle son 3rd of 5 is definitely a strong leader
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YOU READY FOR THIS ONE. I don't know my real folks soooo First I was the youngest.. Then I was the Middle Then I was the Oldest Then I was the only child I got bounced around quite a bit. It's harder and harder to find people that are actually interested in bringing up a decent human being. Thanks be to me grandma for making a man out of me. true be that babe ...
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YOU READY FOR THIS ONE. I don't know my real folks soooo First I was the youngest.. Then I was the Middle Then I was the Oldest Then I was the only child I got bounced around quite a bit. It's harder and harder to find people that are actually interested in bringing up a decent human being. Thanks be to me grandma for making a man out of me.
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ONE AND ONLY-- DADDY'S GIRL!!!! I WAS ALSO LONELY THEN,LONELY NOW......
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depends..
im the only girl of 3.. but middle child with one bro a year older.. and one 7 years younger... or the second to youngest of 5... youngest girl.. but not the baby.. ether way.. i got middle child syndrome up the azz!!!! lol it sux..
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ONE AND ONLY-- DADDY'S GIRL!!!! I WAS ALSO LONELY THEN,LONELY NOW...... My oldest daughter had 16 years between her and my next daughter .. she has all tendencies of an only child. I think it must be very lonely. Don't have to share but then there's no one to 'not share' with 
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Oldest of 4 dudes
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I`m the youngest. I have a sister 5 years older than me.
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Love the 'older woman' syndrome ...
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