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J/K .. but when I had my first son, I asked the nurse "what do I do with it?" 
When I was pregnant & my mom found out she said you don't like kids you have baby animals!! When Linz was born & she didn't keep anything down in the hosp. she puked & I handed her to the nurse real fast! 
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There are 6 kids in my family. Brother, brother,me, brother, sister, brother Youngest died in 2002, shot fourth in the order died in 2004. froze to death Order wasn't the issue either. mentally and physically abusive childhood so we all stuck together. We were the half dozen family. It was murder to loose little brothers still young. I'm sorry sweetie. 
The other, i got a phone call, but couldn't go the identify him so my late husband took that responsibilty on for me. He was my rock and then I lost him in 2006. You know, take this in the right spirit, but I had such a normal upbringing .. loving parents, happy memories, great sisters, middle to upper mid class setting and I didn't use to be very grateful for it. When I hear the pain others have gone thru it breaks my heart. and makes me so thankful for how I was raised and the pain I did not experience.  ((((((( CUPPY ))))))))
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fade. did you tell me what i was or what happens now. lmao. wait. a lot of women have told me what i was. good thing my feelings don't hurt easy
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welllll.... bet ya couldnt guess this one but i am the MIDDLE child! yep outta 5 of us there were 3 of us first, last 2 kids came much later...none the less, i am still and always will be the MIDDLE child! 
tell us how it affected you ruthie ... I dont even talk about that with my councelor Judy... NOT gonna talk about it here 
uh oh .. should I wonder if my middle son of 5 kids will need therapy too  
depends... is he gettin all kinds of trouble, hangin out with the wrong crowd?? not anymore .. found God in his life. now he's rockin 
then ya got no worries about him!!! 
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That's so true sweetie. Just saw him yesterday. He is so handsome, smart, funny and strong strong character.
I'm just so proud of him & what God has done in his life.
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Oldest of two
15 months apart He had brain surgery last year one month after my BDay. Lucky to still have him around. Not close at all, nothing in common per se but if one paid very close attention.. they would know we are siblings of the same cloth. I feel we grew up an 'only child' under the same roof. |
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fade. did you tell me what i was or what happens now. lmao. wait. a lot of women have told me what i was. good thing my feelings don't hurt easy
LMAO .. Tony you are toooooooooooooo funny. I wasn't gonna tell anybody anything. Just lettin people post for themselves.
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Oldest of two 15 months apart He had brain surgery last year one month after my BDay. Lucky to still have him around. Not close at all, nothing in common per se but if one paid very close attention.. they would know we are siblings of the same cloth. I feel we grew up an 'only child' under the same roof. That's hard hon .. in a crowd and lonely eh? |
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Oldest of two 15 months apart He had brain surgery last year one month after my BDay. Lucky to still have him around. Not close at all, nothing in common per se but if one paid very close attention.. they would know we are siblings of the same cloth. I feel we grew up an 'only child' under the same roof. That's hard hon .. in a crowd and lonely eh? More so in a crowd and alone... but yes at times lonely as well. |
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I had one older brother and 1 younger sister
"The Middle Child Syndrome" When your the middle child at least for me.....you tend to have to fend for yourself. And yes did affect me....but only in a positive. When I was 16 I marched into the bank to get a personal loan with no co-signer.....Almost impossible but got it....at the risk of the bank manager loosing his job....he didn't. I think I have always just been able to fend for myself, and take care of whatever needed to be taken care of. I am still like that......I bought a house young, and pretty self sufficient human being. |
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youngest of 5 .. 2 brothers are the oldest, then 2 sisters , and the running joke in my family is??? after Perfection( me ) they HAD to stop ...
as if ....
No, my dad passed away after I was born so no more little "perfections "
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I had one older brother and 1 younger sister "The Middle Child Syndrome" When your the middle child at least for me.....you tend to have to fend for yourself. And yes did affect me....but only in a positive. When I was 16 I marched into the bank to get a personal loan with no co-signer.....Almost impossible but got it....at the risk of the bank manager loosing his job....he didn't. I think I have always just been able to fend for myself, and take care of whatever needed to be taken care of. I am still like that......I bought a house young, and pretty self sufficient human being. YOU are a surprise little missy. I would have pegged you for the oldest. For sure.
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youngest of 5 .. 2 brothers are the oldest, then 2 sisters , and the running joke in my family is??? after Perfection( me ) they HAD to stop ... as if ....
No, my dad passed away after I was born so no more little "perfections "
ya I was told I was a 'surprise'
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Oldest of 3, have 1 brother & sister.
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I had one older brother and 1 younger sister "The Middle Child Syndrome" When your the middle child at least for me.....you tend to have to fend for yourself. And yes did affect me....but only in a positive. When I was 16 I marched into the bank to get a personal loan with no co-signer.....Almost impossible but got it....at the risk of the bank manager loosing his job....he didn't. I think I have always just been able to fend for myself, and take care of whatever needed to be taken care of. I am still like that......I bought a house young, and pretty self sufficient human being. Ah ha!! No wonder you get me so well!!
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youngest of 5 .. 2 brothers are the oldest, then 2 sisters , and the running joke in my family is??? after Perfection( me ) they HAD to stop ... as if ....
No, my dad passed away after I was born so no more little "perfections "
ya I was told I was a 'surprise'
Really ??? a good surprise I am positive
yeah I was 8 months old when my dad passed away so I don't remember him, BUT from the pictures he is the spiiting image of my middle brother .... |
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I am the middle child
My sister is two years older than me and was the wild child My brother is two years younger than me I am the one who tried to please everyone, and still doing it to this day with the family. I am the caretaker, the only child left in state and now dealing with standing up to them all as I do want I need to do, what is right for me
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Oldest of three here, two brothers. Very independent and strong minded. Self sufficient and self motivated.
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im the baby but i was the one who was expected to do the caretaking and handle everything when elders in the family needed it. not sure why...but i dont regret it! i was able to spend that special time and help them in their times of need.
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I had one older brother and 1 younger sister "The Middle Child Syndrome" When your the middle child at least for me.....you tend to have to fend for yourself. And yes did affect me....but only in a positive. When I was 16 I marched into the bank to get a personal loan with no co-signer.....Almost impossible but got it....at the risk of the bank manager loosing his job....he didn't. I think I have always just been able to fend for myself, and take care of whatever needed to be taken care of. I am still like that......I bought a house young, and pretty self sufficient human being. YOU are a surprise little missy. I would have pegged you for the oldest. For sure.
I find that intersting and loved your answer about it...with me on im..... This is a fun thread Ms. Judy |
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