Topic: Pecking Order
Fade2Black's photo
Mon 01/28/08 12:33 PM

Only child...was adopted at 6 months...but with my birthdad..and his new wife....my birth mother left when i was born...and died on my sons first birthday...never got to met her.
But did find where she was buried..and finally met her kids from another marriage just a few years ago.
And to top it all off....my birth mother...my mom now..and my dad...all knew each other....wow..sounds like a srpinger episode..lol


DAMN DUDE. Sure has the makings. I'll be your agent love smokin

hardnready's photo
Mon 01/28/08 12:36 PM
ne time Judy...lmao...whats your cut?

Totage's photo
Mon 01/28/08 12:38 PM


I'm the oldest and I have 3 younger sisters. No brothers. Made for a stressful time growing up. Always having to "protect" my sisters from all of those boys. I knew what they had on their mind and if you treated one of my sisters bad......you met the angry older brother mad


Now that's what I'M talkin' bout ... makes sense

Totage you go thru that too?


I didn't have to worry too much about my older sister, but I did protect my younger sisters, and tried to help them protect themselves as well.

mommyof1's photo
Mon 01/28/08 12:40 PM




welllll.... bet ya couldnt guess this one but


i am the MIDDLE child! yep outta 5 of us there were 3 of us first, last 2 kids came much later...none the less, i am still and always will be the MIDDLE child! bigsmile


tell us how it affected you ruthie ...




I dont even talk about that with my councelor Judy... NOT gonna talk about it here :wink: flowerforyou



uh oh .. should I wonder if my middle son of 5 kids will need therapy too laugh huh noway laugh



depends... is he gettin all kinds of trouble, hangin out with the wrong crowd??



trueokie2's photo
Mon 01/28/08 12:40 PM
I am the Proud Baby of my siblings (out of 6 children)
3 brothers & 2 sisters

Yep, momma and daddy didn't need any more children after me.

I'm Perfect I keep telling them..bigsmile

cuppy59's photo
Mon 01/28/08 12:41 PM
There are 6 kids in my family.

Brother, brother,me, brother, sister, brother

Youngest died in 2002, shot

fourth in the order died in 2004. froze to death

Order wasn't the issue either. mentally and physically abusive childhood so we all stuck together. We were the half dozen family. It was murder to loose little brothers still young.

tonylee52's photo
Mon 01/28/08 12:44 PM
i am the middle of 3. lmao. sounds like a star trekk thing 9of5 oh well. i was the one that was always doing something and usually it was wrong. lol. the boy with his hand caught in the cookie jar. i guess i still am. lost my brother when he was 28. my sister thinks she is my boss even tho i am older. lol. now what?

cuppy59's photo
Mon 01/28/08 12:48 PM
Tony, let her be boss, Woman have the intuition that men lack. Sorry about that, but i see it in my older brothers and they are 49 and 50

Fade2Black's photo
Mon 01/28/08 12:48 PM

ne time Judy...lmao...whats your cut?


we can work a deal handsome :tongue:

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Mon 01/28/08 12:48 PM
I am the oldest of six.

(In Rodney Dangerfields voice) "I get no respect I'll tell ya-
no respect at all..." ohwell

Fade2Black's photo
Mon 01/28/08 12:48 PM





welllll.... bet ya couldnt guess this one but


i am the MIDDLE child! yep outta 5 of us there were 3 of us first, last 2 kids came much later...none the less, i am still and always will be the MIDDLE child! bigsmile


tell us how it affected you ruthie ...




I dont even talk about that with my councelor Judy... NOT gonna talk about it here :wink: flowerforyou



uh oh .. should I wonder if my middle son of 5 kids will need therapy too laugh huh noway laugh



depends... is he gettin all kinds of trouble, hangin out with the wrong crowd??





not anymore .. found God in his life. now he's rockin flowerforyou drinker

Fade2Black's photo
Mon 01/28/08 12:49 PM

There are 6 kids in my family.

Brother, brother,me, brother, sister, brother

Youngest died in 2002, shot

fourth in the order died in 2004. froze to death

Order wasn't the issue either. mentally and physically abusive childhood so we all stuck together. We were the half dozen family. It was murder to loose little brothers still young.



I'm sorry sweetie. :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:

Totage's photo
Mon 01/28/08 12:49 PM

i am the middle of 3. lmao. sounds like a star trekk thing 9of5 oh well. i was the one that was always doing something and usually it was wrong. lol. the boy with his hand caught in the cookie jar. i guess i still am. lost my brother when he was 28. my sister thinks she is my boss even tho i am older. lol. now what?


I had a single mother, and my older sister would watch me and my younger sisters when she was working, so it was kinda like she was our second mother. She still acts like a second mother with me. laugh

tonylee52's photo
Mon 01/28/08 12:50 PM
cuppy i wouldn't trade her for the world. she does everything for me. i could not have hand picked a better sister. lmao and yes she can boss me

Fade2Black's photo
Mon 01/28/08 12:56 PM
Edited by Fade2Black on Mon 01/28/08 12:56 PM


i am the middle of 3. lmao. sounds like a star trekk thing 9of5 oh well. i was the one that was always doing something and usually it was wrong. lol. the boy with his hand caught in the cookie jar. i guess i still am. lost my brother when he was 28. my sister thinks she is my boss even tho i am older. lol. now what?


I had a single mother, and my older sister would watch me and my younger sisters when she was working, so it was kinda like she was our second mother. She still acts like a second mother with me. laugh


My oldest sister does that with us too, especially me. Gets annoying sometimes, but usually I say ............ "go for it little missy!" laugh laugh laugh

Plus I HATE little details and she lives for them. devil

cuppy59's photo
Mon 01/28/08 12:57 PM


There are 6 kids in my family.

Brother, brother,me, brother, sister, brother

Youngest died in 2002, shot

fourth in the order died in 2004. froze to death

Order wasn't the issue either. mentally and physically abusive childhood so we all stuck together. We were the half dozen family. It was murder to loose little brothers still young.



I'm sorry sweetie. :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:
I am grateful that I was there with the youngest before he passed to the lord. I was able to hold him and kiss him and let him know that it was okay and that someday we would see each other again.

The other, i got a phone call, but couldn't go the identify him so my late husband took that responsibilty on for me. He was my rock and then I lost him in 2006.

cuppy59's photo
Mon 01/28/08 12:58 PM

cuppy i wouldn't trade her for the world. she does everything for me. i could not have hand picked a better sister. lmao and yes she can boss me


Glad you get along so well. Im the one that everyone comes to for help or moral support. Haven't been good at it lately though.

franshade's photo
Mon 01/28/08 12:58 PM
flowerforyou middle child here ~ and love it

catchme_ifucan's photo
Mon 01/28/08 01:02 PM


J/K .. but when I had my first son, I asked the nurse "what do I do with it?" smokin

When I was pregnant & my mom found out she said you don't like kids you have baby animals!!

When Linz was born & she didn't keep anything down in the hosp. she puked & I handed her to the nurse real fast! laugh

catchme_ifucan's photo
Mon 01/28/08 01:04 PM

There are 6 kids in my family.

Brother, brother,me, brother, sister, brother

Youngest died in 2002, shot

fourth in the order died in 2004. froze to death

Order wasn't the issue either. mentally and physically abusive childhood so we all stuck together. We were the half dozen family. It was murder to loose little brothers still young.


flowerforyou (((((((((Cuppy))))))))))) :cry: I'm so sorry