Topic: looks or personality??
jennyjmn720's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:41 PM
i find people that are too good looking very full of themselves and theres nothing more unatractive as that.i love a good personality . i just hate seeing women and men when out with their partners eyeing up the other sex up while stood next to their loved ones.they know they are good looking and just cant help themselves when it comes to flirting!!its so disrespectful in my eyes and makes my blood boil!!explode lol

WHACKEEEONE's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:42 PM


if someone is really physically unattractive, then there is no amount of personality that could save it. but vice versa if someone has a really terrible personality, there is no amount of good looks that could save it.

Gotta have at least a little of both...preferably more personality if I had to choose one.
Thats what I meant


What they said bigsmile

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:42 PM
Awww a little of both for there has to be something that catches your attention then they have to have the personality to keep it. Everyone at least want someone that is pleasing to there eyes. Even tho looks are in the eyes of the beholder for what you may think looks good is not always what I think looks good.bigsmile

And you can't go on looks alone I have seen some real beautiful people that as soon as they opened their mouth they became so very ugly. noway grumble noway

And on the other hand have seen what some call plain or just average shine like the moon as soon as they started talking.bigsmile flowerforyou bigsmile

So actually when it comes down to it it is the way the person presents themselves and what is within that makes it shine even more.bigsmile

wildsideof35's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:43 PM
I rather have the personality and if the looks are great...but everybody sees people differently anyway-no person may think he/she is gorgeous but someone else may think they aren't to them-looks are only skin deep-personality is to the core....weigh your options....:wink:

LadyOfMagic's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:43 PM
I wouldn't say that looks come first to EVERYBODY..most of the guys I've talked to on these kinds of sites didn't even have a pic at all but I got to know them anyways cuz thats just how I am(which is probably why I'm single right now..I think I got some changing to do..lol).

jennyjmn720's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:44 PM

so has anyone ever been disgusted by someone's looks and then found out they were swell, and fell in love??? I doubt it.

never been disgusted by anyones looks i tend to see through that if they arent so appealing to the eye.but no i havent fallen in love either but i wudnt knock it as it hasnt happened.who knows what will happen?

jennyjmn720's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:45 PM


so wheres all the bloody guys then?? lol the majority on here i find only go for the lookers.and to be honest we dont even know if half of the pictures are actually of gorgeous women or are they fakes.we have had a few on here in the past!!laugh

sounds like someones a little jealous lol jk jk
nah not jealous!! far from it..we have had alot of fake women on here and they have been caught red handed!! lollaugh

382's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:46 PM
when i was younger it was all about the "LOOKS". but 20 years and a few relationship later you realize what the personality is all about. but i still think there has to be somewhat of a physical attractions.

jennyjmn720's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:47 PM

jenn, you look great!
blushing thats sweet thanks hun

jennyjmn720's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:47 PM

jenn, you look great!
blushing thats sweet thanks hun

no photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:47 PM



so wheres all the bloody guys then?? lol the majority on here i find only go for the lookers.and to be honest we dont even know if half of the pictures are actually of gorgeous women or are they fakes.we have had a few on here in the past!!laugh

sounds like someones a little jealous lol jk jk
nah not jealous!! far from it..we have had alot of fake women on here and they have been caught red handed!! lollaugh

o ok,well theres fakes on almost every site so wouldnt doubt it lol

Fade2Black's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:47 PM
Neither ...........

CHEMISTRY. If it's not there, I'm done. Sorry.

And it's just an instant thing with me. It is what it is smokin

LadyOfMagic's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:49 PM
As far as being "disgusted" by someones pic..I just don't think people should see people that way..you may be hot today..but you never know whats gonna happen tomorrow to change that..so why not just treat/see people the way you want to be seen/treated.

Myisland50's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:50 PM
Looks or personality?

its all about the "connection". :wink:

One mans junk is another mans treasure. flowerforyou

DebbieJT's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:50 PM
theres got be an attraction ..but that attraction could be that he makes you laugh every day

FireNiceLady1's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:51 PM

Awww a little of both for there has to be something that catches your attention then they have to have the personality to keep it. Everyone at least want someone that is pleasing to there eyes. Even tho looks are in the eyes of the beholder for what you may think looks good is not always what I think looks good.bigsmile

And you can't go on looks alone I have seen some real beautiful people that as soon as they opened their mouth they became so very ugly. noway grumble noway

And on the other hand have seen what some call plain or just average shine like the moon as soon as they started talking.bigsmile flowerforyou bigsmile

So actually when it comes down to it it is the way the person presents themselves and what is within that makes it shine even more.bigsmile


Hear, Hear! drinker bigsmile flowerforyou love




ShyKBear's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:52 PM
See I think men see this differently than women do. Me personally, I go for personality; it more important than looks, but then again attraction plays a roll. Doesn't mean they have to be prince charming.

For most men, it's all about looks and figure; it almost the first thing they look for...if you can't flaunt it...NEXT!

:wink: huh

no photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:52 PM
Ok i am giving this a shot
I took all the pic's of me off
My profile now let see who want's
To be my Friend with out knowing
What i look like just a test in the real world

KennethP5206's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:55 PM

See I think men see this differently than women do. Me personally, I go for personality; it more important than looks, but then again attraction plays a roll. Doesn't mean they have to be prince charming.

For most men, it's all about looks and figure; it almost the first thing they look for...if you can't flaunt it...NEXT!

:wink: huh
Thats not true

soxfan94's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:56 PM

See I think men see this differently than women do. Me personally, I go for personality; it more important than looks, but then again attraction plays a roll. Doesn't mean they have to be prince charming.

For most men, it's all about looks and figure; it almost the first thing they look for...if you can't flaunt it...NEXT!

:wink: huh


Thanks for the broad generalization, men everywhere love being pigeonholed into a class of neanderthals who only care about a woman's measurements.