Topic: looks or personality??
seymourmike's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:34 PM
I say looks gets my attention, and personality keeps me interested.

ybor363's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:34 PM

personality is more important but you have 2 be somewhat mildly attracted 2 someone or you'll never fully connect. ive seen ppl date just on personality cause they weren't attracted 2 that person and it always ends the same.(which is not a good thing)


Amen

jennyjmn720's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:34 PM
happy happy happy blushing



Yes I do .. and I say " looks fade, personality is CORE DEEP" .. :wink: just my opinion tho
good answer just how i think too!!!!:smile:


Well then , from the " looks" of your opinion , you have both going on ....flowerforyou laugh

no photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:35 PM

rite..tell me folks ..do you go for looks first or personality? often enough we could be chatting with people from one day to the next and think god i actually fancy this person, they are so funny and nice.yet not really a looker but i dont give a dam!!theres just something there that makes my heart go boom!! lol know what i mean? personally i go for personality if they are a looker as well then great but it doesnt bother me!



I wouldnt want no ugly ass guy....so im going with looks ahah

jams33's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:35 PM
i have to agree with twotallone...looks fade. What are ya gonna do when your old and decrepit??? You need personality. BUT, looks is what gets you noticed first, out in the real world. Unfortunately, lots of people base everything on looks...and that is very shallow! anyway, i think personality enhances the looks and makes a person more beautiful...you can have a drop dead georgous guy or gal and their personality makes them the ugliest person in the world!

madamx7316's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:35 PM
looks fade...your soul goes on forever

Wolfcub87's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:36 PM
A lil of both, but looks do tend to come 1sthappy

seymourmike's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:37 PM
Sometimes looks are just scary.
:wink:

jennyjmn720's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:37 PM
so wheres all the bloody guys then?? lol the majority on here i find only go for the lookers.and to be honest we dont even know if half of the pictures are actually of gorgeous women or are they fakes.we have had a few on here in the past!!laugh

Dreamer01's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:38 PM
a little bit of both.

seymourmike's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:38 PM
so has anyone ever been disgusted by someone's looks and then found out they were swell, and fell in love??? I doubt it.

paulap's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:38 PM
Well unfortunately I think everyone goes by looks first!! If they didn't I'd have a much better chance!! I have alot to offer, but no one to offer it to!! Have a great weekend!

no photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:38 PM
I've been involved with more than enough cute little airheads; my ex-wife was one. That gets boring really quick. I need someone I can talk to without resorting to nothing more complicated than one-syllable words.

It took me awhile to figure out that I can only get attached to someone with high levels of intellect and creativity -- among other things. I was lucky enough to find someone who is not only the most intelligent and creative person I've ever met, but who also appeals to me on a physical level.


no photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:39 PM

so wheres all the bloody guys then?? lol the majority on here i find only go for the lookers.and to be honest we dont even know if half of the pictures are actually of gorgeous women or are they fakes.we have had a few on here in the past!!laugh

sounds like someones a little jealous lol jk jk

DebbieJT's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:39 PM
lol im a personalty girl ...good looking who is as boring as watching paint dry on a wall just doesnt do it for me...you can only look at really pretty picture for so long before it bores you

wisenconfident's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:40 PM
I think personality goes along way....but there has to be something that baits the hook.................

no photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:40 PM

so wheres all the bloody guys then?? lol the majority on here i find only go for the lookers.and to be honest we dont even know if half of the pictures are actually of gorgeous women or are they fakes.we have had a few on here in the past!!laugh



Not hiding ... speak my mind right up front laugh some people don't wanna hear that tho' ... is ok , its all good flowerforyou

seymourmike's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:41 PM
jenn, you look great!

ZACK777's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:41 PM
Looks are what get relationships started, FIRST IMPRESSIONs are looks more than personality, You walk up to a young beautiful lady and start a conversation, chances are you were physically attracted to them, Although this is not in all cases, it is IMO and this is how it has been for me, looks dont have to be a 10 but I need to feel something physically you know?? And hopefully the persons personality is a winner to and you have a soul mate, if not keep looking

jennyjmn720's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:41 PM
i find people that are too good looking very full of themselves and theres nothing more unatractive as that.i love a good personality . i just hate seeing women and men when out with their partners eyeing up the other sex up while stood next to their loved ones.they know they are good looking and just cant help themselves when it comes to flirting!!its so disrespectful in my eyes and makes my blood boil!!explode lol