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Topic: looks or personality??
jennyjmn720's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:27 PM
Edited by jennyjmn720 on Fri 01/25/08 12:28 PM
rite..tell me folks ..do you go for looks first or personality? often enough we could be chatting with people from one day to the next and think god i actually fancy this person, they are so funny and nice.yet not really a looker but i dont give a dam!!theres just something there that makes my heart go boom!! lol know what i mean? personally i go for personality if they are a looker as well then great but it doesnt bother me!

foresight's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:28 PM
looks drinker

no photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:28 PM
Yes I do .. and I say " looks fade, personality is CORE DEEP" .. :wink: just my opinion tho

KennethP5206's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:29 PM
Bothflowerforyou

jennyjmn720's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:29 PM

Yes I do .. and I say " looks fade, personality is CORE DEEP" .. :wink: just my opinion tho
good answer just how i think too!!!!:smile:

itsjustdave's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:29 PM
Edited by itsjustdave on Fri 01/25/08 12:31 PM
Personality can make anyone beautiful and vise versa!


no photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:29 PM
I definitely know what you speak of!

Give me intelligence & a great personality any day.




Looks die as some begin to open their mouth.
Go figure.

*shrug*

KennethP5206's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:30 PM

rite..tell me folks ..do you go for looks first or personality? often enough we could be chatting with people from one day to the next and think god i actually fancy this person, they are so funny and nice.yet not really a looker but i dont give a dam!!theres just something there that makes my heart go boom!! lol know what i mean? personally i go for personality if they are a looker as well then great but it doesnt bother me!
Are you talking about me?

TristanBru's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:30 PM
I'll go for a girl who my be a little plain in the looks department, if her personality is good.

soxfan94's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:30 PM
if someone is really physically unattractive, then there is no amount of personality that could save it. but vice versa if someone has a really terrible personality, there is no amount of good looks that could save it.

Gotta have at least a little of both...preferably more personality if I had to choose one.

ybor363's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:30 PM
Everyone has standards, me included, but i've had a big range of girls, but i'd say personality for an actual relationship. If it's just a fling, don't expect it to go anywhere, i'd say looks.

jennyjmn720's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:31 PM
laugh laugh laugh


rite..tell me folks ..do you go for looks first or personality? often enough we could be chatting with people from one day to the next and think god i actually fancy this person, they are so funny and nice.yet not really a looker but i dont give a dam!!theres just something there that makes my heart go boom!! lol know what i mean? personally i go for personality if they are a looker as well then great but it doesnt bother me!
Are you talking about me?

Scinn's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:31 PM
I'm all for a personality :) When we're 80 we'll all look the same (assuming we make it to 80 lol), not to mention: as a *general* rule, the very attractive people are the ones who are stuck up and self centered, so concerned about everything they want they don't have time to realize that some things in life are a two way street. While the rest of us understand that life is a two way street, and while everyone else was primping their hair, we were primping our attitudes on life.

KennethP5206's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:32 PM

if someone is really physically unattractive, then there is no amount of personality that could save it. but vice versa if someone has a really terrible personality, there is no amount of good looks that could save it.

Gotta have at least a little of both...preferably more personality if I had to choose one.
Thats what I meant

no photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:32 PM


Yes I do .. and I say " looks fade, personality is CORE DEEP" .. :wink: just my opinion tho
good answer just how i think too!!!!:smile:


Well then , from the " looks" of your opinion , you have both going on ....flowerforyou laugh

jennyjmn720's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:33 PM

Everyone has standards, me included, but i've had a big range of girls, but i'd say personality for an actual relationship. If it's just a fling, don't expect it to go anywhere, i'd say looks.
thats very true, if theres no feelings or emotions then yeh thats a good way at looking at it.

Bowie22's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:33 PM
personality is more important but you have 2 be somewhat mildly attracted 2 someone or you'll never fully connect. ive seen ppl date just on personality cause they weren't attracted 2 that person and it always ends the same.(which is not a good thing)

LadyOfMagic's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:33 PM
Personality always..looks fade..a good heart won't..Theres is something that I don't think people understand..You could be the hottest person ever to walk the earth but open your mouth and something rude/evil/just plain wrong comes out..THAT to me brings your looks down ALOT.

Starhawk's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:33 PM
50/50.........

itsmetina's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:33 PM
little of both

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