Topic: confused- should i forget about him? | |
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he jus t go t u on rotation
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be good sweetie, youll blow your cover.
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LMAO I know...after being in the ****s for almost 2 years dealing with dishonestly and bull,having someone say those comforting words to me just felt nice i think maybe thats why i catched feelings.
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I had this same BS happen to me! Seriously, don't waste your time on this guy. You're totally hot and deserve someone to make you feel amazing! Good luck
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lol aw thanks april.
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Edited by
LLH5
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Thu 01/24/08 10:01 PM
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Don't make someone your priority, when they make you their option.
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Sorry babe....he's playing a game and testing you how far he can push you.....I would dump his ass, no woman deserves that ****....Either he has to grow up and just say sorry it's not working out or make that commitment to stick around and see what happens.....Good luck babe!
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move on... ur pretty dont waste ur time, theres more fish in the sea!
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move forward
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Player. Push delete on his ass.
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"Don't make someone your priority, when they make you their option."
LLH5, I like that one a lot!!!! I will have to remember that. plus-size hang in there, this kind of crap happens to me a lot. I am like you, if I like someone, I WANT to talk to them often. I think he may be married or have someone. What if you just confronted him and asked him why he does you like that? Good luck and hang in there! We have all been there. |
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"Don't make someone your priority, when they make you their option." LLH5, I like that one a lot!!!! I will have to remember that. plus-size hang in there, this kind of crap happens to me a lot. I am like you, if I like someone, I WANT to talk to them often. I think he may be married or have someone. What if you just confronted him and asked him why he does you like that? Good luck and hang in there! We have all been there. Can't claim it as my own. I read it somewhere. It has helped me several times when deciding what to do. |
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I hope I won't have to use that because I am being treated badly again, but it is good to keep in mind when it is needed.
My friend told me once her grandma used to say. "Don't let him occupy space in your head, if he's not paying the rent" Another good one to think about and use when you need a good reminder. |
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Hell I have a lot of space in my head.
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first of all i want to welcome u to jsh i think u should just leave him alone ur pretty go find someone else who will respect u for who u r. u deserve the best! take care...best of luck to u!
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All I can say is trust your gut.... if you are feeling like somethings not right it probably isn't. I have met a couple guys who called and texted all the time but were almost always unavailable on the weekends.... turns out one had a fiance and the other was getting back with a ex girlfriend.... so trust your gut... would have saved me lots of hurt and wasted time if I would have listened to my gut... Good luck....
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Thats all fine and dandy- i mean ok,so you met someone else..tell me. I think im just too available he's just keeping me around as an "option".I'd just like to know why people play mind games for? honestly,we're all adults. Grow up and be honest . IS finding a person who is honest and sincere really that hard these days? I'm sorry, but it sounds like this dude has a very active sex life, and you're only there as a fallback measure, someone to sleep with if all other options become unavailable (like if he suffers through a dry spell because other women are reading him as a genuine ****, no pun intended). |
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And he didn't give an explanation? Yes, you should forget about Houdini, and try antoher man (perhaps me?). Althoguh, i've been stood up by a woman numerous times. I'm supposed to be meeting the latest lady Houdini June 21, but we'll see.
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Hey all ,first time poster (be nice) lol. OK...so the situation i have is , i met a guy and at first i would hear from him everday he would send me cute little messages - like hey babe good morning,i miss your comfy arms(lol) etc..then all of a sudden he was frauding me on dates(two), meaning he would set a time and date,but be a no show,no calls or messages..nothing. Then the day after he would send me a message sayin again "hey babe" completley ignoring the fact he frauded me,said not one word about it ,except sorry. Now i hear from him like every 4 days, he pulls a houdini and vanishes on the weekends. If in fact he isnt interested in me,why would he continue sending cute messages and whatnot. Its just a huge change,like i said earlier we talked everyday for hours on the phone and now...nothing...a message a couple times a week. Is he leading me on? playing games? should i just let it go and move on. Correct me if im wrong,because i thought if you truly liked a person that you would WANT to talk to them all the time(and its not due to a busy schedule with him) ((( NEXT ))) |
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