lol aw thanks april.

LMAO I know...after being in the ****s for almost 2 years dealing with dishonestly and bull,having someone say those comforting words to me just felt nice i think maybe thats why i catched feelings.

Thats all fine and dandy- i mean ok,so you met someone else..tell me. I think im just too available he's just keeping me around as an "option".I'd just like to know why people play mind games for? honestly,we're all adults. Grow up and be honest . IS finding a person who is honest and sincere really that hard these days?

Hey all ,first time poster (be nice) lol. OK...so the situation i have is , i met a guy and at first i would hear from him everday he would send me cute little messages - like hey babe good morning,i miss your comfy arms(lol) etc..then all of a sudden he was frauding me on dates(two), meaning he would set a time and date,but be a no show,no calls or messages..nothing. Then the day after he would send me a message sayin again "hey babe" completley ignoring the fact he frauded me,said not one word about it ,except sorry.

Now i hear from him like every 4 days, he pulls a houdini and vanishes on the weekends. If in fact he isnt interested in me,why would he continue sending cute messages and whatnot. Its just a huge change,like i said earlier we talked everyday for hours on the phone and now...nothing...a message a couple times a week. Is he leading me on? playing games? should i just let it go and move on. Correct me if im wrong,because i thought if you truly liked a person that you would WANT to talk to them all the time(and its not due to a busy schedule with him)